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anonymous
writes:I have liked this boy in my year for about 3 tears now and I really like him and sometimes he gives me signs that he likes me back but then he also flirts with other girls, he looks at me a lot and smiles at me a lot and we have loads in common however he recently slept with a younger girl but he told her he didn't want anything serious(I realise this makes him sound bad) but he's a nice guy with me.I am thinking about telling him how I feel as we are getting near leaving school now and I worry we will not speak out of school but im not sure how to tell him because im scared of rejection and in my head im sure he likes my friend because of the way he looks at her but we kind of have history/chemistry. Please help and tell me what to do next and do you think he likes me back? thank you.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (21 March 2014):
Dear OP,
He sounds like a "bad guy" type. So, I don't think he would reject you, but probably have a good time with you.. then have sex.. then dump you. Like he did with that other girl. You might have a connection or chemistry, yes.. but he doesn't sound like the type that will fall in love. He sounds like he'd use that "chemistry" to get in your pants and you are one or several attractive options for him.
My advice: Enjoy a little flirting and fantasizing, but don't get emotional or romantic over him.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (20 March 2014):
 I wouldn't do or say anything to him. Not without good reason to believe he fancies you and no one else. That means no more 'looking at' and flirting with others. Otherwise you make yourself look desperate and leave yourself open to exploitation.
And the fact that he doesn't mind you knowing he used a girl for sex should be off putting. Do you think that girl would have had sex with him if she weren't also attracted to him as you are?
There is no reason to think he feels any differently about you than he does about anyone else. And without clear proof that he does making any kind of overture is too risky.
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