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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Got drunk and think I messed it up with a nice guy I just met

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - Hello and thanks in advance for your help :) So I was introduced to a guy through a mutual friend. We met for the first time 2 night ago. I wasn't sure if he was really interested or if he was doing it for our mutual friend you know? We hung...

I miss him. But we both left the business before we exchanged numbers. I feel so lost. How can I find him? please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - I used to work in a well known food retail store in London but got the sack, last month, after many disciplinary hearings for being late. There was a guy (we'll call him 'John') who worked next door to me; I liked him the second he approach...

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always war...

How can I get the number of my crush without too much trouble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - There is a woman that I have a crush on who I worked with temporarily before I had to leave job. I wanted to get her number while I was there but someone was always around and other coworkers were beginning to notice that we liked each other. I have ...

I've got the hots for my boyfriend's dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - From the moment I met my boyfriend's father, I have been very attracted to him. But recently when my boyfriend's parents dropped by our house to tell us they were seeing each other again after 10 years of being separated, I got really jealous for ...

How do I tell if he isn't talking to me because he is being responsible and realistic or because it was a short romance in his eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - I,23 female,have moved far away for 6 months from a man, 31, who I fell in love with. We spent only 3 days together but I got this feeling he loved me by the way he acted and looked T me. Firstly, can I trust this feeling? Could I be deluded bec...

I am confused about lots of things.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Thought id message in as id heard about this site, feel confused about lots of things so just wanted to see some other peoples opinion on this. Basically i am worrying about the future as i am coming up to 35 years of age and really hoped by now...

Why is it hard to meet somebody you fancy and get on with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - This is something that I cant shake . I can not seem to meet a girl of which I both find attractive and also get on with. I tend to meet a girl now and then and maybe think this one is one I like , but then something will put me off and I will ...

Could he like me, or do you think it is something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so to begin with I better explain my situation. I have anxiety disorder, and it is mainly social anxiety and this means that sometimes I just can't do something. Like I just physically can not do it. I'm not meant to force myself to do ...

I'm having doubts about marrying him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Can anyone offer some well needed advice please? I've been with my fiancé for 10 years - I got with him when I was 20 and he was 29. We are getting married in August. I do love him otherwise I wouldn't be with him but I keep getting doubts as...

I met the perfect Christian guy, but he's gay and has a boyfriend! How do I get over him and stay strong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I'm a Christian girl and I met this Christian guy through a mutual friend at a party last Halloween. He was really nice and as I got to know him I totally fell for him, he was very respecting of women and he does things like help poor people. We get ...

How can I be the partner she deserves, when my mind is still filled with thoughts of my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I came out of a tumultuous 2-year relationship only a handful of months ago. I loved her so incredibly much, but we were constantly breaking up and getting back together (never once was it my decision to split) over petty, insignificant fights, ...

I am starting to dislike and distrust men. How can I move forward after so many disappointments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I'm afraid I'm starting to dislike men and I really don't want to. Can someone help me to work out how to get over these feelings please because I don't want to be that woman? Basically, I split up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 6 months a...

Is he interested or just being nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Theres this cute guy in one of my swimming classes. I think im starting to like him, but I dont know if he likes me or is just being nice. On the day of the midterm, i forgot a pencil, and let me borrow his pen for the midterm. That proves nothing, ...

Would it be wrong for us to date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - Hi, I would like to know if this man likes me, he is older than myself I'm 26 and he is 50. I know him from Church and he has always been really lovely to me when we speak he always strokes my back or arm at some point. I have caught him staring at ...

I Like A Guy I Just Met, But This Older Woman Is Always Flirting With Him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - So I'm Muslim and like a Muslim guy I met recently. Anyway, I friended him on FB and a non Muslim woman he knows has been making a flirty comment like "Rawrrrr!" or "The things I'd do to you yummy" on half his profile photos. He doesn't flirt back ...

How do I combat my shyness and tell him that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Help i have fallen for my sister's White friend after dancing at family wedding. lets start form the beginning. I am a 20 year old Hindu girl and my sister and her friend are 23. recently we all got invited to my cousins wedding. at the recepti...

How do I get this girl out my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 11 years and I do love her we have a child together. The last 8 months I have had another women on mind 24.7. I met her through work well she's a client not a co-worker. The girl is beautiful and in her late 20s ...

