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Archived questions from: 7 July, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I would like some rational opinions on our 16yr age gap?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I am a 27 year-old female. I just started dating a man who is 43. A little more background about the relationship: He has never been married, and has no children. He has a master's degree, good income, and people always think he is in his earl...

Is the third time a charm or should I just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - I've been with this woman for approximately sixteen months and have, despite the bumps in the road,asked for her hand twice..The last being just this past holiday. We have lived together for all most ten of those months. I know that there is two ...

Why is he picking fights and not spending time with me?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now...at about 6 months into our relationship he told me that he wanted to get married anf spend the rest of his life with me...he had never had a serious relationship before this so i was sc...

I am in love, but he says he would never date me. How can I stop caring so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - My best guy friend and I have been friends for a very long time.we hang out every day and love each other very much.Deep down I am IN love with him. I've never told him though,he even asked me if i like him and said no.He told me he would never date ...

Juat found out my new boyfriend is an escort... how do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - ok i have falling 4 my best friend i have known him 6years and we have been though so much and was the only 1 that understoad when my dad died. and now we r getting together. well we were he has told me that he sometimes takes women out and gets ...

Please help a girl who's out of practice at dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I've basically been in and out of relationships for the past year or more. I've completely forgotten what its like to be single and start to date someone. At the same time, my old boyfriend was very hands on.. meaning that he would call me/text ...

I'm so confused about this boy I like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I'll make this quick, basically i've been in love with this guy for over 3 years now and we're good mates. But he doesnt see me in that way, at least i dont think he does, any way the other weekend i was 'in town' with a bunch of mates and we ...

I tend to get attached very easily - should I hold back or throw myself in there??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - Hello all, 11 years ago when i was 16-17 i had a relationship with a bloke of 18-19. We were good friends before (i classed him as a best mate) but we had AMAZING and very adventurouse sex. i was going to uni so was unable to continue to see him....

She wanted to know from me if I wanted her to go away, or stay with me and wait for me. I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - I am totally confused and I am afraid I am going to make mistakes and we all know you get older not younger. At the end of the year, I had my heart torn out by a girl I was completely in love with and ready to marry. I was really hurt and wasn...

How can I advise him what to do when it comes to his relationship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - well here is one for you. i am in my fourties and for best part of my life i have been in bossy abusive marriages been married twice first was very violent and the second well he was a control freak and he only hit me a few times and one head butt ...

I'm engaged but I still crave the attention of men, is something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I crave attention from men. Im engaged to an amazing guy, we've been dating for 3 years, and I love him. I don't have low self-esteem, trust me it's not that, I just love for guys to flirt with me. Is something wrong with me? I've never cheated on a ...

How do I talk to him during sex to make things more intense?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - dear cupid i am half spanish and white and my man is spanish but speaks grate english but when are making love i mainley speek spanish.my man has asked to say nasty thing to hin in english that turn him on but i cant really think of that many i want ...

He's a nice guy but he talks too much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - i met this guy a few months ago,he looked really attractive fortunately he seemed to have a crush on me. we got to flirt about, exchanged numbers and we r in touch. i thought i would fall out with him if he ever asked me out which he did but the ...

He doesn't want me to give up on him yet, but also said if his ex wanted him back he would consider it. So should I wait??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a few months now. Things seem to be pretty great between the two of us. We get a long and a have a lot of the same interest and goals. I enjoy being with him more than I have anyone else I have dated. But, for him it is ...

WHY was he so keen to have sex on holiday if one week later he said he did not want a relationship??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - Just returned from holiday recently, had some fun nothing romantic although he wanted sex I held back. We met up after the holiday once which was jsut a week later and he told me he didnt want a relationship. WHY was he so keen to have sex on holid...

I'm lonely now that my friends are moving on with their lives.. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I've been feeling out of place lately. I am not a teenager anymore. I am not in that 21 phase anymore. I have a career and my own home but am not married. I haven't had a serious relationship in years. I've been feeling so lonely lately. My ...

Two, too many bad relationships, what goes, am I to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5988 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - This past year, I was in an abusive relationship you could say. I liked him for some reason, and so my friend set us up. Well, nobody at my school approved and I couldn't understand why. Until...well, apparently he'd had a reputation for sexually ...

Big crush on her, but not sure how to proceed, please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - So, i was on a trip recently and saw this girl at a restaurant who looked like someone i knew but i couldn't figure out who. So, when i got back to my hotel i got on my myspace and looked through my friends list (for abut 30 minutes) and realized it ...

Torn between, my new boyfriend and my old one, totally confused, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - So back in the day, i fell really hard for my friend zak and i like totally worshiped him for like six years then i finally decided that it was time to move on so i did. I got a boyfriend and we have been together for going on six months now. Well ...

Why won't my boyfriend pay me any attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - Okay so I’m dating my ex boyfriend again. He broke up with me last time cause apparently i was being to “bitchy”. Anyways he had dated for about 3-4 months and we broke up. Ever since the break up i couldn’t take my mind off him. We took a break ...

I'm a gentleman, but I can't seem to get a girlfriend, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - im 17 and have never had a girlfriend or a date in my life and its always bugged me why i cant. im a nice guy, never get mad easily, respecting and id like to think gentlemanly i was raised oldschool you could say, hold door open etc. and i was a...

My boyfriend makes me nervous, but I want to show I love him, just don't know how, help me please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I'm so nervous around my boyfriend. He is so loving to me. Always makes me feel wanted, always compliments me.. But I don't know how to act around him. Do guys like being called gorgeous? I don't know how to treat a guy in a relationship. I'm not...

I don't know whether to dump him or keep him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend ,but he never answers my calls.I've called him for a few days to make plans and go out.It seemed like he was ignoring me.He called today and said he never recieved any calls.I was pissed because he has caller ID and everything. I...

How do you spot a guy who is a 'player'?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

7 July 2008 (F) - I need help / advice / tips on how to spot a player or a guy who could be taking you for a ride or what I can do to evaluate. I have met a guy who is nice enough to me and says all the nice things and has said he likes me. To be honest I havent k...