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Dating: Help and advice

After our breakup, because I was seeing my ex, we are sort of back together, will he trust me in the long run, and do you think we will stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - about 5 months ago I was dating a guy..who at the time I liked, but didn't really take seriously because I was obviously stuck on my ex boyfriend/first love. While I was dating this other guy I was also seeing my ex boyfriend on special occassions ...

Girls just don't seem to like me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - ok first time asking something like this, but I dont know where else to go (not paying for a shrink lol). Im 23 now, and basically it seems like no matter what i've done my whole life women just arent interested in me in the slightest bit, a...

We broke up, got back together, cheated, broke up. Is this fixable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - hyea!!well this is a long and confusing story but il try and explain anyway...my boyfriend and i had been going steady for three months quiet happily but towards the last few weeks i noticed him mentioning "single" and i said to him are you not ...

I want to test the waters to find out how much he likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I met this guy a couple years ago through a mutual friend. We get along great, and whenever we are around each other there is good chemistry between us. I've been in love with this guy for quite some time now. How could I go about finding out if ...

I'm clueless! I asked a girl out and couldn't believe she said yes! Now what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - Hi there, I recently asked a girl out and I couldn't beleive it when she said yes. However, I don't know where to take her or what to do (I'm clueless!) So women, what would you want to do and where would you want a guy to take you on a firs...

Was he always wanting me and I just never noticed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - OK, this has been bothering me lately... I have a boyfriend, that from the begining of 6th grade, I've known him. We had an assignment, did it, and we still hung out. I helped him with Math, he helped me with Science. I secretly liked him, but I wa...

Any advice on how I can deal with this crisis of self-confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend which hurt me a lot but I was very lucky to find a really nice guy right afterwards. I like him a lot, but he just makes me feel so insecure that I'm having a really hard time being with him. I'm really sma...

His overprotective family is making him choose!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years now, and his family have been there to invade our privacy the whole time. No matter where we go or what we do, they are always phoning him, even if he is about to see them, or has just ...

Is it better to stay in his life or give him space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has issues trusting people. I know everyone in his past has hurt him, but he never talks about it. Also, the girl he was engaged to before just left him for no reason. I want him to be able to trust me, but when I try to talk to him he ...

I have feelings for my best friend...so should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - My and a close friends have known each other for quite sometime and we love being around each other and talking. I believe I may have feelings for her but I'm afraid she doesn't feel the same way about me. And I don't want to freak her out, I just ...

How can I convince him to "sneak away" with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - OK, I'm going to the movies soon. The drive in. With my family, and my Mom says I should bring my boyfriend, since we're always talking, and teasing eachother, flirting, and all of that stopped since vacation, cuz our schedules are different. So I w...

Would it be bad if I kissed another girl while we are on break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - I have recently spilt with my girlfriend of nineteen months. She ultimately called it off although she said it was me afterwards, as i had written a letter the week before saying the relationship should end. I wrote the letter as I was extremely ...

I need ideas for my boyfriend's birthday!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriends 28th birthday is coming up at the end of august and I want to plan something special for him. We have been dating for almost 3 years (in October) and for my 22nd birthday in june he planned a trip to nyc. The only idea I have so far is ...

I'm starting to develop feelings for my co-worker's roommate. Advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (?) - I have been seeing my coworker's roommate for a few months now, and by "seeing" I mean seeing eachother at events and parties we both attend and then sleeping together on occasion. We saw a lot more of each other when he wasnt working two jobs, but ...

I'm stuck in limbo with him, do I wait it out or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Ok maybe this self explanatory but I think I need some advice. Basically I knew this man for a couple of months, started as friendship and soon escalated to constant emails during work and texts etc. Eventually we got together and were seeing each ...

What things should I know about relationships so I can keep this great girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - Im with this girl who im very attracted to mentally and physically. shes 17 shes smart and has a voice older for her age. we are bascially taking it slow. and its almost perfect bc like she said, i dont have to prove anything when im with you. like ...

Why can't I meet a guy who is not a liar, not into porn, not an addict or not into the bleached blonde, blow-up doll type, which I am not, am I just unlucky in love, or do I need a change of venue from southern California?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Hi there. I am a 27 year old healthy, fun, athletic, sincere, hard working, (like to think of myself as) pretty attractive female. I live in Southern California and it seems like every man I meet is a liar, is an addict, is into porn (which I ...

My boyfriend is obsessed about my ex, how can I make him get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (?) - I'm having problems with my boyfriend. In short, once he asked about my past, didn't like whet he heard, and now it's exhausting trying to reassure him, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells! My past is not bad, but he jus didn't like it - not li...

Our age difference isn't that big, how can I win this guy over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Ill make this quick. I met this guy, I liked him right away. He would always call me, and ALWAYS want me to go see him. When we hooked up, it got out pretty fast. People started talking and they told him that I was lying about my age. He got mad...

I am 14, never been kissed, boy, I like is taking me to the mall, and wants to kiss me, I am afraid to kiss him, what can I do, to not be so afraid??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Ok im 14 and ive never been kissed... there is this guy i really like and im going to the mall with him in a week... he told me he to kiss me... i want to kiss him but im scared...

