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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

30 April 2014 (M) - I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as...

There's a guy I like and I think he likes me too. How should I approach him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - I am a gay guy. There's this new guy at a restaurant I go to. He started looking at me from the first day he started to work. I noticed he looks at me very often and gives me a shy smile. I also showed interest. He shows interest whenever I look at ...

Why do guys tease women they find attractive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - What does this mean? This guy playfully teases me but he only does it in the presence of others, mainly men. Alone he's nice. I find some of it funny. He says stuff like it's raining outside it's your fault don't know why, he's obviously joking ...

I am falling for the wrong guy. How do I forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - Dear all, Please help me The thing is am falling for a wrong guy. Though he never directly told me anything everybody feels he likes me but the problem is his nature and my nature doesn't match and he is too dominating at present. We are just fri...

I just can't get over my ex co-worker.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - So I have been totally ruined my life because of this situation. I love my boss a lot. I am a woman too, I was not gay in my whole of my life. When I saw her first time she attracted me, I didn't feel like that for any of other girl. I was thin...

I worry I am reading too much into his flirty, chatty talks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - Say you see a person of the opposite sex every day and you always have interesting conversations about random things. Or maybe they always ask "how are you?" when you come in and ask about your day. Could this be possibly be flirting? Or am ...

Friend is now with a guy, but will he develop feelings for me again if I pursue our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - Short question not really important but I'd like some opinions on it. I have had this friend of mine for about 4 or so years now. We met in middleschool and he always had a heart of gold, and when I got to Highschool he...

Am I deluding myself? Should I make a move on this aged 40s guy who I think flirts with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi, i want to know if this man has a thing for me or i am deluding myself? I know a man professionally and don't see him often but when i do he is always looking at my chest, flirting with and more importantly always going above and beyond when i a...

I'm confused. He makes deep long eye contact with me but flirts with lots of girls. He has my number but doesn't call or text. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3854 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - So here is a guy in my class who used to teasing my in a playf way but he doesn't anymore, he uses to sits close to me in the class and also he used to make a short eye contact when I'm in the halls and he's with his friends. I heared he has a crush ...

He was almost perfect for me. If I should forget him, then how?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - It's been 1 year and I still think about him every day! I met a guy that was almost perfect for me. You know what I mean by "perfect". Like you are the star of a drama/romantic comedy series and he's the guy that all of the show's viewers keep eag...

Thought I had a chance with my crush when his relationship failed, but now they're back together. Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - Hi all, I need some advice. I've had this massive crush on a guy for the last 5 years. He's a year older than me and I met him in school. He's an amazing guy, extremely good looking, gentleman personality and has a great career ahead of him. I ...

Am I too young to be interested in my older colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - So I'm in my teens and me and this 27 year old guy have been texting recently and I knew really believed in love but I think I love him? He is the only person who can make me smile and I can't wait to work when I know he is on the same shift we have...

I know she's straight and I should just give up, but I can't. Should I just give up being her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - I'm a bisexual 15 year old and I'm unsure on what to do right now. I've liked this girl (who's 16) for over 3 years now. Last year in October I told her that I liked her. This girl happens to be straight and I told her that I was bisexual after ...

What do his signals mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone! Im really confused with the signals this guy has been giving me and I was just wondering if you could give me some advice on the subject. So last September I started college,and met a guy lets just call him X.X and I started to hang ...

Are these feeling of attraction normal chemistry and I should forget them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts/Uncles, Wonder if anyone can give me some good advice? I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5/3 years, with a rocky middle part inc. a 3 month break up. (Due to lack of maturity on his part and he's worked hard to piece us back tog...

This intense attraction is causing distraction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3859 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - This guy I know just asked me to join his band. I was extremely excited by the offer and went for it. Because we have common friends, band kids (he) and choir kids (I) attend many of the same events, and I'v been going to school with him...

Everybody knows he likes another girl so what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Ok, hi there. I am a 16 year old girl who us super shy. No-one pays attention to me due to my 2 pretty best friends( they know their prettier than me and make me feel worse). Recently a boy at my school has started talking to me just saying hi etc, ...

