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female
age
30-35,
*eronicad
writes:This guy and I would talk everyday. I was introduced to his friends, family. His mother apparently knew about me the first day we met. One of his friends told me that he was happy he got my number. He would ask to see me most weekends, invite me events. He would show affection in public, especially in front of his friends, holding my hand. When we caught up, we would talk about anything from sports to family, I felt huge chemistry between us. He seemed to have wanted to know about me genuinely. He would make sure I got home safely and try see me the following day. I am moving away and he told me he would come over and visit. Fast forwarding, he invited me to an event on new years and I said I could maybe come. About a week before new years, he started to text me very bluntly, you could say I am a slightly blunt texter too though but not like how he was texting me. I did it back, and he kept doing it. I told him I wasn't going to be home for the event that he invited, and he seemed to have gotten annoyed. He texted me new years night making no sense, and sending me annoying repetitive messages obviously had been drinking, so I was very blunt back to him. Next day he sent me a happy new year message, I didn't reply then a day or so later he sent me a snapchat. Then days later I sent him a snapchat, he replied bluntly, I said something and he didn't say anything more. 6 days ago I was with a guy who I uploaded a photo of him and I, and then this guy sent me a photo of himself. Today, I sent him a basic message asking how he is and he replied quite happily with smiley faces, asked when I was going to be back, I told him and he said it was a shame because he won't be here this weekend with a smiley face. Then, I told him to enjoy himself and he said something strange like I'll give myself a go and I questioned him and then he said having a good time with a winky face, I said, I don't know in what way you mean. Then we kept talking, and he proceeded to tell me he misses me.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (19 January 2015):
 Kinda seems like a lot of game-playing right now. At first it was all hot, now it's hot and cold.
I mean, the bottom line is that you two don't even live in the same town anymore? I don't think you established enough of a relationship before you left to try and do a long-distance thing now. I'm sure it's nice to have someone who you can flirt with on the regular, but this doesn't sound like a very realistic relationship to me. I'd say have your fun, but don't take this seriously. You should try to find someone in your own town who you can really create a relationship with, instead of this fickle fella.
Good luck!
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