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writes: I am 17 and recently went to a birthday party. I recognised one of my brother's friends there and went and said hello, he is 22. We hit it off and spent quite a lot of the night together. We had a play fight and got really close to each other, rugby tackling etc. One of his friends said, "oh guys just get together for god's sake" and we both looked at each other.Anyway I had to leave so he walked me to my taxi and we hugged..it was almost like there should have been a goodnight kiss but neither was sure. He is a close friend of my brother and therefore will be scared to get close..do I have a chance and does he even like me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2005): As tempting as it is, and as good as it feels, be very very careful. I began dating my brother's best friend when I was 26, he was 23. It felt so right. We knew each other on so many levels, I thought it was bound to work. But it didn't. You are so young, it's doubtful that this will be the guy you marry. So please, consider the friendship between this desirable guy and your brother. A failed relationship between the two of you will inevitably affect the friendship he has with your brother. It may not be worth it in the end. I would encourage you to respect their friendship more than your desires and curiosity. There are so many awesome guys out there, why pick one that will potential destroy the friendship he shares with your brother? Good Luck, Choose Wisely.
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