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writes: I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend. I have only known her for 2 months but I feel very close to her and can tell her anything. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2005): I am in the same boat man, I would rather have her in my life as a friend than not hving her in my life at all. Its hard fo rme. I love this girl so much, Ive known this for many years and we are really close but I am also great frinds with her boyfriend. Its not fair but if she is happy you need to let her be. This situation you risk losing both friendships. Oh well atl east she is happy.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (24 April 2005):
Consider your best friend first and foremost. She is already with someone and it would be wrong to encourage a relationship with her. They may not stay together but then they may. No one knows what the future holds. At this moment in time, she is off limits.I would suggest you try to meet other people, including girls. Get out and about. Try to avoid, if you can, your best friend's girlfriend. That may be hard to do but you need to suppress how you feel for her.Use distraction to take your mind off things. Pursue other interests and meet other people.I hope this helps.
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