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writes:hi i am 14 and my gf is 13. we have been dating 4 a year and a half now. i realy love her. but this summer we have talked about 3 times. wat do i do to be more closer to her. and wat do i say to her. she likes alot of thigs so just give me a topic plz. Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel (:  +, writes (1 August 2008):
There are so many things you can talk to her about .
But take her out somewhere , just you and her things may be a bit quiet at first but conversation will start soon enough .
If you start talking to her about things you dont normally talk to her about she's guna think theres something up.
whatever you do don't take her to the cinema , theres nothing worse for conversation.
Good luck hun :)
xxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 July 2008):
religion politics books music, future plans, dreams in life, school, that tree outside the classroom.
If you have clicked together then you really should have no problem talking about anything. My husband and I had a 10 minute conversation about this weird vegetable we found in the supermarket.
If you just sit in silence then really why are you together? You should be able to talk to her as a friend.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, normski +, writes (31 July 2008):
 First thing you gotta do is communicate, just picking a random topic isn't gonna make it any easier. You should both talk about things you enjoy doing as a couple and then set some time aside for you both. I know you're young but if she likes you for the guy you are then patience is the key. Love is very mysterious sometimes n certain things can take a long time. Give her a passionate hug everyday and tell her you love her, maybe even a gift(nothing too fancy mind). Sometimes even that can make a difference.
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reader, tryin2helpu +, writes (31 July 2008):
 hey, im fourteen also, i would just ask her how her family is, how she's doing, how is she feeling, stuff like that, just ask whatever comes to mind, tell her u miss her, ask her about her day. if anything bad ahs happened talk to her about, thats all i can rally think of
keep my posted
good luck
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