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Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is he just being a "lad" or did he mean it about not wanting to move in with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7150 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I overheard my boyfriend saying to his mate that going travelling for while would be a good way to put off moving in with me. Is he likely to really mean this, and not want to move in with me, or is he just being a lad? I haven't asked hi...

He feels like he can break up and have me back any time he wants. Why does he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7151 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I'm hoping you can help me because I can't take this any more. I had a boyfriend for almost a year and a half and then he told me he wanted a break and needed time apart from me. I thought, okay whatever, I'll just give him this time, even though I...

He lied to me about his smoking because I wouldn't have gone out with him. Will he lie in future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7144 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - Im 16 and have been goin out with this guy for about three months and at the beginning of our relationship I asked him if he does or have ever smoked. He told me he had tried it but then stopped. Just today I found out that he smokes almost e...

My new b/f's ex is still in the picture. Am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7150 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I am with my new boyfriend which I have been with for 10 months. He came out of a five-year relationship and he still talks to his ex. He says that there is nothing going on, but yet he keeps things from me like when he borrows money off her. A...

The new guy and I got together too soon & I still need to be single...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I've just come out a 2 year serious relationship and have now met someone else and have been with them a few months now. I care about this person and am still friends with my ex-boyfriend. The problem is that I know I've made a mistake and rushed t...

We met through a singles club, but now we're serious and she's still a member...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7151 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I met my girlfriend in a local singles club. Now that we're serious she won't quit the club. What do I do?...

Want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do or say!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7154 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Think I'm falling in love with a girl who I have known for 13 years. She's always been there for me and I really want to ask her out but I don't know what to do or say. Please help me...

I feel differently - not as strongly - as he does. How do I respond to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7154 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - I'm not sure how to word this question. The man I'm seeing has recently told me that he loves me, I, however do not have the same feelings for him at this time. My feelings for him run deep, but I don't feel that I love him and also feel that love ...

Boys don't want to kiss me... Is it because I'm a tomboy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - No boys fancy me and when I do go out with a boy they never want to do anything......I don't want to have sex but a kiss every once in a while would be nice. I am 12 and a tomboy, do you think this is why boys never want to do anything with me ...

An ex wants me back... but I'm not sure of my feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7154 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Hiya please help I was recently seeing this man, but we finished. We've got on quite well even though, and even though we probably won't, I always hope we get back together. Anyway this other man who I went out with a few years ago has always ...

Can't tell how my boyfriend feels about me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7156 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - Hello I am having trouble with me boyfriend! I don't how he feels about me. When I text him he only replies with short sentence. When I go out and I see him he never buys me a drink. I have been with him now 2 months and I haven't had sex ...

I missed my chance because I was afraid of rejection. How do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7156 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I was seeing this guy who I really liked. But I didn't tell him I really liked him and insisted that we both see other people. He told me he wanted to give us a go but I rejected him. I know it was stupid but I guess I was scared that it would end ...

What makes some women attractive to men and others not so attractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I need a guy's opinion really. What do most men go for? I met this man. He told my friend he likes me. We don't really talk, just small talk but he's always out where I hang out. Last week my brother's mate said the man I like had a girlfri...

I'm attracted to my tutor and she's a woman, too. Is this a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7156 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I'm a female. I like a female college tutor. I'm 17 and shes 25. Is it ok?...

My boyfriend is telling everyone my personal business...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I am 12 years old and I need some advice badly. My boyfriend found out that I've started my periods and is telling everyone. What shall I do?...

Is it OK if I say yes to the boy I fancy, or would that hurt his ex's feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6937 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - A boy asked me out and I really fancy him but he only just dumped another girl. Should I say yes or will it be offensive towards the girl he just dumped?...

Things are moving so fast, that I'm getting confused...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7155 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - Hi I'm seing this guy for about a month now. He has just come clean with me and told me that he is married and has a child and that he wannts to leave her for me and come and live with me. I do relly like this person but I don't know if I'm ready ...

