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writes: Dear GIRLS!!!I have a theory about the type of guys you like and need some advice. I think that most girls when they are in their teenage years prefer muscly, jerky show-offs, and then adults prefer sensitive guys.I'm pretty sensitive, and I am wondering how many girls would prefer to go out with a guy like me than a jerk. So gimme ya answers girls! Reply to this Question
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reader, lil lisa  +, writes (16 October 2010):
it depends if the guy is muscly then i would get attracted if hes sensitive and kind i would be intrested but if hes muscly n jerky then bye bye but sensitive yeah been muscly would just be a bonus and im teenage
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reader, RomanticGal1  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 I am a teenager/adult. I am 18 but mentally I am an adult. I have gone through which guy I like phase throughout the year. I used to like preppy guys then jocks then nurds and then goths. I like sensitive bad boys who seem bad/evil but are actually very sweet and romantic. It all depends on what you like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): I am a sensitive guy, but I haven't had a girlfriend in two years. I have asked girls out, but they said no, or they had a boyfriend, or they "just broke up" with their ex-boyfriend. Or I was just too retarded to ask them out (couldn't read the signals or something). Mind you, I am a good looking guy and do exercise and eat well. I'm just too nervous.
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reader, og71 +, writes (8 January 2010):
I am a muscly shy guy and I do alot of sports nad i am not that ugly$, but why do my friends who are mainly ugly and unfit get girlfriends
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Well everyone is different and in my oppinune ( i dont know how to spell it)i like sensitive guy BUT... they have to be CUTE sensitive guys and the jerks well there just and after u get over that there just a plain old jerkface.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): Who says sensitive, artistic, talented and brilliant guys aren't showoffs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): i prefer sensitive guys they r alot nicer than jocks
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): Umm i'm a gurl that likes sensitive guys...i'm @ the 9th grade but i dont like muscly show offz..theres 1 sensitive guy in our school that about 6 girls in my class fell for..even tho he is in 11th grade...My advice is be urself...cos every girl is diffrent..exept sluts LoL no seriously...Umm i like this boy but he's my friends bf...i talked 2 him a while ago n i found out he's not really that sensitive n he cheats on my bestfriend by sleeping with another girl.. i think he is making it up just 2 cover up his sensitivity..N e ways...Most girls like boys that are sensitive like Ne-Yo and Chris Brown...Some like Bow Wow but not anymore...Its all in Chris Brown n Ne-Yo songs...check out Chris Brown Unreleased songs.it says alot LoL
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): I agree with gettyburgbuff 1863....ghosh it took me time to write that. As a female i have to agree that it does make me go nuts about a man who is attractive and also who works their ass off for living (anything field it may well be) and not just waste time. Someone who has the ballls to look after and feed his family, strong willed, confident and yes ofcourse considerate but these things comes through time and experience. Don't expect too much out of yourself...there is nothing more attractive in a man who is at ease of who he is and i am sure its the same with us females as well.
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reader, GettysburgBuff1863 +, writes (23 July 2006):
I consider myself a sensitive type of guy but I don't know what it is with some women that don't see a connection. Just because some of us guys are show offs means that they act immature and play around all the time. Which some of you ladies shouldn't bother with in the first place. It just has "cheater" written all over it. It's much more deeper than that. Liars too, can't escape the reality of whats going on around them. I know a woman is looking for a mature, honest, straight forward, head strong, working guy who can show what they're made of and can hold many things, like a job for instance. Women like a working type guy, I'm just spectulating, but I think if a woman sees a guy sweat it drives them crazy. They also look at you hands, if they're rough he's working, if not then he's a lazy bum collecting welfare (which p*sses me off to no extent cause I work for a living). Another thing is that money isn't what makes you happy, if a woman is after money leave them, vice versa for the ladies too. Everyone is equal and everything you do with your partner should be equal too. Nothing in this world is free and nothing in this world can't buy you happiness.
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reader, J +, writes (24 April 2005):
I think most girls go for Both looks and personality so show off that boyish charm and be sensitive at the same time. Don't get annoying, tha'ts what girls hate. Being nagged! Jess aged 12
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2005): Personaly i like a sensitive guy with a little muscle but i dont like guys that show off i think if a guy shows off they are insucure or just a jurk
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (18 April 2005):
 Stay sensitive but BUILD SOME MUSCLES. One year down the gym, training hard and eating well and you'll look better, feel better, still be sensitive and be much more attractive to the ladies. Don't worry about getting massive, you will only do that with steroids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2005): Personally, I'm attracted to both but it's better if they're all big and bad on the outside, but behind closed doors he's a sweetheart and treats me better than gold.
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reader, confused_gurl +, writes (17 April 2005):
It depends on the guy. I would go for the quiet sensitive guys. But thats just my opinion. I also like muscles on guys cuz it makes them freakin hott 0.0! so it just depends on the guy. But mostly I dont go for looks, I try to look to their personality. Just find a girl who is mature enough to like you for who you are and not what you look like. They do exist believe me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2005): Hi,I personally would think many would like to have a sensitive caring kind of a guy. But hey if he has a bit of muscle to, then thats always good. I think its possible to have sensitivity and muscles without being a jerk as well tho.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (16 April 2005):
 It all depends on the girl! When I was a teenager, I was shy and sensitive so I wouldn't have been able to handle a muscly show-off! I'm an adult now, still a bit on the shy side and sensitive and still prefer the sensitive type. However, saying that, I can't say I wouldn't be attracted to a muscly, confident guy but not necessarily a show off.In conclusion, I would suggest that girls want different things in men. We are all unique. Most women say they prefer a sensitive guy really but they still like a bit of excitement too!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (16 April 2005):
 Everyone is different, and we all like something different about the type of guy we go with it. Some girls like show offs, others like sensitive types... there is alot more to a person than what most see.. its that, the girls like. Just because a mans a so called show off doesnt mean that he cant be sensitive and vice versa.. we all go for different types of people.. it all comes down to who we think is attractive. I think as we get older we tend to be more easy going, and its not always about the clown or the look, but more about the person. A man hasnt got to be drop dead gorgoues for a female to fancy him. Its other things such as personality that go with that, that can make a man all the more fanciable!
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