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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year now and he is my first love. He has been engaged before me, and says that he didn't have sex with his ex; and I believed him. Until I found a photograph of him lying on his back handcuffed naked to a bed, a Winnie the Pooh teddy covering his private parts. When I found this photo in an old album of him and his ex; I was really hurt. He claimed that he took the photo using an auto timer for "a laugh", but I highly doubt this (because he hates his body.) He looked me in the eye and tried to convince me that he took this photo as a joke. Why would he take this photo if he hates his body? Could he be quick enough to "pose" for this shot? Do you think his ex took it?I'm not bothered by that fact that he may have slept with someone before me; it's the fact that he may have lied to me and said he lost his virginity to me. Why would he lie about how many sexual partners he's had?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): I'd be concerned about the lying too. Tell him you don't believe him and ask him why he lied. Trust is very important in a relationship. Tell him this, and talk more about it.
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reader, in.need.of.help  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 yes he is lying how would he set the timer to sake the picture if the had cuffs were on and how did he put the bear there if the hand cuffs were on? and yeah its a lie and if ift was in with the album of him and his ex im sure she was there!
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