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writes: O.K. I broke up with my boyfriend on Thursday, because he wasn't making an effort. The next day was his birthday and I wanted to take him out. He didn't want to come so I decided to still go out with his friends and my friends. His friend was really happy to hear that I was single and then started to say that his liked me for a long time. And he is good looking and I do like him back. That night I got drunk and the next morning my friend told me that I slept with him but I only remember it vaguely. Ever since that night his been ringing me and wants to get with me. I still love my ex boyfriend but then the other guy treats me better and I feel like I have a future with him. Shall I give my ex boyfriend another chance or shall I move on? And also how long should I wait to go out with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2005): It all depends on how your relationship with your "ex" was. If you have already had sex with the "other guy" then I dont see why you should wait to be with him, I understand that you were drunk but you still did it, and now you have to live with that.Your future depends on the decisions that you make now, if you see yourself in the future with the "other guy," and he treats you better than your current love, then why not at least give him the chance to prove himself.However, guys do lie (I know, I am one!) they will make you think that they really do care just for the extra play from you. In reality you have already given him what most guys want, and scince he is still attempting to contact you and start a relationship, then I would say he is worth the time.
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