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Dating: Help and advice

What does "cute little fellow" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - I have a question for the ladies. What exactly does a girl mean when she calls you(a guy) a cute little fellow? I was described as such by a girl and she has refused to explain to me what she meant by that. What does it really mean?...

What is important during foreplay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - I'm really self conscious sexually. I'm just really scared of embarrassing myself. I need some really basic advice on foreplay. As much detail as possible. What way do you like the penis to be touched during foreplay? What gets a man going? W...

Where can I find a decent man? I've tried all the suggestions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - When I read various problems from other people and have one myself similar-I always smile when people say dump him get out there and find a man who really loves you. I dont think there are many men who want love or a steady woman or girl friend. ...

I'm having a breakdown due to my possessiveness over this guy! I hate myself...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - hi, im not sure if this is about a relationship or not but im havig a bit of a breakdown i think the guy im seeing who i love very very much is always out and abotu i seehim when i can etc and normally it doesnt bother me the last two days i havnt...

This girl likes me because I'm an A-hole!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - I'm getting with this girl who's great,but she told me she likes "assholes".. I used to be one and I didn't even realize that girls like me because of it. I somehow became a nice guy.. an now I realize she likes me when I'm an asshole or tough - ...

How can I get to know this girl that I see around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - need some urgent help. Seen this girl on social networking website, ive seen her around but never spoken. i hardly see her. i think she is very pretty and she is single. how can i get to know her? how can i ask for her msn? and make sure she ...

I had a terrible, vivid dream about my boyfriend and his ex! Could it mean something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - Hi there, Well last night i had this terrible dream, about my boyfriend going back to poland to see his ex-gf. And i followed him. And we met up and his ex-gf was pissed that i came, and so on. But we ended up staying at her house. I had my own room...

Do I still have a shot with him?

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4 July 2008 (F) - in the beginning of my freshman year i had a BIG CRUSH on this guys name Alfredo. (Alfredo was a sophmore, we didnt had any classes 2gether including lunch) By February of the 2nd semester we finally started 2 talk we exchange numbers. we were ...

I'm 7 months pregnant and he's not serious about me, how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - hi i really need some advice,im 7months preg for a man that i have been on and off with the last 4years..we were never serious with each other,u might aswel say it was just for fun!!he will be around for his baby thank god..but i just feel lost at ...

He thinks a woman's only goal is to steal a man's money...how do I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - he lives at home and ive suggested we buy a house but he says he wont because women are only after money and he would prefer to get his own, he doesn't ever want kids and i do, he never wants to get married because women steal the mans money. im not ...

How can I rekindle what we once had? Please help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - This may be long, so please bear with me. I had been in an 8 year marriage, which ended 2 years ago, due to always arguing, taking each other for granted and other issues. After we split, I moved into my parents house and had a couple of short ...

Why does he say he has no time in his life for me yet tells me he wants to marry me? Does this make sense?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - hopefully someone can help me find the answers on this one. Why would a man persistently tell you he wants to settle down and marry you every time you speak to him, but then make no effort to contact you . When I have asked him is this what...

What does it mean when he stared at me and not her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - Ok, this one time I was standing off to one side and He was less then a foot away. lets say her name is katrina and she was closer to him then I was. u think he stare at the prettier of the two which in this case is katrina. he barely gave her a ...

I met a man on holiday recently but he says he wants to keep it "platonic". Could he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - I met a man of about aged 55ish fairly recently on holiday. He stood by a couple he met in the hotel also next to me and he said "I wish I was better looking and didnt look like I do" (I liked him) and realised that comment was for my benefit ...

Does he see me as girlfriend material??

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4 July 2008 (F) - hey :) i am in need of help..... man issues... =/ This guy i sort of like was online on facebook.... he was idle though (inactive for 10 minutes) i said hi .... no reply.... he had been online all day acually,idle though, and then briefly went off...

Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, a...

He wants a 'break'...do I sit and wait this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - hi, i've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and for the last week we've been havin complications in the relationship. one which meant me seein a side of him i dont like. and now he has turned round an said he wants time out, time to think ...

Is my bf wrong to do this? Is this fair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - hi, i just wanted to know if this is fair on me?...my boyfriend has secretly been meeting a girl he used to fancy and go on walks with. he has been telling everything about our relationship to her. and everything bad. she has emailed back to me ...

I like this boy but think I've scared him away, what should I do?

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4 July 2008 (F) - there's a boy i really really like and we used to be quite good friends, we still are but ever since i've liked him i've become quite clingy to him and i think it's scared him away and now we barely talk as much and i think i'm starting to like him ...

