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Should I tell her that I'm a virgin?

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Question - (27 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A male Canada age 36-40, *GB writes:

Should i tell a girl i been on a couple dates that im a virgin? Im 22, she is 27 and definitely not a virgin, lol. Please reply soon cause im suppose to see her tommorrow.... Thanks a bunch

*Mod Note: Fixed some txt speak. Please try to write out the words next time.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

Honeypie agony auntI guess if the subject comes up you can tell her. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

Be aware of her body language and please don't be afraid to ask her what she likes.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009):

Thanks for the advice everyone. I guess, i'll wait to tell her or maybe just let things flow, the only thing im worried about is that i get performance anxiety when with a girl. So if i dont get it up in bed, that will be pretty shitty too... happened before, not cool.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2009):

No. Why would she want to know? She's interested in you not your sexual history.

If the subject comes up then tell her you are not that experienced, and don't lie if she asks you directly.

But other than that, announcing your virginity will just worry her, she may even not want to be "your first" as she doesn't want it to be complicated.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

jessica04 agony auntIf your relationship with her is obviously progressing towards the bedroom, then yes, I would make mention of it at some point closer to that time.

If you're in the dating phase still, then I don't see why it needs to come up yet. But that's just me.

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