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writes:I'm heading into my senior year. There is this guy and he is turning 21 in September. I'll be 17 soon. But age is not the problem. He has this girlfriend who he has been with for like 5 years now. I think he wants to break up with her, but I also think he doesn't wanna hurt her. Over the summer between my sophomore and junior year we started hanging more often. Like we got really close talking online for hours at a time. I feel that I can trust him with anything. He feels the same about me to. But we have started meeting just to make-out or see each other and fool around. I feel really bad about it, because of his girlfriend. But I think i've fallen for him. He is so sweet and romantic. I wish I could tell him how I really feel, this is the only thing I haven't told him. Lately i've been trying not to talk to him about meeting up to fool around. But it's really hard because I really wanna! He is always telling how beautiful, and how smart I am. He has helped me through some of the hardest times throughout high school. If you have any advice please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Hiya, i've been in this exact situation! and trust me its better to stop things now before things go any further and you get really hurt....recently the guy i have been meeting up with dropped me and now doesnt talk to me at all cause his gf found out. He was just using me and i was 2nd best.. just wanted me when his gf wasnt around.
so please stop things before you get really hurt. Guys like this hurt anyone so they can be happy and get their own way all the time.I've been with way too many guys like it. They all seem so sweet but a lot of the time its just an act so you stay with them. Any guy who can cheat on his gf of 5 years is not worth it as what do you think hes going to do to you?!
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): I think you have made a wise and sensible decision. Good luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to everyone!
As of two days ago, I told him that I think it would be best if we stopped meeting up and fooling around. But after I told him that I felt like I had made the biggest mistake of my life. But I think i'm gonna try the advice you all gave me.
I'm gonna try to move on and not sneak around with him anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): I would suggest you stop "fooling" around with this man, at least untill he has the decency to finish with his current girlfriend. Then he will be available to date you properly instead of hiding you away.
What he is doing is called cheating, it is not nice, it hurts other people and you are helping him do this. Remember what your doing cause it won't feel nice when somebody does it to you. If you get together, it is likely that this man will probably cheat on you too.
But perhaps I'm jumping to conclusion and this man has no intention of leaving his girlfriend for you. You "makeout" with him and "fool" around and he dosen't even know you like him. It could be that you are the "fool" here and merely his "bit on the side".
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reader, Gio  +, writes (22 May 2008):
Just think what he is doing now to his girlfriend, could be doing to you later.
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