I'm confused about my love life, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - hi!!!!! lifez becoming hard to me and i really need some advice to my problem wel in brief i was in luv with a guy for 2 years and everything was going on wel until 1day i came to know that my boyfriend is a big flirt;he dated many ;i c...

Should I give him up as a lost cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I'll try and keep this short.. I'd really appreciate some other peoples opinions on this, especially guys. My last relationship ended in Jan this year - we were together 2 years and engaged, it was a messy break up and I got hurt pretty bad. My ...

What's the clue that a western boy wanna go to bed with a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - Hello,guys,I'm a Chinese girl.I'm wonering what's the clue that a western boy wanna go to bed with a girl. I have a friend and he's enlish.He wanted to invite me to watch a film in his own apartment.Before that we are only common friends and we t...

Boyfriend had a wet dream about another man...is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend told me he had a wet dream last night. In it,a man was masturbating him. And he came in it. I find that disgusting. He said it was only a dream and he's straight. Pls help. Is that normal?...

Taking a girl out for the first time . What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - Hi, Theres this girl that I've kina just met and I really like her. We've been textin each other loads and my mate sent her a text from my phone asking her out (not to my knowledge) and she said she doesn't feel she knows me well enough yet....

I don't know what went wrong! Why won't she contact me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - I don't know what went wrong.....my friend and I broke up with our ex's 6mos ago. She's pregnant with her ex's baby. We've been friends for 14yrs and started talking everyday for about 2 mos and went on trips alone to vegas and hawaii. In the past 2 ...

How old is TOO old? What's an acceptable age gap for a 24yr old woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - How old is too old. I'm 24 years old and get asked out alot by older men my last boyfriend was 32 and the one before that 34. My first real boyfriend was 27 and I was 17.I just like older men more. I really don't see that much of an age diffrence ...

Why doesn't he touch me like he does other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - I am good friends with this guy. He had feelings for me before but I think they've faded but we still talk lots. Anyways, he always touches (hugs, pats) other people, mostly girls, but he wont do that with me! Its confusing why he still talks to me ...

Should I date my mom's assistant manager?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - Should I date my mom's assistant manager? Hi i'm 25 years old and have not had luck with men in my life. I always end up with jerks but I just recently found out my mom's assistant likes me. I have known him for years and we get along good, though I ...

She wished me luck in finding the perfect partner. Does this mean she's afraid of commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - Hi all,sorry but this is abit of a long winded story but need advice. basically ive known this girl most of my life and have always thought there was something special about her.Neway about 10 months ago I managed to get hold of her no. and got ...

Is she worth my friendship? From lovers to best friends, can it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - I dated a girl long distance for 6 months. She decided she wasnt ready to commit enough to the relationship to move and be with me. I offered to move to be with her but she declined. Since then we have stayed in touch and stayed friends. I have ...

Where drugs are concerned, does a leopard change it's spots?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - My question mainly revolves around the question, does a leopard change it's spots? I was dating a guy for 5 months. I'm 25, and can honestly say I truly felt I was in love with him. We were from totally different backgrounds and he is totally th...

I'm mentally torturing myself and have images of him and someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - Hi, here's my story; The guy i am talking about in this was my first serious boyfriend and first love and took each others virginity etc. We dated since our early teens but broke up after 3 years, after 2 year separation we got back together and have...

My boyfriend asked me how big/small his penis was compared to my exes. Does it really matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend asked me how big/small his penis was compared to my exes. when i said i didn't remember he said i was lying. so then i said fine, they were all smaller, then he was angry that i remembered what their penises looked like! why is he doin...

What should I do? I don't want to be hurting either one of them.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (M) - lets just say my name is Mac. now my problem started on September 8th when i met the one girl i loved. My first love in my life lets call her Mel. after we met we talked for a bit and became closer friends then we started dating on December 10th. ...

Help! I'm so inexperienced. I don't have a clue what to do with a penis!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - help! Im so inexperienced in bed. Ive had a few sexual partners but they've always taken the lead. Basically i dont have a clue what to do with a penis and feel so stupid. Ive never given a blow job and wouldnt even know where to start. Im even usel...

My fiend claims she likes the same guy, if I go with him it will put an end to our friendship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (F) - ok, the situation is that my friend told me he likes me and i like him too, but then when i told my other friend this she claims she likes him also… alot, and being with him would put an end to our friendship. what do i do?...

He means everything to me...so how do I show him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

4 July 2008 (?) - how can i apolagise to my boyfriend and show him how much i mean it. he stopped at mine on monday night and we ended up having a big arguement, and we both said really hurtfull things to each other, but then he just smiled at me. I was stood ther...