If I take a chance and date the new guy, I might get hurt again. Is it worth the risk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7156 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - I went out with this guy for a year and we were very close, but then we started to have problems and we broke up. I was devastated! I stayed in my room and cried A LOT! But one of my guy friends was there for me and I went out with him two weeks ...

I think I'm in love with my best friend's girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6941 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend. I have only known her for 2 months but I feel very close to her and can tell her anything. What should I do?...

At what point am I a tart? Or a tease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - When to have sex ? How many dates should I have with a man before sleeping with him? I don't want him to think I am a tart but I don't want him to think I am teasing him and leading him on. I really fancy him and want to have sex with him but...

Now that he's told everyone he likes me, I feel like I have to go out with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7159 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - There's this guy that I know and have known for years. Loads of people recently have told me that he fancies me, and today another guy said this guy was going to ask me out. But I don't know whether I like him properly or not, but now he has ...

He thought our relationship hadn't "progressed" enough, so he cancelled our date...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7160 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - I met a guy on an internet dating site. He seems level-headed, down to earth, smart and he is very handsome. He also is 43 and has not had a long term relationship in 2 years, and those he has had have been less than a year. He seems to be very set...

He's so quiet and shy that I can't tell if he'd be interested in me! Do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6850 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - Hi everyone! I REALLY need some advice and hope someone (or a lot of people) can really help me on this one. It's kinda long.... Well, here goes.... I work in a computer lab facility at a college, and I just began noticing this student....

I know I fancy him, but how do I know what to do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I met this lad at the frenzy and I really fancy him, but I don't know if he fancies me. What should I do ??!! luv bambam...

Should I suggest that we move in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7128 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I want to ask my fiance, who I have been with for a year and 3 months to move in together soon. I really feel comfortable to live with him but don't know whether I should ask him. We have just found out that his kids are going to be with him all ...

Feel like I'll end up having sex with someone else... but I don't want to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - I am with my boyfriend for a year now, and I care for him with all my heart and soul, but I'm meeting up with this guy who hit on me last week on the bus. What if we wind up having sex? I don't want to. I could never do that to my bf, cause I ...

Need a girlfriend, but where can I meet girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

21 April 2005 (?) - Hiya, I'm a 17yr old lad and I need a girlfriend! Thing is, I hardly see any girls anymore to chat up, since I left school. All my friends see loads of girls all the time and nearly all of them have girlfriends, cos they all go to a differen...

Head over heels in love with this girl, but I don't know how she feels about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7158 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - Hi I have never used these agony aunt pages before but I have a really bad problem. Well to start off I am a 14 year old boy and I think im in love with this girl I know. I don't know what I should do or say. It's like every time I see her it's lik...

White guy...Asian girl. Would that be OK?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7160 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - Well, Is it possible for a white guy to date an Asian girl? Because for some reason I'm falling for an Asian girl at college and I just don't know what to do about it. I mean she has smiled at me and we have chatted once but I'm finding myself...

I think about him all the time, because we got on so well... so why didn't he try to contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7160 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I met this man who I really like. We got on really well. I know him because we have some of the same friends, but lately I haven't seen him or heard from him and I can't stop thinking about him. Nothing happened, so I don't know why I feel ...

Do I give my ex another chance or go with the new guy who wants me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7160 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - O.K. I broke up with my boyfriend on Thursday, because he wasn't making an effort. The next day was his birthday and I wanted to take him out. He didn't want to come so I decided to still go out with his friends and my friends. His friend was real...

I have a crush on her, but I know she doesn't love me. Should I say something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7160 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I have a crush for a lady for 9 years but cannot tell her as I know she likes me but doesn't love me. I don't want to lose her. What shall i do?>...

There's still a spark between my guy and his ex. Do I just leave them to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7162 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I started going out with this guy just about a week ago. I met him through college and our relationship got closer over a matter of time. The only problem is he's got two girl best mates. One of which he has been going out with on off. I understa...

