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writes:Hi all i'm back again thanks all for the help on my last Q but that is not why im here i have a new problem.I have known a girl just over 2 years now, she is younger than me and we met through a friend, we get on a like a house on fire. She could easily be the female oposite of me, (better looking me of course).I really really like her and have done - all this time. I told her how I felt a while back, but she told me she just wants to be friends. She then went out with a guy for just over a year who treated her like crap and still kind of stalks her till this day. Now i would love to go out with her and have tried to get just us two out, but things have kept coming up to stop that. We do see each other through going out with friends, and when we are together we flirt, have fun and just get on so well. I just feel if i open up again and tell her how much i like her i may get hurt again.So i'm guessing my new Question is...what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): I would hang out with her, get closer and show her a good time... basically take her on dates without the 'date' term being mentioned as it might scare her off or make things more serious. If she starts seeing that you're a great guy she might develop more feelings for you and it could lead to what you want. you could casually mention that you're still interested and would love to date her. but don't act too desperate... just say it smoothly and leave it... change the subject and let her think about it. Put that thought in her head again because sometimes us girls are thick and we need a gentle reminder that someone likes us. Good Luck!
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reader, Aeval  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 Have you got her number? Try to get it and give her a call, I suggest just ask her out. Don't scare off by comming on too strong or by trying to start a relationship too fast. Just ask her out as mates for a drink and see what happnes!!
Best of luck!!!
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