I really like her but I don't want to ruin our friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3860 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - So I'm a girl and I have recently found myself attracted to my friend who's a girl. When I had my birthday party she told me that she liked this guy, but every time were together it's like we have some connection. There's this other girl that were ...

Genuinely interested or wasting my time? What does it take for a guy to approach a gal, where he is genuinely interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

18 April 2014 (?) - I've been single for nearly 5 years and am ready for a committed relationship. I feel that I have been single this long due to choice but know that I know I am ready I beginning to think I am doing something wrong. I have this tendency to crush over ...

I fancied a guy then he asked out my friend. Now I fancy another guy and I'm afraid the same thing is going to happen again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - About a year ago I fancied this guy. We flirted for a while but nothing became of it, I didn't tell anyone because I like to keep myself to myself. A. While after he asked out my best friend (there's 3 of us). I was heart broken but after a while I ...

My new friend has confessed she's in love with me, and I wonder why my ex was so enraged by our friendship! Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3861 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - I'm in a very weird situation. I broke up with my ex boyfriend last August due to the fact that I was moving away, we ended on extremely good terms and the only reason we broke up was so the distance wouldn't ruin what we had and we could get back...

Why did he hold hands with me? Did it mean nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - There was this dance at our school and an after party at a club.When I left the club, I left with my now best friend who is a guy(M) and one of his classmates(B) that lives close to us and I used to be friends with.Not anymore.B was really drunk ...

I Need Serious Advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - It has been two weeks since me and my previous ex-"boyfriend" ceased contact. The story behind us is very long, so I will try my best to keep it short. Basically, we met over the internet (Instagram precisely) last summer. You know the usual f...

Lunch? Date? What to wear? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

16 April 2014 (?) - So this guy I like (im 17 and he's 19) asked me to go to lunch with him tomorrow and I'm so nervous. Is this considered a date even though he's told me in the past that he doesn't like me? also since its just lunch should I dress nice? He hasnt told ...

Should I be friends with him or not? I think I am attracted to him though I am happily married and deeply in love with my husband!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I have been married for 6 years and I am deeply in love with my husband . However I have a friend very close to my heart and we get along really well ! We like each other's company and do spend a lot of time chatting on Facebook ! Recently, I have ...

I've been debating asking her out for months or waiting for the right moment but nothing seems to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

15 April 2014 (M) - I am currently at school right now and met a girl I find I really like a lot. We transferred in the same semester (this is both our first semesters) and are in a class together, often get paired in group projects together, etc. I've been debating ...

Does the CEO like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - Hello. I really like this guy from work. His really out my league. His the c.e.o, single and very friendly. When i first met him he was very warm and friendly. But i get so shy around him. So i try to avoid him. But i need to work with him ...

Is there one person you've never got over?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - Is there one person you've never got over? When I was in my early 20s I had a brief (2 year) relationship with a man. He was the first man to ever treat me properly and he was the perfect gentleman - for the first 18 months at least! The last ...

Do I dive off the cliff, hope for the best and ask her out or do I just leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

15 April 2014 (M) - I'm in college now. My friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. I know both of them and get along with them quite well. I really like her but I'm not sure wether or not I'm in the famous "friend zone" or wether she likes me too. We text daily ...

I've crushed on him for two years - should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - so I am 16 years old and I have liked this guy for 2 years now. Well, I think I might be in love with him. He has no idea that I am, but there is such a confusing story behind it and it’s getting so emotionally draining that I just need the best ...

I know that we'd be better together than he is with his current girlfriend, but how I do I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - Long story short, I like my guy friend. We met through a campus organization and have known one another for a year. As I am preparing to enter the executive board of the club this year, we have gotten closer as he is already on board. He is a g...

What's the best way to get back in touch with her and tell her how I felt/feel about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

14 April 2014 (M) - Firstly, I’d like to apologise, because this is probably gonna be a bit long-winded and possibly meandering so thank you in advance to anyone who sticks through it! So it’s been roughly a year since I finished college. I never had much of a social...

He initiated things, now he's pulling away. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - I've known him for about six months. I got really close to him very quickly, and he was the one initiating conversations and asking personal questions. I ended up telling him the problems I have (drug addiction, severe anxiety, along with depre...

