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Dating: Help and advice

How do I tell him I need foreplay first without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend a while now and sex just isnt improving. like when we go to have sex he just wants to do it straight away and no foreplay is really initiated. he gets all turned on and i dont know how to tell him that i need foreplay ...

Does my flirting co-worker really want to date me? How can i raise the issue with him, and find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - me and this guy from work constantly flirt and get on really well..... everyone has been asking me what is going on between us and whether i want a relationship with him... but i honestly dont know!!! i think this is because i dont know how he ...

He's my soulmate and I can't imagine a life without him. I am so hurt that we split up. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years just ended what seemed like a perfect happy relationship. I thought we were soul mates and would be together forever. I thought he felt the same until out of nowhere he told me our relationship wasn't working and we couldn't ...

Does one my buddies like my ex gf secretly? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - Hello everyone This is continuing from my last posts (my most recent http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-dating-another-guy-and-im-so-upset.html). I would recommend please, that you read my previous posts before reading this post thanks. ...

Our sex is getting boring, but I dont want to lose him as hes not making me complete, so how can we change this ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are very sexual, yet I think that is all he thinks about now. I enjoy the sex, but it is gettin boring. We are stickin to the missionary position and I'm startin to lose feelin of it. He isn't "big down there", yet I love him so ...

How can I tell if this time I really am " in Love " and its not like just like before ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - hi im 20. ok i know this question gets asked alot recently but im not sure what to do. I dont know whether im in love or not and i know everyone says that when ur in love "you just know", but i feel like i am now but ive felt like this in the past ...

I want the fairytale! Marriage, Love kids etc... But I can never sustain a relationship after the first flush! Any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - I want to get married and have kids. I am now 31 and have only managed to hold down 1 relationship for 10 months (I dumped him) and the last one for 3 months (which I suspect was a rebound relationship on his part; he dumped me). They both ended ...

Im in love with her but Im to shy to talk to her! How can I speak to her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - i am in love with a girll and will like to marry her but my problem is that im shy and whenever i met her i loose the confidence to speak to her. tell me what to do ...

I think I want to end the relationship, but Im not ready for him to date others! What should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - okay im back again, this time im seriously contemplating ending my reltaionship for some reason we just can't seem to get on, but im scared that im not strong enought o move on with my life and start again also i don't want him to get with another ...

Hes been distant lately, and says he has man probs! Ive said Im there for him, but its difficult when he when talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - things have gone quiet with my boyfriend for about over month now,he still replys to texts but they tend to be quite general and he never makes the effort to text me.He says he has man problems but wont devulge what they are so ive told him im there ...

Even though it seems like a lost cause, is there a way I can try and win back her love ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - ok i need some help... me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months 3 weeks and i love her more than anyone ive ever met in my life and she felt the same way until about 2 weeks ago when she said she started to like another guy but ...

I dated him 7 months, we broke up but I love him, He said maybe we can be together in 2-3 yrs, is this likely or even possible!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - what can i do? Im a 15 year old nearly 16 and I think im in love. For 7 months me and my boyfriend was going out and said we loved each other every day, but he moved away 2 months ago, he has since dumped me and said he has a new girlfriend. I asked ...

We agreed we were dating and not to date other, but he did!! Im so confused and hurt, am I wasting my time ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - I am a 46 year old divorced woman and I have been dating this wonderful guy (51 divorced 3 times) everything was going great and btw we have been only dating a month. He moved very quickly and having me meet his family and telling me how much they ...

With my boyfriend for 2 yrs, Sex is painful, I'm still a virgin, worried my relationship will end because of it! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - hi im 23yrs and have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs,we love each other very much and have a srtrong relationship only i have one major problem im finding it very painful to break my virginity weve tried loads of times but it hurts me to much,im ...

I love my best friend, I think he loves me too! How do we both get this out to one another ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - Hi i've had deep fellings for my best friend for about 2 yrs, i love him so much and i think he lloves me. recently his friend told me that my best friend did feel the same as me and doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if he knew i was going ...

This new guy is really giving me mixed signals. Should I just forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - i really like this guy at work im currently in a relationship but want to break it off i dont love him any more and thinking about spending the rest of my life with him just puts me off even more, we have become friends not lovers. Anyway this ne...