I'm rubbish at this dating game, so please help me understand if he wants to see me again or not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I'm rubbish at is dating game and need some advice please..... On Tuesday night I met a guy at a works leaving do. (Our company is huge and he works in a different office and have never seen him before) We were talking all night until the bar we...

She's 18 and I'm 15. Met online. Never talked on phone. Never met in person. Should I do as we planned or what?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - Hello Aunts and uncles! So, I met this girl some time ago (maybe 6-ish months or more) she's 18 and I'm 15. We both have admitted to liking each other, and we've sent pictures of each other (her more than me because it's a bit more difficul...

First she flirted a lot. Now she's not replying. What should I do? Try to contact her asap this week, or wait until next week?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - I met a great girl at a friends party on Saturday. She just flew in from the other side of the country since she is moving here (I'm in LA) and we both had a ton of common interests. She started up the conversation with me, playfully hit my ...

Now some SWOT analysis makes the new guy appear better than my BF. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - So....... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a 4 months. Its not long but it feels like forever to me. Unfortunately recently I have developed feelings for another guy. My sister and i made a list of pros and cons and my boyfriend had so many ...

Am I doing anything wrong? I like a married man and he likes me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - please advise:- I like a married man, he likes me too. we share intimacy like few kisses/smooches /holding hands etc but not physically involved beyond that extent. we like each others company he is a top level guy in my office and I've been emp...

I have feelings for my best friend's man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I hate to admit this, but I have developed feelings for a good friend's boyfriend. I dont know why, but I have, and what makes it worse is I am engaged to a lovely man, who I still really fancy. Even though I would never go there, because I couldnt ...

Do you think this guy is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - This guy and I would talk everyday. I was introduced to his friends, family. His mother apparently knew about me the first day we met. One of his friends told me that he was happy he got my number. He would ask to see me most weekends, invite me ...

Should I go to the party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - There's this guy I like. I suspect he might feels the same. We make eye contact every day in school, we say hello to each other, but we haven't spoken yet. Next Friday there's gonna be a party at school, and today he invited me at Facebook (he's n...

I went to club to just have a good time, still guys look at me wrongly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I went to a nightclub last night. I had a really awesome time with my girl friends. But all of a sudden our enjoyment got lessend due to guys coming and approching us. The guy who approched me took me to his circle of friends and it was three guy...

Should I give those 3 or 4 girls, who each hurt me, a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, i would love to hear opinions from you all. Suppose, all the girls(3 or 4 girls) i fell in love in different stage of my life pretended to love me, when they actually used me to get their ego boost, and hurt me, and finally push me ...

How can I be COOL when starting a new relationship? I think I act too eager at the start, and that results in problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hey there, I need help regarding a pattern I have seen while I'm dating anyone really. I just get attached very quickly and too deeply to the point where I'm waiting for their texts, meeting them, calls and thinking about how to please them...

Why couldn't we stay friends? LDR break-up. He says the trust was broken.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hi guys. I just need to understand something from an outsiders perspective. So I met a guy before Christmas online and we got on great. Only thing was he lived over 100 miles away and I did wonder if this could be a problem. However, I wen...

Loyalty to my friend is stopping me. I can't ask her out, because what kind of a friend would I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - I like this girl in my friend circle and I'm somewhat sure she likes me back. The big problem is that one of my close friends fell for her pretty hard a while back, going as far as to say the whole "never felt this way about anyone like this bef...

Ohhhh, my cousin, I think I love your wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - hi , am someone who have a big problem in his life ...i think i love my cousin wife and she stair att me all the time ...i am really confused when i see her looking at me and iam worried that her husband think a bad idea about us ... i think about ...

I know he has a girlfriend but it doesn't stop me hoping!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - So I there is a guy at work that I really like! I don't know what to do because he has a girlfriend so I know there is no chance we can't be together but that doesn't stop me hoping all the time. We spend a lot of time together and I have been ...

How do I go about making a move on my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3595 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - I have the biggest crush on my coworker. She is 15 years older than I am and she is absolutely beautiful. When she and I make eye contact with one another I can feel sparks. She is usually very protective of me and she is always nervous when she ...

