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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Why do guys ask for my number but never call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Everytime i go out dancing with my friend (girl), I meet a really cool guy we have a good time, and at the end of the night they ask for my number. I give it to the ones I like, and they always end up not calling/ messaging. I'm sick and tired o...

How do you respond to a Facebook flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - With Facebook, Google +1 and the ilk we are flooding more of ourselves into the public eye than at any other time in history. Given that fact, do you take comments, flirts or pokes too seriously? These sites are targeted as social interaction, for...

How did my close friend manage to keep all this to herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - I can't understand what happened on saturday night with this girl i'm friends with, i've known her three years and never seen this side of her!! She's always been a confident, talkative and happy girl. We're on the same course at university and I...

We've hooked up twice but have yet to make it past second base, and now I'm wondering if she's not that into me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - So I'm in college as is the girl I've been very interested in for over a year. I've been working hard at getting on her good side, texting her almost every day "randomly" running into her between classes. If I had to guess it's been pretty obvious ...

How do I rescue this friendship without crossing the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - I have a female friend who is in a relationship with a good male friend of mine. She has been a great listener when I have a problem and both her and her partner are valuable friends for me. The problem I have is that I have been single for a lo...

He was the perfect friend, I fell for him, now he's engaged to someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone , im on my phone so Im sorry if it doesn't make sense or there is any spelling errors. Ok well there is this guy, who in my seems so perfect and I've known him for a while (over 10 years, he was 6 years older.) we get along well , i...

I have a massive crush on my much-older, married landlord. Would it be worth it if I could sleep with him just one night?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Ok I don't know where to begin here but I have a massive crush on my landlord. Like I'm not saying I want to run of to the sunset and marry him lol, but I have fantasised sleeping with him! He's older than well by 20 years but looks like fecking ...

My problem is, I know how to approach women, but how do I approach a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

27 March 2014 (?) - Okay, this might be a bit of a weird one, but here goes. Ever since I can remember, I have been attracted to women, I very rarely ever see a guy that I like even in the slightest but I've recently found myself drawn in by this one guy. I'v...

Question about social media and I guy I like...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Does anybody know about the other messages folder on fb? I met this guy at work, I said hello to him on fb and I'm not sure if he got my message. Shortly after I sent it he hid stuff from me like all the porn and girly mags he's fans of (not my ...

She said she was straight but I'm starting to wonder if she secretly has feelings for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - basically I've been living with a bunch of friends for 2 years now. We all knew each other for an additional year before that. At the start of that year when we all met one another, I openly admitted that I thought this one girl in the group was ...

What should or could I do, without ruining our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3892 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hello. I'm 23, and for as long as I can remember I have never had any romantic feelings for women, but ever since I have got closer and closer to a girl I work with, it's getting more and more harder to pretend those feelings aren't there. She ...

Should I give it another try? Really miss him, but he's still broken over his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 2 months, and i really like him, but hes not over his ex girlfriend. She dumped him and she is now seeing one of his best friends, so he's really hurting from it still. However we had an amazing 2 months together spe...

I want to ask her out but I don't want to come across as creepy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

26 March 2014 (M) - Ok I need some thoughts on this, I have met a younger girl through my work, I own a small maintenance company and have met with her a good few times to discuss various repairs she needed in her home, she is attractive and around 25, I do know she ...

Falling in love with one of my best friends. How do I manage this without ruining our amazing friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I think I'm falling for one of my best friends. Admittedly I was interested in him when we first met. We started out just running together after meeting at school, and I originally thought that was a precursor to something more, but nothing ...

Do folk think the likes me or not? How can I show him I am interested ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling confused over a man I have knew for a few months. He blows hot and cold! I see him once a week at church, Some weeks he is great around me and comes up to me and chats away, putting his arm around me,rubs my arm, flirts ect a...

When do I know when he wants to become official? What are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I need some help haha. I have been seeing a guy for some time now, we constantly text all the time, and we have also spent some time together. I asked a couple of weeks ago what was happening between us, he told me he wanted a relationship however ...

I don't even know his name :(

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I'm looking for some advice on how to best get in touch with a guy I like. Basically I met him through teaching an exercise class. I'm the instructor and he's a participant. Please don't judge me here and think I use my job to meet guys, I don...

