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writes: I'm 14 and have been going out with someone for 4 months. I really like him but its like I can't go out with my friends anymore. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2005): Friends should always come before your boyfriend.dont let him take over your life because it will just get worse.Talk to him tell him that you dont see your friends enough and that you would like it if you could.if he doesnt let you then hun you have to just turn round and say no .Because boyfriends come and go but friends will always be there,let them go then who have you got to turn to when things go wrong .Keep strong girl and talk to him.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2005): Talk to him. Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. If he doesn't want to listen or doesn't care, he isn't worth the time and hurt. You have to be happy first. So if he won't listen, it is best to move on for yourself.
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reader, confused_gurl +, writes (17 April 2005):
Well, if I were you then I would talk to this guy about it. If he is smothering you, then I would get out of the relationship. In my opinion my friends are more important to me than any guy, because if you and this guy break up then who is gonna be there for you? But if you lose a bunch of friendships because of this guy, and then you lose the guy someday (unless you get married but otherwise, nothing lasts forever) then you will be lonely. This is just my opinion. Hope I helped
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