New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I'm confused because he hugs other girls as well, help!!

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (27 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *Hallelujahx writes:

Theres a guy at school, who i knows likes me but i don't think i like him in that way, but there is a guy that i kinda like and i was talking to my friends about the guy that likes me and the guy that i like was there too and he's friends with the guy that likes me but he said to me "I don't think you should go out with him"

I sit next to the guy i like in school and everytime he walks to his seat, his hand always seems to brush against my back, and i was just sitting there talking to my friend, when he just put his head on my shoulder and stayed for a bit there sort of smiling. And there was another time when I was sitting there fiddling with my hands and all of a sudden he strokes my fingers!! (only for like 3 secs)

But i thought he was in to alot skinner girls than me (I'm not fat, just curvy, honest!) but he's hugs other girls aswell....ahhrggh I'm confused and sorry that the question is abit confusing.am i reading to much in to this and is he just being friendly and harmlesly flirting??...plz help!!

View related questions: flirt

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, ISOHaven United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

I agree with Janicp14. I'm a hugger myself. I love to give hugs and love to receive them even more. But there's a major difference between giving someone a friendly hug and giving someone a HUG!!! Does he hug any one person in particular any different?

Be more open with him. Make sure he knows how you feel. Maybe he doesn't think he's getting anywhere with you? Communication is key!

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Janicp14 Canada +, writes (27 February 2009):

He COULD be just a really friendly guy, but he is definitely showing some interest in you, whether it be platonic or romantic. Try to relax around him and talk to him as just a friend, this will allow you to gauge what you're allowed to do around him, and eventually will tell you if his feelings for you may be stronger. Take it slowly, time WILL tell!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I'm confused because he hugs other girls as well, help!!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.03125!