Scared to tell her I really love her. But if she sees me as just a friend then how will I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so I am one of those people who try all time not to catch feelings for people, because I know how it can hurt, but I can never see when its coming. Well, I have this friend on a social network, and I've never met her in Real Life, but I kn...

I'm in love with this girl, but I have a boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3596 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend David (not his real name) have been together for over a year, we're perfect for each other, total puppy love. We’re both 22. But there is this other girl, let’s call her Luna, she's a bit younger than us. I’ve met her in college ...

Does her seeming surprised when I hug her mean she's not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

15 January 2015 (M) - I've been seeing this girl a little while now. We've been on 8 dates, and I think a lot of her - shes great, good looking. I think she likes me - enjoys our time together. We are in touch most days. Shes talks of seeing each other in the futu...

How do I get confidence to make a move on him without alcohol?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - im feeling like a teen again - me and my friend have talked about having a relationship, we like each other in that way , we are in our 30s both shy but because of our shyness none of us have made a move on the other. we flirt, spend time with each ...

Two weeks in of texting and phone calls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

13 January 2015 (M) - Just out of curiosity Guys I have been talking to a girl over the phone and online for two weeks. After around day 4 I start getting messages saying "So have u thought abt me much" at least three to four times a day. I'm just wondering is this s...

Should I try my luck with this guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3598 days ago

13 January 2015 (?) - I suspect that my colleague is gay. I have worked with my colleague for several years and he has never mensioned or commented about being in a relationship or a women. He has recently mentioned he has a new partner. His sexuality is his business and ...

Can a single man genuinely love and accept a woman who has children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - I am in the process of reconsidering my marriage due to a lot of mental abuse. I have told my husband about this. A few months ago I made an acquaintance with a man and he knew I was married and have 2 children. The fact that I have children did not ...

How can I discover the truth? Is he not interested, or is he just having time-out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Hi I just started dating someone new. Before meeting, we were in touch for 10 days quite intensively by text/ SMS. Couldn't meet up sooner as he was away. Then we met up and had a nice first date as far as I was aware (we were intimate, yes a...

He reeled me in and reeled me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I met this guy last year, we became friends and then i began to like him more than a friend. A few months later we kissed and we ended up sleeping together in the same bed but it went no further than that. He wit...

What should I do as I can't stop thinking about my love affair !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - Hi, this probably a really silly situation but I really don't know what to do.... So I've liked this guy for around 4 years every time I used to see him out when I had a drink I used to say things to him I.e I like you, I fancy you etc but things ...

I can't get her out of my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

10 January 2015 (M) - Hello I returned from India last month having spent most of the time volunteering in a school for Tibetans. The trouble is I felt myself getting feelings for one of my students and the thing is she seemed to share those feelings for me, although ...

Friends or more, I don't know and I need some advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3603 days ago

9 January 2015 (F) - Just need some advice and opinions on a current situation I have: Ok here goes, a male colleague has been flirting with me for a good cpl months, he's a cpl yrs younger than me but acts older. Thing is he has a Gf but it doesn't sound great ...

I was insecure at the time, and easily hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3602 days ago

9 January 2015 (F) - I came close to starting a relationship with a man 3 years ago, who WAS also a co-worker, but I wasn't quite over my ex partner and I suspected he was on the rebound after being in a very unhappy marriage for 10 years. I have to say, the guy in ...

When I asked him if he loved me, he replied with "I'd rather not comment." Does he love me or not? How do I know?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

9 January 2015 (F) - So there is this guy who I love deeply (or maybe its infatuation for a whole year). I think he has feelings for me although sometimes am not so sure. Last night while we were chatting, I told him that I loved him and he said "That ain't no secret" ...

What is the average time for liking somebody?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

8 January 2015 (M) - This maybe bizarre and I am not sure why I am asking this as its a vague question. But what do you think the average time is for liking somebody ? Last year a girl started working with us who had a chap , and well I just worked with her as a...

I really like him but he never went to university.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

8 January 2015 (F) - I really like this guy I've been chatting with. He's caring, kind and hardworking but, I just found out that he didn't go to university. I know this shouldn't matter, but I cant seem to get over the prejudice that because he didn't get a higher ...