Could the grass really be "greener"..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7160 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I am with a boy but I really like someone else. I don't know what to do....

He keeps asking me if I love him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7161 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - He asks, seems like every time we are together, if I love him....

Should a woman make the first move if she's interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7161 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - Is it okay for a woman to make the first move to let a guy know she is interested, or will he think she is easy? ...

He seems interested... but is he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7161 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - Sorry to be so cliche, but this is another "does he like me?" question. I like this guy from college. We chat sometimes and get on well, and nearly every time I look across the room at him, he's looking back, and often we seem to hold the gaze for...

We're attracted to each other, but she wants to keep us a secret...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7156 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - A while ago I met a girl. We're really good friends, so it seems and we spend a lot of time together; the time we spend together is extraordinary! A month ago we admitted we were attracted to one another. I'm open about my sexuality but she isn't. I...

It's like I don't have a social lifevany more since I started going with my guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7097 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I'm 14 and have been going out with someone for 4 months. I really like him but its like I can't go out with my friends anymore. What should I do?...

Can't understand why the girl I like has ' warm' moods and 'cold' moods with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7163 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - There's this girl at work which I really like. She has one of the sweetest smiles around & she usually gives me this special looks (the way she stares at me) which in my opinion shows that she's interested in me. Every time she stares at me & when ...

Girls: Do you prefer sensitive guys or muscly show-offs ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - Dear GIRLS!!! I have a theory about the type of guys you like and need some advice. I think that most girls when they are in their teenage years prefer muscly, jerky show-offs, and then adults prefer sensitive guys. I'm pretty sensitive, and I ...

She tells me she doesn't want "pressure", but I need to know if our relationship is going somewhere...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7165 days ago

15 April 2005 (?) - Been going out with a woman (55 years old) who has been separated for 8 years but still sees her husband, who lives nearby, from time to time. She also finished with boyfriend of the last 8 years about 3 months ago - at the time I started seeing ...

Think it's time that my mate knows I'm dating the girl he wanted. Should I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7162 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I've just started seeing a girl but my mate was originally trying to get with her. We have started seeing each other without him knowing. I now feel that it is time to tell him, but what can I say???? Thnxs ...

We've spent every minute together, but I don't feel sure of where we stand...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7168 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - Where to begin...ah yes, the beginning. I was in a three year relationship with a boy I have known since highschool. He is 25, and I am 23. I must admit that due to depression over the suicide of my high school sweetheart, I stayed in this ...

Being honest isn't getting me any dates. Is there any other way to ask girls out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7167 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - I have never really had the best luck asking girls out. I'm always honest and that doesn't work. Is there anything I can do that would help me? I've always been myself but that doesn't seem to work....

I have a lunch date with my ex, but I can't help wondering if she wants to get back together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - Hello, About 4 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of two years. Recently she called me to talk as she was stressed about something. While we were talking she told me about a guy she is dating and she said it was not serious and they don't t...

Do I have a chance with my brother's friend? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7171 days ago

10 April 2005 (?) - I am 17 and recently went to a birthday party. I recognised one of my brother's friends there and went and said hello, he is 22. We hit it off and spent quite a lot of the night together. We had a play fight and got really close to each other, r...

Dumped him, want him back. But he hates me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

10 April 2005 (?) - I went out with a guy for nine months. I dumped him because I thought he was using me but I now want to go out with him agin relly badly. But he now hates me. What should I do? mcfly fan, essex...

My folks hate my girlfriend, but I love her. Do I choose their way or mine?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

9 April 2005 (?) - I have a g/f and she asked me out. We are dedicated to each other and see each other most of the time. My parents are split up so I see her every other week. My Dad and Stepmum hate her. I love her, shes my g/f. Do I listen to my parents or choose ...

I used to be the one to break it off with girls, but now that I want committment, they're breaking off with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7172 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I am having a bit of a pattern in my love life at the mo and want to fix it... Basically when I was at school I always had girlfriends and then I had my most serious relationship when I left school, which carried on until halfway through ...