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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I feel controlled by my girlfriend, but I wonder if I am the one in the wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm having problems with my girlfriend but im not sure if it is me who is in the wrong. I'm 30 and she is nearly 27. We have been going out 4 mths now, and I normally see her a few times a week. However she doesnt like me arranging social a...

I'm worried that I look too young! How can I look older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I know most people are concerned about ageing and looking older than their years, but I'm worried that I look TOO young! I'm 23 years old, and I'm often mistaken for 16 or younger. Once or twice I have even been mistaken for 12 (of course this ...

We would text all the time. Now he won't reply. I don't mind if he doesn't fancy me anymore, I just want my friend back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I have been texting this guy that is around my age...a few months younger. We flirt all the time and he always compliments me which makes me feel really good and also makes me like him more. For example, if we see eachother that night and I am ...

I need to tell him how much I like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm 17 years old and just graduated from high school. I like a guy who is turning 17 August 9th. I've liked him for about 5-6 months now and I'm not sure if he knows I like him. We've been best friends for two years now. After getting advice from my ...

I've dumped my boyfriend once before and regreted it. I don't want to make the same mistake again for a guy that comes off as a player.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and I had this friend for a while. We dated for a few weeks and I gave into peer pressure and dumped him. We became best friends but I regretted it everyday of my life for about 7 months, when we started dating again. We've been dating for 2 ...

Could it be because he can't betray his dead wife's memory?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Other people said we looked good together on the dance floor, and we have so much in common its uncanny. we are roughly the same age and just by coincidence he lives in a small town a long way away, but I have a flat that I rent out just virtually ...

I feel she's changed, and now it's making me feel very insecure. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Since she got back from holiday she has been different. We were very much in love. Telling each other every day how we felt. Since she has been back we have been different. She doesn't tell me h...

Do women like being told straight-up that you fancy them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi everybody. I really like this woman at work and have done so for a couple of years. However, I only see her about 2/3 days a week usually, though when we are around each other we get on well. I don't know if she likes me, but I just have to t...

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my fr...

When I like someone, my old shyness problem awakens again. Why can't I be myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Well i thought i had dealt with this problem, and i have for the most part, but when i like someone my old shyness problem awakens again. And because of this anyone i like - i cant act normal and like myself around because of how i lock up. But this...

Confused about my ex and feeling really blue, again! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I have wrote on here before and got some really good advice, but im afraid i need help again over the same sort of problem. For background see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/confused-about-my-ex-and-feel-really-blue.html well its been ...

I felt he must have thought something of me, or am I being silly here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I cant make this guy out. I met him on holiday we didnt have sex although he was trying his best every day!!! He got angry becasue I didnt, but then when he returned back he emailed me and asked to meet up, and we did, a few days later (he doesnt ...

All 3 fancy me, so which one do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - well basically ive known these three guys since primary school till now, and we've all been good friends. All three of them fancied me at some stage in primary school but i have found out over the last couple of weeks that they all still do. proble...

I'm heartbroken. I want to confront him about what I discovered, but I don't want him to know how I found out. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for only like a month. i have fallen pretty hard for him. everything about him is perfect to me...and everything always seems to fall into place. the other day he lost his cell phone and i found it today at my house. I...

Should I give it one more shot with my ex or move on this other great guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - my ex and i had been apart for 3 months and then here he comes (lets name him Will) and saying that he made a mistake and learned what he did wrong and asks me if i want to give it another go. and i still had feelings for Will. thing is our friend ...

I have had it with this guy and don't want to see him anymore, but my Dad doesn't back me up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping someone can help me with my problem. (i'm sorry it's running long)There was this guy from my church who really likes me. In the very beginning, he was sweet and really polite and fun to ahng out with, yet he is an illegal citizen ...

Why do I feel so sad over this guy? I'm not even going out with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Why do i feel so sad over this guy that im not even going out with? I feel like crying. He likes someone else..i dont know what to do..i have never felt like this about any guy before. im trying to move on but i cant. what should i do?...

Why did he pretend that he didn't call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - The guy that i like called me 3 times last night but i couldnt answer because i didnt have my phone with me that night. He left a message, but when i emailed him asking if he called he says "no why baby?" why did he pretend as if he didnt call me? a ...

Should I move on and forget about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - The guy that i like called me 3 times last night but i couldnt answer because i didnt have my phone with me that night. then he left a message. i emailed him asking if he called he says "no why baby?" why did he pretend as if he didnt call me? a few ...

How long should I wait before I make a move on this guy who broke up with his long term girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - How long should a girl wait before making a move on a guy who recently broke up with his girlfriend of 3 yrs because she cheated on him? He sms'd me once and seemed to show some interest in me by starting a conversation with me at a party but i kind ...

I've been rejected... again. What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi yet again I have been rejected. I don't know how much more rejection I can take anymore. I don't want to spend the rest of my life on my own but I'm so hurt at the moment. Last year my long term live in partner dumped me for someone he...

How can I talk to my girlfriend and be closer to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - hi i am 14 and my gf is 13. we have been dating 4 a year and a half now. i realy love her. but this summer we have talked about 3 times. wat do i do to be more closer to her. and wat do i say to her. she likes alot of thigs so just give me a topic ...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

Should I stay in my relationship if I'm not really happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We haven't been intimate yet. I know it's because he is paranoid about pregnancy. I went on birth control; the mirena, so I can't get pregnant in 5 years. I live with my mom and siblings and ...

My g/f has trust issues because most of my friends are girls. It's so annoying!.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. ...

