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Did my calling him have any effect on him? Does he like me?

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Question - (21 May 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My crush send me a message that he's going deployed next thursday to Asia. So, I called him on the phone to wish him good luck. He was very surprised mainly cuz he's stationed in NC and I'm in Fla. so we keep contact by email.

In his message he did said he was going to keep in touch and when I spoke with he did too.

Because I was quite nervous I forgot to tell him how much I thaked him for being nice.

He replied me later, there's no need for that cuz he enjoys our friendship and that he'll be in touch. But this time he send me his new base address and he even send copy to that address of his reply to have the email saved.

What do you think? Does he likes me?

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (28 May 2008):

PeterPan agony auntFantastic!! I'm happy for you!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

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Hi. He wrote me today I'm so happy that he did. No matter what he wants I think he at least is making the effort to have a relationship ( friendship or whatever) with me. Thanks a lot!

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A female reader, Lily Moll United States +, writes (21 May 2008):

Sounds friendly on his end. He was surprised when you called him, but if he liked you, wouldn't he have called you? At the very least, his first reaction would have been "glad you called" vs. "surprised you called." Everything else sounds friendly about this as well. Giving you his address might simply be so that you can send him mail and/or packages-- it can be lonely in a new place, and it's always nice to receive mail from people you know. However, while he is away, your correspondence could increase, and feelings could develop. Here is a secret-- if people move to a new place where they don't know many people, they are often lonely. If you make yourself available, you might find that the two of you will talk a lot more, and become closer emotionally, though the distance between you has increased. Be careful, though, because he is going to be so far away, and inevitably, he will meet people, and become more at home there, and he might spend less time and energy corresponding with you. Take care.

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (21 May 2008):

PeterPan agony auntSounds promising to me!

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