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writes: Hiya please helpI was recently seeing this man, but we finished. We've got on quite well even though, and even though we probably won't, I always hope we get back together.Anyway this other man who I went out with a few years ago has always been there for me. He has made it clear that he loves me and wants me back. I know this sounds stupid and immature but I don't know how I feel.I really want to get back with my ex who I finished with a couple of weeks ago, even though he probably won't. My other ex has confused me even more!It's so confusing, but maybe I should move on from the both of them. What do u think?
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reader, Lara +, writes (27 April 2005):
I think that you need to take a step back from the situation and review your innermost feelings about both of these guys. You need to remember why you split with the ex that you want to get back with, and ask yourself whether you really want to get back with him for all the right reasons, or could it be the wrong reasons that most of us females usually go for!I know how easy it is to fall back into someone's arms because you know that they will always be there for you, and tell you that they love you and want to be with you, but don't take this friendship for granted. It may be the fact that you are in a vulnerable stage at the moment, and the easiest option seems to be getting back with someone. But stay strong and try to think of the real reasons why you want to re-enter either of these relationships, which your once in your past ended for one reason or another.
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