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Dating: Help and advice

He wants time to himself now, and we only see each other on weekends! What's up with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I have been dating a 44 yr old divorcee male. We are the same age and have alot in common. He has told me that he "IS" my boyfriend and will date no one else. He tells me that I have not pushed him into anything as far as a relationship goes. ...

Can't forget the guy I had before my current bf! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl and i have been with my boyfriend for three years. However things have been very rocky of late. I had a long distance relationship before him and we stayed friends when my bf and i got together. However we no longer talk as ...

Her parents said that she cant date till she turns 16 but should I still ask her to a concert?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - i met this amazing girl. her parents said that she cant date till she turns 16. i was thinking about taking her to her favorite bands' concert with my youth group. what do you guys think i should do? ...

I'm 17, he's thirty. Would we be illegal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I'm 17, he's thirty. Would we be illegal? This is completely hypothetical, by the way, lol. And just what exactly is sex in the sense of age of consent, because this is a foggy area to me. I know I'm legal for guys my age, but what about guys over ...

How can I be more outgoing around girls and become friends with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I haven't been in a relationship since before the summer of 2007, and I really want to find a girlfriend, someone that I really care about. But I just don't have that many female friends. How can I be more outgoing around girls and become friends ...

Confused about my feelings for my bf who's in jail! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - well you see my boyfriend and i have been together 3 years already. i have a year old son with this guy but he got locked up when my son was 2 weeks old. i dont really feel anything for this guy but he loves me and i cant leave him cuz i'm the only ...

How can I tell if the hot chick on the bus really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Hey, I think I have been struck with the love bug and it's killing me!! I have seen this hot chick on the bus I get, I fancied her from the minute I saw her mainly because she is hot! Recently I have found out the woman I liked for many years is ...

I dreamt I was holding a guy's hand and in bed with him! Am I gay??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I am a 17 year old male, and i was in a great relationship with the one girl i ever loved and then she broke up with me and i felt so alone. then last night i had a dream about a guy that one of my best girlfriends was dating who i dont know much ...

He said he doesn't want me to leave but he's afraid to make the "commitement' to me. Should I just walk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 6 years. We are trying to make it work this time but I have plans for my future and know what I want. He doesn't have the same views so I said then we shouldn't spend any more time with each ...

Do I take a chance and have freedom or choose the secure lifetime with my bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a great guy for over a year. I'm 21 and he's 27. The courtship was wonderful and we moved in together about 6 months ago and we were engaged earlier in April. But we started having problems shorty after our ...

Is she frigid? Should I dump her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for about a month now, and all we've done so far is hugging. She talks about kissing and snogging over MSN, but when I'm in front of her she always finds an excuse not to. I don't want to grab her and snog her in ...

I like my brother's friend..but my brother is very protective! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - plz help me! i really like my brothers mate but the problem is my brother is really protective! I've also been out with one of his friends already and it got serious so their friendship suffered and i don't think he would want that to happen again ...

I love him but I feel like I am the other woman in this case because he still has another relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for 12 years. We been seperated for 7 months. We both went different ways and had other relationships. Mines ended, so my baby daddy that I had been with for 12 years came back in the picture. We talked and talked he told me ...

Do you think we should have sex now or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - well heres my question: i am 14 and am madly in love with my bf of 7 months we have recently been talkin bout having sex for the first time. we are both virgins but he is 16. do you think we should have sex. we have talked about it for a few week...

I'm 14 and my mum doesn't even know my boyfriend exists let alone a baby is on the way in 5 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hi im louise. i am 14 and i have been going out with this lad ashley now for a while (13 months) his mum knows everything about me and i am really close to her. my mum doesnt even know he exists. i have tried my hardest to keep the fact i have a bf ...

I feel at the end of my tether and close to tears regarding my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hello i have been in a relationship with a man who is older than me by 8yrs, he is 40yrs old and i am 32yrs old. Originally when we first got together, over 2yrs ago i felt he was a breath of fresh air, compared to all my friends, and previous men...

