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writes:so the story goes likes this: on my first day at university i saw this guy on the bus and i immediately thought he was cute.but i soon forgot about him.on another random day at uni i saw this guy again, and this time i saw him enter the office of our school's church group. now, i do have a friend who's in this same group so i decided to look him up on her facebook friends and i found him. i added him but there was no reply.months passed and i forgot about him all over again, but lately i've noticed that every friday he comes there to visits his friends. i decided to tell my friend about him and told her that i liked him and she said that the next time that he comes she'll introduce me to him.that day came and i received a message from her saying "hey he's here come down to the office!!" but i chickened out and made up an excuse instead so that i don't go.now last friday, i kinda knew that he'll be there so i decided to spend my free lesson with this friend. at a point in time, as we were going to the canteen to buy something to eat, i saw him walking towards us. my friend stopped him and said hello, and introduced me to him!!!!! :D :D we shook hands (and that was electrifying!!) and introduced a bit ourselves to each other and chatted about school and teachers and movies and bla bla bla... anyways, me and my friend carried on our way and went to sit in a quite place, while he went to the office to play table tennis. when it was time for me to got to my next lesson i had to go get my things from the office as i had left them there, and as i went there i found my crush blocking the door as he was apparently fooling around and not letting some of his friends in. when he saw me he said " ohh its you..yeah you can come in" he slipped me through, i got my things and turned round to leave again. he opened the door for me and as i made my way out i told him that i was pleased to meet him and he said "me too" and smiled.now, later that evening, i followed my sister's advice and added him as a friend. a few second later he accepted me!!!! later ( and i promise that i really had no intentions behind it!) i decided that my profile pic needed a change so i did change it and guess what??!! not even minutes after i pressed the "done" button he liked it!!! ok i know it was a long annoying story but i wanted you to get into my situation! do you think that maybe he might like me?! i mean i literally cried when i saw that he was the 1st person to like it and i don't want to get my heart broken again! what do you guys think?thank you all for your time :) xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2014): Hmmm, it's hard to tell right now, you've only had one meeting with him. He seems quite interested in you, but you still need to give it time. Looks aren't everything. He could be a perv, or a player. He may already have a gf, or as Sensible Alice said, he may like someone else. It's possible he could just be being friendly. Be his friend first before you do anything.
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reader, Sensible Alice  +, writes (18 March 2014):
 Sometimes we are just so enamoured with a person we start romanticising them in our head, putting scenarios there that aren't there yet. You like this guy. He's just met you. He could very well come to like you in the future. He might like someone else. You just don't know. Try not to think too much into it just yet, in case you end up disappointed. But, take every opportunity you can to get to know him. Maybe your friend can arrange a group activity, where a group of you get together. That way you can see how he acts. You might be surprised to find you don't like him as much as you thought or you might like him even more. The more he gets to know you, the more chance he has of getting the hint you like him. Good luck!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 March 2014):
 I think that you need to just get to know this guy more before you think of him romantically. You might think he looks attractive but you still don't know what he is like personality wise. Get to know him more and just see what happens.
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