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writes: I am with my boyfriend for a year now, and I care for him with all my heart and soul, but I'm meeting up with this guy who hit on me last week on the bus. What if we wind up having sex? I don't want to. I could never do that to my bf, cause I know he would never do it to me. What do I do?? Please Don't think of me as a bad person. I'm just confused. Help, please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2005): Well, first off, if you even think you two might have sex, I suggest that you shouldn't go hang out with this man. And another thing is if you really cared about your boyfriend, you wouldn't have later on decided to meet up with a man that hit on you. That just isnt right. Imagine that he was going to meet up with a women who hit on him. Would you be happy about that? It's either you have fallen out of love with him or you just want something your boyfriend isn't giving you. And if it is the second one, then I suggest you talk to your boyfriend about it. If it's not the second one, then you should break up with your boyfriend and move on. Don't crush his feelings by meeting up with a guy that hit on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2005): I think that you love your partner but have fallen out of love with them. That is why you are meeting this other person. My boyfriend did this to me for 4 months until I found out about it. He never cheated on me but it still felt the same. Don't hurt the person you love and cause damage that will never be fixed. You will regret it later when you are alone.
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reader, rainbowshoes +, writes (21 April 2005):
First off i dont think of you as a bad person, i can tell by your letter that you are very confused. You care about your boyfriend but you're torn. if you want to meet up with another man and are worried that something may happen between the two of you then there is something missing in your relationship and you need to figure out what that is before you rush into something you may well regret. what do you really know about this other guy? is ihe really worth jepordising your relationship for? i think you owe it to your boyfriend and yourself to try and fix what you have first, even if you decide your boyfriend is not the man you want to be with you will know that you have tried. Put off meeting this other guy and focus on what you have.
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