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writes: Sorry to be so cliche, but this is another "does he like me?" question.I like this guy from college. We chat sometimes and get on well, and nearly every time I look across the room at him, he's looking back, and often we seem to hold the gaze for quite a while. But I always worry this is just my imagination. A few nights ago, when I was down the pub, he was there too and again, lots of the "looks" seemed to be going on. Then today when he came in the classroom, he asked me if I'd had a good time the other night. This appeared to mean he'd been paying attention to me that night. Also, I think I was the first person he spoke to when he arrived this morning. Am I reading too much into all of this, or is he actually interested in me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2005): The Dude seems to be into you because he's paying special attention to you and with gazes, come on take a hint!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (20 April 2005):
 I don't think you're reading too much into it. It sounds to me like he's interested.There could be a number of reasons that he hasn't taken things to that next step, including that he's a bit shy, or maybe he thinks that you're in a social strata "above" his. Maybe he's in a relationship that he's not happy with and not free to date. Or maybe he's under the impression that you're too -- fill in the blank: pretty/rich/popular etc -- to be interested in a guy like him.Next time you see him, why not ask him out to something low-key? A campus performance, a coffee, a post-lecture discussion, a friend's party? It sounds like a vanishingly-small risk of rejection. And the way he responds to your offer will give you a good idea whether he's interested romantically, or just a lovely, friendly person. Either way, it sounds like you win.:o)
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