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writes: Think I'm falling in love with a girl who I have known for 13 years. She's always been there for me and I really want to ask her out but I don't know what to do or say. Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, lil-haz +, writes (27 April 2005):
 hi, I'm 14 and kinda in the same position. What I think you should do is tell her how you feel about her, but make sure you don't ruin your friendship by asking her, as you will walk away with nothing. Why don't you get a few mates to ask her how she feels about you, then you can find out for yourself or maybe hint to her that you like her if you feel more comfortable this way. But the most important thing in a relationship is trust and respect and obviously you can trust her and she can trust you because you have known each other for so long. So I don't see the prob! I think you should go for it! You never know what you might get out of it. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2005): Mate, 13 years is a very long time & if all these years she's always been there for you, what are you worried about? By now you should know whether she likes you or not. If you are still clueless then just ask her. You'll never know if you don't ask! If she likes you no matter what you say (even if it sounds dumb) she'll go out with you! In your case I'm quite sure she likes you & things will be OK. Good luck mate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2005): Well to start you've known each other for 13 years so I can understand the position you're in. I have been in a similar position because I fell in love with a girl that I had known for 14 years. My advice is ask her out and say to her that you really like her.
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reader, Ruth +, writes (26 April 2005):
You only get one chance at life and I think you should go for it otherwise you'll drive yourself crazy wondering. If your friendship is strong and for any reason a relationship is not meant to be, then your friendship will still carry on. I don't think putting sex into the question is a good idea though, that was probably a guy who gave you that advice! (lol)
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (26 April 2005):
 My guess is you are heading for a disappointment. 13 years and you haven't asked her out... !? Crikey. Let me help you out here, with the exact wordage you should use: "Do you like me, sex-wise?".
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