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writes:If a man who is known for being extremely bad at expressing his emotions but who you think fancies you, blurts out that he is 'emotionally invested' in you/your future, what does that mean? That he cares as a friend? Or more? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (14 April 2014):
 It means that he's OK with extending "emotional credit" to you, as long as you keep putting out....
Honestly, how izzit that guys get away with feeding you girls these obscure - but oh-so-obvious - lines... and you (girls) think that there's so much "depth" to them. We guys are NOT all that sophistocated!!!!!
Good luck...
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 April 2014):
 read Tisha-1 she has him pegged!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 April 2014):
 If he's not asking you out he's probably not available…. but he does care that you are happy with your future would be my guess.
Why not ask him a follow-up question?
If he's in your age bracket and hasn't asked you out, I would not hold your breath. Unless there's something that's keeping him from making that move, like a wife or longtime girlfriend or even a short time girlfriend?
I think more info would be needed.
Do you want to be with a man who is bad at expressing his emotions?
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (13 April 2014):
 Not sure what he means, exactly, but personally I wouldn't encourage anyone who is notoriously bad at expressing his emotions. Especiallly since you don't have the type of relatinship/ friendship with him where you feel comfortable simply asking him what he meant.
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