Is asking this question a good way to find out if girls are interested in me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - I have made a habit of asking girls I like "were you waiting for me". I do this when visiting a shop, coming to work etc., to gauge their interest in me, from girls I know. I have received emphatic "no's" and I have no doubt that means no, nix, nyet ...

He's not ready to date anyone, and I want more. What do I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - We've known eachother for nearly 5 months, but in fairness we've only met a couple of times. So in person we still have much to know about eachother. However, our chats on facebook got us very close, which we ended up having a couple of dates. After ...

Is he playing games or is it all in my head? Does he like me or is he being EXTREMELY nice?? IDK. Help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - Im female, 19, and a college freshman. I have an issue with teacher crushes that i never acted on until this year. My drum instructor and I didnt have much of a relationship at the beginning of this year. Lets just say he was a cocky jerk. He a...

I dreamt I slept with my boss. What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - My boss is a little bit younger than I am. Before she was promoted we were peers. We get along very well at work and she leans on me heavily since she is a new manager and I am more experienced. I have always been attracted to her but I have kep...

My friend thinks I'm pushing him away. How do I salvage this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - okay, its a pretty complicated case. so guy a and girl b are very good friends and over time girl b starts falling helplessly in love with guy a. at first she thinks he may have feelings for her, but now guy a has a girlfriend. despite all this, guy ...

I've developed a crush on a female co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - There's this girl at my job who is 2 years older than me and I like her...a lot...ish...i don't know. I was working with her the other day more closely than usual because we were at the front stand together. She told me she liked me a lot in the ...

Since he doesn't like me, how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - i thought a shy friend of mine liked me, but now i've come to the conclusion that it was all in my head. I only thought he liked me because of our mutual friend's teasing (i.e. making references about me being his "boo/girl", asking me multiple...

I couldn't get rid of the other guy, do you think the guy I like was annoyed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Should i call this guy or not? I'm not sure whether to call this guy or not. When we met, he told me that he would like to go to the theatre with me to see a show. The show starts next week ,and it is on for a couple of weeks. We...

In love with my best friend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and it's starting to tear me up. I'm mostly all for truth and confessing, but this case is a bit different, so I'm going to start with the back story. We've known each other since summer 2012, after meeting on...

How should I apologize to him? I wrongly listened to a manipulative ex-friend. He was not in the wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi there. I have never felt this guilty in my life before, which is why I want to seek help here. So, there is a guy in my new organization who likes me. It's been only a month now, when I joined a new job. He is different in all the ways. He comes...

My crush has become more attentive. Is it possible she likes me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - Hi I have a crush on a younger girl at work. I'm 30, and I'd guess she's maybe 22 or 23. A while back (maybe a year and a half), there was a night out and I stupidly told people I liked her, despite the fact we had barely even spoken beyond ve...

Would put him off if my friend told him I like him?? Instead of me communicating to him, in some way, that I like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi I'm thinking about telling my crush how I feel about him but I'm not sure how to do it and I've been going over it so much that I think I'm confusing myself. My friend offered to tell him for me but I'm not sure if this will put him off if I don...

He stopped talking about this female coworker, what does this mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Ever since my husband had learned his younger female coworker was getting a divorce, it was non-stop talk about her for a good year and a half. I would hear she is attractive, why would someone divorce a beautiful woman like her. I would hear ...

He keeps texting me wanting to meet up but he hurt me bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - I fancied this guy for about 2 years, we flirted on and off for ages and made out a couple times. He then out of the blue kissed this other girl and they dated for about a month. They broke up quite quickly. Ever since he has been constantly ...

I think my husband has a crush at work and its making me uncomfortable

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Would anyone else think anything of this? Or am I just being paranoid? My husband of 6 years has recently started a new job. He's been there about 2 months now. He works in a team of 7 others, one Man and six women. For the past 3 weeks he h...

Is this a good time to tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I've been casually dating a guy I work with for nearly 6mths now. We both work shifts so we see each other when we can. Its great and we get on really well. He had a heart attack 2wks ago and it was touch and go for a while. This has made me realise ...