Guys! Does it matter to men if a woman has stretch marks on her body??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, i know you dont have to be perfect to be found attractive but how important are stretch marks to men? and does it effect them being physically attracted to you?( a males opinion as well please) Thanks x...

He wants to go out with the boys more often on his own...will he cheat on me if he does?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - my long time boyfriend and i have been arguing about him going out with the boys lately. he wants to go out soon alone however i believ he may hang with a guy and girl...thats ok except the girl likes him and im not sure if she would do anything and ...

She and I have a lot of problems-do I try to get her back or just forget this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Hello, am new to this and I hope someone can give me some advice. A year ago I joined a dating website and in the first day a girl sent me a message. We talked every night for many hours on the phone and the web. She then drove 200 miles to see me ...

I'm 13 and barely hugged a boy while my friend has scored with someone! I need advice on how to do things with the boys??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - im just 13 i've started 2 talk 2 a boy whos 14 and i really like him but hes into se and everything..my best freind is going out with sum1 and scored and i've bearly even hugged a boy. i just want 2 fit in but i don't know how to do anythink i've ...

I really like her but I'm too shy to ask her out! Any tips or suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - To Anyone I think I am in love infact I know I am She is 14 and I 15 we go to differnt schools But we go to church together I think she is the most beutifull girl I have ever seen but I BE TO SHY TO ASK HER.I relly like her she always smiles at...

What if the guy you love is dating someone else? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - what if the guy u love is dating someone ele? i really love him see befor we got together i told him i was pregnet and he said he didnt care he said it was gonna be his and he tells me so many things so sweet.... i really love him and i dont wan...

We slept together-no sex-and he told me he had weird thoughts all night! Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I'm 19 and I came to knew a guy about 9 months ago and we became buddies since then. He's the typical type of 'romeo' who changes gf like changing clothes. But I have to admit I have some feeling towards him and sometimes there's chemistry between ...

He keeps saying he wants us to live together and get married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - my bf keeps saying he wants to live together and get married. he mentioned on Easter he wanted to tell my family but he didn't because he thought he'd embarrass me with an announcement. the problem is, he only seems to bring this up when he ...

It feels distant that he stands there and watches the clock for the time. Should I take this personally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - my bf comes over my house to visit each night for about 1 1/2 hours after work. he is constantly watching the clock and will not stay 1 minute past the usual time. He's always asking what time it is and he stands up watching t.v while I sit ...

I'm in too deep...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - ive fallen really bad , i care so much he said he loved me ! but he has a girlfriend! i love him so much , i know you will tell me he isnt worth it but i'm in too deep!...

My girlfriend has absolutely no confidence and is always putting herself down.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - hey. me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 3 and a half months. i really like her in fact i think i love her. im 17 and shes only 14 but we both say age doesnt matter. i am not pushing her into anything. we have had sex twice but i dont ...

A woman calls on the phone and tells me all the sexual things she's done to MY BOYFRIEND, he says it's lies...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend goes out at the weekend with his mates an always ends up at one of there houses after to carry the night on. He eneds up rolling in at silly times the next morning,he knows im not happy with it but he still dose it. last night he gets a ...

I want him to actually take me out somewhere, like a date? Should I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Well Ive Been with this guy for 6 months now, i really love him and i always see him and go to his house. all we do it kiss, and do other stuff. we havent had sex yet. But we dont do anything else, can he take me out or something?? we're always in ...

The guy I fancy mailed me asking if I want to go for drink! My friends say not to reply straight away as I will look too keen!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I really fancy someone at my old job that i left last week. He is 30 and i am 20, and we used to flirt like mad. We built up such a close relationship, but he never asked me out. On my last day he asked for my email address and we exchanged them, ...

She cheated on me and we broke up, Ive bumped into her again, We still love each other but I cant get hurt again!! What should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Hi. i have a really big dilemma. I was with my girlfriend for 2 years, then she went to uni and eveythu=ing went worng. she cheated on me once, and then lied to me about ohter smaller issues, and my paranoia adn insecurity went through the roof, so ...