He calls me names when things aren't good between us! I don't want to leave him so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - me and boyfriend been going out for 2 years and i love him so much, but we agree almost everyday. i dont know what to do anymore but i cant leave him. he calls me names but when things are good it's good. when it's bad it goes over the top. i need ...

I'm so jealous that my bf "'cuddled up" with my friend when he was drunk! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - ok i just want to know if im just being over-jealous for no reason. a friend ("andy") has told me he really likes me and wants to be with me but i think he might just be playing me because the other night a group of our friends went out but i ...

My friend wants to date but I am seeing another guy! I feel guilty so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - My best friend recently told me that he was in love with me We're both only 17 and he tells me I am the first girl he has ever properly liked and that he thinks I am perfect. He tells me he knows that he messes around but that if I gave him a cha...

I'm just not sure how attracted to him I am physically. Should I date him or stay just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - This might seem quite stupid... but it's doing my head in at the moment! I've recently gotten to know a guy in the year above me at school...I'm 17 and hes 18 I know he likes me lot. My problem is this: how do I work out if I really like him or...

I dream about him, it may sound obsessive but its true...what should I do? Does he like me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid... I have a problem. A huge problem. There is so much to explain. Basically I went to primary school with him. I was very shy and I always thought I loved him. Though I never told him, so we just stayed friends. But in Yr 5, he actuall...

Am I just dreaming??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - So here's the deal. I had a long distance relationship for a while and eventually I moved to be with her. We lived together for about 3 months and then I had to leave again. The plan was for me to come back a month later and we would be reunited...

A relationship with isn't going to work...we argue all the time. I need tips on how to tell him just that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - For a teenager, 2 years is a long time to be in a relationship. This 2 year relationship ended when we graduated and went to college 8 months ago. We are still 'friends' or wahtever you call an ex you sleep with. I don't hang out with him wanting...

What am I to him at this moment? Just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6449 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - hey hey... i would like to ask.... theres this guy that likes me and i like him... we havent met but have only spoken over mxit... but dont worry he's not one of those dodgy poeple.. he's one of my freinds freinds... the other day we wer...

Why does her past relationship with this other guy...bother me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - I’m 17 and have been with my girlfriend for over a year. We have a great relationship and I honestly cant fault it however her past seriously gets to me. Before me she was in a serious relationship for 6 months. She never see’s him now and never ...

My bf is going to visit his ex gf-the girl he fell for hard! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a month now he's 16 and im 15. i do trust him its just...He told me about this girl he really fell for and has never liked anyone as much as her before. He met her on holiday and became really depressed when he had ...

Will someone please tell me why I treat my gf so horrible yet I love her so much?? Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - will someone pls tell me why i treat my gf so horrible yet i love her sooooo much,im never there when she needs me yet shes always there for me no matter when.i have had numerous gf prior to this one,yet i didnt treat them as bad as this.i know if ...

I told him I loved him, he stayed silent!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - I told my boyfriend I loved him and he said nothing what does this mean?...

How do I get her to trust me, after she's been abused by her bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - there is this girl that i like and i am planning on asking her to be my girlfriend. the problem is that she has had really abusive boyfriends and can no longer trust boys as she used to. is there any way that i can convice her that i am a good guy ...

When I'm drunk guys feel me up and take advantage! I feel like a slut--what can I do to stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - When i'm drunk, occassionally i'm taken advantage of a fair bit, not overly far or anything, some guys will just start feeling me up yet when i wouldn't want them to. I do stop them from doing this but not immediately, like my common sense doesn't ...

While he's away, I'm seeing a new guy! Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - There is a guy who is practically perfect, but there is no spark with him. I know that he likes me a lot and we have only been dating for a little bit. He is shy and doesn't have experience with girls. He has been away on vacation for the past week ...

He says he loves me but it's okay if I break up with him! What's this guy thinking?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6449 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - okay i have a boyfriend right well we talk alot on the phone and we been in our ups and downs and ive been with him about 3 months already and he tells me that he loves me that im the only girl for him right and i belive him but sometimes he tells ...

Should I just forget the dance lesson and ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

1 April 2007 (?) - a girl i like offered to teach me how to dance. she told me she'll tell me when we can start. few days later i asked, she said she'll tell me. again i've talked to her online yet she still hasn't told me. i dont want to keep asking. this would me...