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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Help! I can't stop thinking about this guy. We started seein each other beginning of january. The last time I saw him was 10 days ago. He lives about an hour away. And since then he only texts back after i do first. I've only talked to him on the phone once since and I called him then. Sometimes I think if he wasnt interested he wouldn't even bother texting back or answer the phone. But I would like to see him more often. Does this mean he's not that interested in me or should I give it more time? or does this sound normal. What should I do? Do you think he's just busy?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 Gosh I cant believe you are aged 36-40, the way you speak is more like a teenager! This all sounds fairly childish - when one person makes more effort than the other it is clear something is not quite right! If he was interested then yes he would text you first or call more often.
But if you are seeing each other then he must be at least slightly interested. So talk to him, ask him if he sees the relationship going anywhere. Tell him you want to see him more often and see what he says.
If he is still acting the same way after you talk to him then I guess you have to accept that he isnt interested.
I hope this helps!
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