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writes: Hello,About 4 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of two years. Recently she called me to talk as she was stressed about something. While we were talking she told me about a guy she is dating and she said it was not serious and they don't talk like we used to. She wants to meet for lunch this weekend. What do you think she wants? Does she want to get back with me? I am so confused! Please help me if you can.T
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): she probably wants to meet up because she misses you and your chats. so she might want to meet up with you and bring up the issue...but it all depends what you say now isn't it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): I think you shouldn't meet her as she should solve the issue between her and her boyfriend by herself. Its not fair on him as you wouldn't like her meeting an ex if you were with her. However if you feel that you still have feelings for her, you should let her know and step back, give her space and let her work out what or whom she wants to be with.
Ps I think she would like to have pasta for lunch.
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reader, misty +, writes (13 April 2005):
This guy shes with is not all she needs, by the sound of it. If you want her back then tell her. It's not fair to put you in the middle of all the problems she has with him.That must be hard, to sit there and listen to it.Keep away if she likes him because you will end up having a big fall.In time, I think your find it will end and she will be on the phone to you because she knows you're there for her.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (13 April 2005):
 Hey! Dont go jumping the gun! Shes called you meet up for lunch, Perhaps she values your friendship and would like to talk a few things over with you. Like you say you used to talk, perhaps she finds it easy to talk to you. She has afterall told you that shes found a new man. Now to avoid getting hurt you need to go with an open mind, and be a friend to her. If she is really just wanting to meet for advice, just be there for her if you want to, but if you feel that meeting up as just friends is too painful, nip it in the bud. If it does turn out thats shes wanting to meet up to give it another shot, she may even be missing you, then make sure its what you both want. You will only find out by talking to her, but take one step at a time. Lunch is great nice relaxed atmosphere to chat, listen to what she has to say and take it from there, but dont go blazing in or you risk getting hurt. Just be cool and a friend and hopefully it will work out for the two of you.Hope this helps.Take care x
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