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anonymous
writes: My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (1 August 2008):
Guys that have a bunch of girls as "friends" are annoying.
If she had a bunch of guy friends and was always hanging out with them and talking to them on the phone, I don't think you'd like it too much either.
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reader, talker +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Have you spoken to her about this? Sat her down and let her know that it bothers you that she doesn't trust you and that she has these issues that she needs to work on because your relationship is suffering because of it?
If not, then sit her down and explain these things to her. As you already know, she's insecure and that's why she acting that way. Sometimes people like that need someone to teach them that they need to be secure with themselves so that it doesn't get in the way of a happy relationship. It takes a lot of patience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): if you want to continue going out with this girl you should let her know that she is beautiful and she doesn't have to wear baggy clothes. tell her that she looks good in anything and she shouldn't be worried. well any girl would have trust issues if most of your friends are girls, it's jealousy. just try to let her know that she's the only one that you want.
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