She has a problem with commiting to a relationship, because she is afraid she might cheat on me, she is not into public displays of affection, as I want her to be, how do I get her to commit and be more outgoing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - hey every one....ok, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 5 months now, partially off and on cuz we r both really busy people. she has had a bit of a troubled past, with boy friends cheating on her, and about being bi for a year... yes ...

He won't let anyone in, is a liar, will not talk about his past, want to help, don't know how, he wants space, should I give it to him or keep trying??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - i have been dating this guy who is a compulsive liar and won't let anyone close to him emotionally. he won't talk to anyone about his past and told me he needs space. i want to help him deal with his past but don't know how. Is it better to just ...

I am confused and I cry a lot, don't know if I still love my boyfriend, we decided to separate for a while,miss him, but not sure what to do now, please help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Ok... I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, and we have a lot of fun together. He is basically the ideal boyfriend. He really cares for me and would pretty much do anything for me. But for the past couple of weeks I have been ...

We have been in a long distance relationship for a year, we love each other, told her I want to marry her, found out from a friend, she had another boyfriend, for six months of the year we were together, she broke up with him, I now have serious trus

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - I have been in a distant relationhsip with a woman 4 yrs older than I am and the age difference was never a factor. Because we are 230 mils away, we made it a point to see each other every weekend for 1 year without a miss. We love each other very ...

My boyfriend was very loving, we had sex, he invited me to dinner with his family, all in the last week we were together, then bam, he said he didn't want a relationship, don't want him back, want to try to understand what happened, can anyone shed s

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I'm 19 years old. My bf recently broke up with me but I didn't see it coming because right up until the very last night we spent together he was totaly leading me on. He lead me on by talking about our future, making more plans, sleeping with me, ...

Plain and simple, I need intercourse, I am on birth control, no kids for five years, if it works, my boyfriend does not want to worry about pregnancy, so no sex, I want sex, how do I persuade him to comply??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half, and we have not had sex. We've messed around and done different kinds of sex. He has told me that he is extremely paranoid about pregnancy and he honestly can't help it. I've been really ...

I want my ex in my life, because I could see myself marrying him, but I met this new guy who I feel extremely comfortable with, don't know if I love him him or am infatuated, torn between the two, what shoul I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I'm torn between two guys. One is my ex who I met 3 years ago, we dated for over a year, and have broken up and gotten back together 4 times. The other is this guy I met at a club. I met him about 8 months ago and instantly was attracted to him ...

We are both 15, we love each other, have had sex already, he has a job, and he wants us to have a baby, when we turn 17, I am not sure about this, please give me advice about having a baby at this age"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - hi! well my boyfriend and i akready had sex for the first time a month ago we are both 15, i am really happy wth him there isnt one day he doesnt tell me he loves me. well last night we were talking, he started a conversation about how he wanted to ...

We used to be much closer, calling each other all the time, now I call her 10 times she answers 1 time, what has happened, am I only there for the times she is lonely, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - I have been with her for a year now. We were doing so great. We talked to each other a lot. Everytime, I called her, she is there waiting. It rang the most 2 times, she pick up already. Recently, she always missed my call and rarely text me. ...

I have a boyfriend, but I am very atttacted to a co-worker, I want to kiss him, please help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my b/f for a few months now. We have an apartment together and really understand and love each other. We used to work together until I got transfered to another branch. Now I have developed a crush on another co-worker who is ...

I'm not used to expressing myself, so how do I open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I have a great boyfriend who wants to know what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling all the time. I'm not used to expressing myself and I fear if I do, I might scare him or I will cause problems when things are great. So how do I open up to him?...

How do I go about dating the girl everyone hates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - There's a girl who most of my friends dont like. She knows I like her. I dont know If I should ask her out or just be friends and not risk losing my other friends. What should I do?...

Should I lose my virginity to him? I don't know if I want to.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend loves me (and i know he does) and i love him too, i'ts just, he is not a virgin, but i am. He wants to have sex, but i dont know if i want to tho. I dont know if he wants me for my body or for me. I just dont know if i should give my ...

How do I let him know he is doing a good job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - How do I let my boyfriend know he is doing a good job when he fingers me without saying anything? I can tell he's nervous and I just want him to calm down..Help!...

I often wonder why I can't seem to find the right man. In a few years I'll be too old to become a new mother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - I am a twenty nine year old nurse and mother of a 7 year old son whom I just adore! I have a lot going for me including looks, intelligence, and witt. I often wonder why i can't seem to find the right man. I would love to someday get married to the ...

I can't keep lying to my boyfriend. I still love him. I know I do. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now and i have never been tempted by anyone else. However, I met someone at college about a week ago and we clicked instantly. We exchanged mobile numbers and msn addresses and have been talking every day ...

What is the deal with this? Is this guy a jerk or something?

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15 July 2008 (F) - Hey something really funnny happened. I moved to florida two years ago, I used to live in New Jersey and I knew a lot of people up there. There was this one guy whom I knew as an friend but we never really hung out. Suddenly on facebook, he aske...