I'm torn between my ex-husband and my boyfriend! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. My very soon to be ex husband left me and our two younger children at the time ages 2months and 2years. He left me for his ex girlfriend who was is very first. I was a stay at home mom that was a full time student. I was so hurt he ...

Does he chat with her instead of spending time with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend had this girl add him on Msn, he doesnt know who she is and she started talking about sex and trying to have cyber sex with him. I told him i wasnt too happy about it (he would go mad if it was me!) He says he deleted her and doesnt t...

How can I get to know the guy from the pub?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi I really like a guy in my local town and he goes down to the pub alot with some of his guy friends... but i dont really know him and he doesnt know me..? how can i get to know him, my friend knows him and she is trying to play matchmaker and s...

His parents hate me and control him. What do we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - My friend i've liked alot we got together and for a week it was good, but i found out his mother hated me, took his phone off him and because he hasnt got a job stopped all his money just so he couldn't see me (he's 18). So i broke up with him and ...

My ex cheated on me and we broke up, but I still can't stop think about her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I recently finished with my girlfriend who was cheating on me with another boy. She denied it all and we are still apart because of this. I have met a couple of girls since we have finished but I feel nothing for them and all i can think about is my ...

Despite warning about this lad and knowing that he's no good - I can't stay away from him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - I know I risk sounding naive in this question, but I need some answers really badly. Ok, my problem mainly involves me, my best friend and a boy (I say boy, but he's 18 nearly 19 so this classes him as a man). Im about to turn 16 and have a boy mate ...

Best not to contact him, stay silent and see if he contacts me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have been a bit too full on with this guy and contacting him too often and I think he is fed up with it-so I feel like giving it one last shot and try the reverse and hold back and be hard to get. Do you think it could be worth a try in the old ...

I can't figure out what this man wants from me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I recently started "seeing" a man I used have feelings for. Now I can't figure out what he wants. He says he is looking for a serious relationship, but I'm afraid he's just spending time with me until he finds what he's looking for. When we are ...

I love a man who is still married, but separated for 10 years, his wife will not sign divorce papers, I want to marry him, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old lady that has been dating a special man for over two years. A month ago, I found out that he was still married to his "ex-wife" but they have been separated for ten years. She has moved on to someone else and had ...

We are both young, but we want to get married, please give us your opinion on our situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - i'm 21 years old and my fiance is 20 although alot of ppl think we are still to yong to get married we've thought about it and talked about it and have come to the conclution that we just can live without eachother and we want to get married. we ...

Did I do something wrong or does she really need more sleep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I am kind of confussed about something and need help. You see there is a girl that I worked with and I liked her a lot, now she left the job and we still kept talking. She started a new job and she works most of the week from 3 to 11. Now I asked ...

I want to go out with my good friend my age but two grades behind me in school. How can I ask without risking losing his friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - there's this guy I've known since I was really little. We're best friends. He even lives just across the street from me! See, my problem is that he's a little less than a year younger than me. But he's 2 grades below me! I think he likes me... AL...

How do I ask a friend for a date? I'd like to get involved, but I'm afraid of losing him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i really, reallly like this guy, but he's a pretty good friend of mine. i'm worried that if i tell him or ask him out and he doesn't return my feelings, he'll pull away from me. also, his friend told me he liked me, but i have no idea if he was ...

Is there anything I can do, to prevent C or my ex, B from making up bad lies about me to A?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Im 19 and I went to school with this guy (lets call him A) who recently sent me a message over msn. We havent really seen or spoke to each other since school, just the odd 'hi how are you' when we run into each other at places. In school we werent...

Everything is happening at once and I'm stressed and confused. How do I prioritise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - ok i need help! im in yr 12 and doing my last 10 weeks of schooling before my final exams. i am completely stressed out already because in this final year everything happens!!..the ball, u go out more and experience more, u get ur licence, u get a...

I'm starting to have feelings for my big brother's best friend. I don't know how to go about the situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Ok, so my problem is that I'm starting to have feelings for my big brother's best friend, I'm almost certain he likes me too, but I'm 17 (almost 18) and he's 22! I just don't know how to go about the situation because we hardly ever get to see each ...

He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...

Am I wrong for giving him an ultimatum to not be in his child's life?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Am I wrong for asking him to not be in the child's life cause honestly I dont think I can handle it if he is, because that means he will have to be in this OW's life as well for the child's sake. He has no business with them. I dont think I'm wrong ...

How do I ask out the girl I never see?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Cupid: I like lady-like women, the kind that are morally absolute and would make a good mother, wife and professionals. This being said, I met this girl in a group situation (several sessions) who was very intelligent and attractive and s...

I have absolutely no confidence, please can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - i have absolutely no confidence and cannot have a conversation with girls and some boys. I have a bone displacement in my nose which makes me embarassed and when someone tries to talk to me I try to hide it by looking away, even though they woul...

Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out ...

How can I stop my boyfriend from worrying about him not pleasing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've never had an orgasm, i've been having sex with this one guy for a few weeks and he is really worried that i don't enjoy it, which just makes it harder for me to relax. I don't know how to stop him worrying??? ...

Why was he so angry when I kissed him, yet he was happy to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not ...

I want to marry this man. He is phenominal. But I'm not sure he'll ever ask.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating my guy for over a year and a half. We've both been married before. Currently no kids. We're both established. And own our own homes. For the entire length of our relationship I've lived about 100 miles away from him and I b...

My ex had the opportunity to break up from his GF as promised, but he did not do so! Can I trust that he will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - hiya well i told my ex i still loved him and he told me he did too. but he hasn't dumped his gf yet. but he says he will.then his mate told his gf that she was dumped she asked him and said that it wasn't true. that was his perfect oppurtun...