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writes: Hiya, I'm a 17yr old lad and I need a girlfriend! Thing is, I hardly see any girls anymore to chat up, since I left school. All my friends see loads of girls all the time and nearly all of them have girlfriends, cos they all go to a different college to me now. I'm the odd one out! Where can I meet my new girlfriend? Through my friends' friends? (it's embarrassing to mention all this to one of my friends) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2006): Screwed if you can't ask girls out and you've never been asked out in your life... :'(
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reader, Last Kiss +, writes (22 April 2005):
Up to a certain extent it may have got to do with the college that you're in now. But that isn't the main problem I guess. The main problem is probably you. Don't compare yourself with your friends. You guys are not the same. You'll only make things difficult by comparing yourself with your friends who have girlfriends. That isn't gonna work in your favour. You also said you hardly see any girls to chat up with. Are you waiting for the girls to 'come to you'? I hope not. Girls are 'everywhere'. You need to know where girls are & put yourself in a 'high probability' situation to meet girls. Have you considered enrolling in yoga classes, dance lessons or if you like cooking then cooking or baking lessons? How about online chat? If you find someone interesting you can actually meet her. I'm just naming a few but there are lots of places where you can meet girls. You just need to pay more attention & do something. Anyway stay positive & tell yourself that one day you'll eventually meet your girlfriend. Your time will come. Just be patient & good luck lad!
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