Is it safe to be dependent on someone in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I feel that someone from outside could understand myself better than I could and that my worth depends on how that person evaluates me. Especially I think like this for any girls I form a relationship with. If she criticizes me or talk things I ...

I think he's cute, but the shallower side of me seems unsatisfied.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a guy for the last 3-4 months. We started off as best friends, and I've never felt such a connection with someone before. Initially I knew he was attracted to me, but I resisted as I was playing something out with ...

I've only JUST passed my driving test but my girlfriend talks as if I've been driving for years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I have recently passed my driving test! wooohooo! And have been out every day driving since I passed. Now my girlfriend thinks I'm really good at driving. I haven't been really far yet and have stayed local to get used to my new car. However s...

I know he will never do it again (have a one night stand) but I just want to smack that girl.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - okay I decided to stay with my boyfriend after he had a one night stand but it's really hard. everytime i walk down the street im thinking is that the girl? it's driving me insane, when we are together things are gr8 they are even better now than ...

Do I continue to have 3-somes to please HIM or say something to him about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Nothing is ever simple.. We are a male couple of 45 and 37, we have been together for 10 years. We are your non- scene couple who have little/few friends, ironically mostly straight. We both work long hard hours and find spare time a premium, h...

What are my options? I don't want to force him for children in the future if I get broody.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My bf and I have been together nearly 4 years. We are engaged. We are planning to marry in the summer. To get to where we are took a lot of arguments and fights because he has been married before and has a child. He didn't see the need to marry. He ...

He told his ex that he's willing to break it off with me to reconcile with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Hi there, I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex on one night just last month. I came across his emails to her and realized that he sought her out first. Also, they have been writing emails to each other for quite some time....

We're each others first bg/gf but she likes another guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now. We are each other's first bf/gf. It's been going fine, but she likes this guy more than me, but the guy liked her for a bit but is now going out with a different girl. My girlfriend is always ...

What should I do? Act like I dont care? Break up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Ok well it starts off me being with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. During this time we had to attend different schools. I found out that one night when she was drunk she messed around with another guy. After a period apart we got back ...

I'm 14 and my friends freaked when they found out my bf was 19! Does age matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 19 years old. We really like each other. I told my friends and they freaked out and they had tons of things to say. I know that the age difference is pretty big but does age really matter if you really like the ...

I'm 15 and I like this hockey player who is 20! Is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - Ok, I met this guy at these hockey games I always attend. He was a player on the ice but he was a goalie. When he wasn't in net he would have to sit on the bench and my friends and I always sat behind the players bench. Well this guy named John (the ...

How important should parent's / friends opinions about your boyfriend be to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - How important is your parent's and friends opinions about your boyfriend to you? I've been going out with a boy for a year and a half now. My parents and my bf didn't get off on the right foot to begin with and in the past he has spoken boldly to ...

My doctor and I are seriously attracted to each other. Is a relationship possible??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - My doctor and I are seriously attracted to each other. Is a relationship possible, or is it even legal? Please advise....

I'm so depressed it's affecting my bf and out relationship! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - i have depression and my boyfriend mood is reflecting off mine so we both end up depressed i don't know what to do he wants the fun loving side of me. i don't know what to do? i ve tried everything...

He said he loved me but I didn't reply as I'm not sure about him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - So my old fling and I have been hanging out...and I'm willing to admit that I still have feelings for him bùt I'm not sure about him...one of the times that I took him home...he told me he loved me. I didn't tell him anything...I just said goodbye. ...

I don't think we're marriage material..how do I tell him this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - hi, ive been thinking a bit lately. Have put a few problems on here and appreciate the advice. Actually no, I value the advice I've received. But one more for you agony aunts. I'm due to be married next year, sex life is non existent, ive never had ...

I am very nervous about my b/f going away a week without me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I feel nervous about my b/f going away a week without me..i seriously believe that whether its a guy or girl..if you are away for a week with friends at bars where a lot of partying is happening--you are going to wind up crossing the line ...