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writes:Just out of curiosity GuysI have been talking to a girl over the phone and online for two weeks.After around day 4 I start getting messages saying "So have u thought abt me much" at least three to four times a day.I'm just wondering is this something to be careful of as in there might be underlying issues there, or am I just over analyzing?Thanks in advance
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reader, UndesireableNo1 +, writes (14 January 2015):
UndesireableNo1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ Notsohappy
Thanks for the responses.
Yes I meant to be honest in that I hoped she was just excited to be talking to me.
Shes 32 YOA(33 in July) One year older than myself.
I was trying to be polite as you said cos we've only just started talking and I'd like to get to know her better before I start replying to those kind of questions.
I do agree about nipping this in the bud straight away, I was in this kind of relationship for five years and i should have nipped it in the bud in year 1. Lesson learned.
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reader, UndesireableNo1 +, writes (13 January 2015):
UndesireableNo1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ Notsohappy
I was hoping it was that TBH.
No not all the time, but at least 2/3 times.
There are also a lot of "Thinking of you x" messages along with the questions.
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reader, UndesireableNo1 +, writes (13 January 2015):
UndesireableNo1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was going with the "Yes of course, I enjoy our chats" reply.
Nothing that would imply I was thinking about her 24/7
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 January 2015):
 Yes, I'd say that is a red flag.
For me at least, I would say you got a NEEDY Nancy or Attention-seeking Anne on your hands.
Unless all your text and subject matter are about the weather or car-tires.
I have to ask, because I am curious. How do you respond to those texts?
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