Why am I accused of flirting and how do I make friends with guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3865 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - This question is two-fold. a) how do I stop getting accused of flirting when I'm not/stop my friends, co workers, and complete strangers from making assumptions that I like someone? The problem here is that sometimes I *do* get a crush on ...

My boyfriend likes my little sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for the past 5 months.about two weeks ago I've been noticing that my boyfriend has been messing with my little sister. What I mean by messing with her I mean like talking and hanging out with her more it ...

What should my next move be with my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

13 April 2014 (M) - Hey guys, Basically, an exchange student joined my university course last year and over the course of the year I developed feelings for her. I thought I got signals but she turned me down after I asked her out - her excuse was she wasnt over her e...

What does he mean by "emotionally invested"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - If a man who is known for being extremely bad at expressing his emotions but who you think fancies you, blurts out that he is 'emotionally invested' in you/your future, what does that mean? That he cares as a friend? Or more?...

I think my co-worker is attracted to me -- what's the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3865 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - I'm in a bit of a dilemma right now... I feel that one of my co-workers has feelings for me. To start off, since I started the job, he's always been helpful and friendly with me. However lately, he's become what you could say more 'friendl...

I want a relationship and she's happy with the way things are now, I'm not sure what to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

12 April 2014 (M) - I was hoping to get some advice on what I should do in this situation I'm in. Quite honestly it's not one I've been in before so not sure what to do. I've been seeing this girl for a little while now. I'm a young professional and she is a stu...

Is it just human nature to be never thankful ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

12 April 2014 (M) - Hi I was wondering why sometimes in our lives when are having a normal life ; stable relationship and everything going on nicely ; we still think of our few crushes we had in our lives which makes us question that maybe this is something I don'...

If he feels he can't be with me, then why did he tell me he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Hello. Feelings just happen, and have for me been like this for quite some time. I have a crush for a man but he is married. I kept my feelings to myself. I guess he also feels the same. We have always been professional. Recently while he ...

Guys, what should I do next? I want to see him again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - A question for the guys: If you met a woman at a party and she wanted to see you again, how would you like to be contacted? I was at a huge anniversary party yesterday. I was bored so I looked across the room and I saw this charming guy who was ...

Could it be he prefers other girls but settles for me because I'm so eager to spend time with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - Hello. I have a complicated relationship with my best friend. We have known each other for two years now, and have spent a whole lot of time getting to know each other. In fact, we're together so much we are mistaken for a couple all of the time. ...

He used to be annoying but he's changed and now I have a crush on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - So yeah our story is a bit complicated. Sad is it not? It started me really not liking him and I mean REALLY not liking him because he was so annoying, rude, haughty and just blech. Always sticking his hand in my face, poking my sides, blowing in my ...

If he likes me why avoid touching me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - please help me understand this if a guy likes a girl why would he avoid touching her.? there is one of my male friend he talks to me stares me does everything that makes me and my friends feel he likes me but he avoids to touch me he does touches ...

Why did he reject me and how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - Colleague at work- who we've been up and down for a year . Recently he is back to flirtign and we get on like a house on fire. I have tried to move on which he knows about!! He over hears me talking to a friend saying how i still like this man et...

Are these the signs of a friend or a man who is interested in more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - A man acts in the following ways with me: Always pays most attention to me in a group situation to the point where if we are all sitting and lingering after a discussion and some people leave and others stay but then I stand up to go, he will imme...

Should I tell a girl I like her even though she has a boyfriend now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

8 April 2014 (M) - I have liked this girl for over a year almost 2. I am 25 she's in her 30's. We have got along well, she has always given me those "looks" she always laughs when she's talking to me and can be touchy. Thing is I wasn't sure as she's kinda flirty with ...

I like this guy but I'm worried he's heard something negative about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - I met this guy I really like at the gym. I add him on facebook and he messages me his number. We text for a couple of days and he said that he was out in town on saturday night and if i was out to go and meet him for a drink. I didnt contact him sat ...

He seems to have a 'type' and I'm not it, should I be concerned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - Ok quick question that needs some honest answers .... If a woman is with a man and he is often commenting in women he thinks are attractive and every single one of those seem like a similar type which happens to be nothing like her ... Does she have ...