I realize what he did makes him sound bad but he's a nice guy, do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I have liked this boy in my year for about 3 tears now and I really like him and sometimes he gives me signs that he likes me back but then he also flirts with other girls, he looks at me a lot and smiles at me a lot and we have loads in common ...

Heard rumours about this married guy I like. Should I tell him about the rumours, without sounding jealous, nor like a gossip?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I have a good friend in the office. In fact i've a crush on him but will never act on this feeling because he's married. Don't want to get hurt as going out with a married man, it's the worst thing of all to do. Guess he also feels attracted to...

It's early days, but after just two dates - were his actions charming or creepy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Hi Agony Aunt folks I have a question , So I met this guy online we had 2 dates so far he is a cop and seems very nice a lot different form the last guy I dated I have had bad luck lately in the men department and seem to end up with abusive men so ...

What does he want? He has a girlfriend! I am utterly confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - We are in 12th grade and both in the same class.We were never close until the start of 12th grade.We aren't close now either but it's better than before.I don't know how it turned like this, but in the past few weeks he acts strangely to say so. Ev...

My heart says fight. My head says let it go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 March 2014 (M) - So I've asked for advice on here before about this guy from work. I'm crazy about him, for the past 6 months all I've ever thought about was him. When I found out he was bi, I decided to tell him that I like him. He said I'm a great guy but he's ...

I'm good friends with both of them... do I tell her he cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

16 March 2014 (M) - Hi, my name is Danny and I have this best friend called Charlie (girl). Me and Charlie have been friends for-EVER! She is the closest thing I have to a sister, as i'm an only child. I have this band and i'm the lead, so I write songs and m...

I've fallen hard but there are obstacles to a potential relationship. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

16 March 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a gay guy of 17 and have never really had good luck with guys. About a month ago I began talking to a gay through a dating app, we'd both recently just gotten out of a relationship. Everyday since we first spoke we've messaged...

Could my crush like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - so the story goes likes this: on my first day at university i saw this guy on the bus and i immediately thought he was cute.but i soon forgot about him. on another random day at uni i saw this guy again, and this time i saw him enter the of...

I know he is not sincere but can't get him out of my mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - Hello. My problem is that i would like to put this man out of my mind but however hard i try, i constantly see him at work. In the beginning i nnoticed that he was always fixing me when i pass near his office. He wwill always be there when i come in ...

I love my boyfriend but am attracted to the gay guy at work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I work at a book store near my hometown. I'm pretty shy so it's hard for me to connect with people. It's been a couple of months since I started working there, so it's getting easier. My coworkers are actually pretty cool. Especially one person in ...

How do we solve the unknown "differences" between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

14 March 2014 (F) - I am in love with a guy for a year. Recently there was a lot of communication problems because of our final exams taking place consecutively. We have not been talking properly for 48 days. I met him some days before and found a change in his ...

What is with guys NOT texting back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

14 March 2014 (F) - I know this is a question most women ask but... What is with guys NOT texting back? Theres a guy I have known for about 3 years and we have always been friends work, abit of flirting sometimes but weve always been friends. We like each other...

How can I regain his trust? How long will it take? And can someone fall in love again after this kind of hardship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - So to sum it up I had feelings for this guy "E." Who didn't like me back. "W" helped me through the grieving process. "E" and "W"are best friends. W started to have feelings for me but I kept rejecting him because I was still grieving. Finally after ...

How do you get over a crush and what is the best way to do so?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

12 March 2014 (M) - Hi cupid How do you get over a crush and what is the best way to do so? Can you stay friends or no contact is the rule! Staying friends doesn't mean there is hope of you being with that person any soon! So what do you guys think about it ?...

How should I ask this guy for his number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - How should I ask this guy for his number? I'm on a course at the moment. It finishes this week. I like a guy on the course. He doesn't know that I like him though. I want to ask him for his number so that we can keep in touch after the course h...

Why do the guys I get close to only see me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for quite a while now and I've never imagined myself falling for him. He's really fun to hangout out with and our conversations never gets boring we also share the same interests. We always joke around about us being ...

My crush invited me to her wedding!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

11 March 2014 (M) - So I get emails from a girl who I used to hang out with a year ago (She knows I had feelings for her). I asked her whats new in her life since we had not been communicating for a while, and she says she is getting married and would like if I came ...