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writes: Ok, hi there. I am a 16 year old girl who us super shy. No-one pays attention to me due to my 2 pretty best friends( they know their prettier than me and make me feel worse).Recently a boy at my school has started talking to me just saying hi etc, but because no-one pays attention to me I started to develop a crush on him because of how nice he was to me.we were paired up for an English project and I had to meet him in town. We finished and went for lunch and then he wad being even nicer to me holding the door open and he held my hand when he walked me to the bus station.There is a girl at school he really likes though (everyone knows) so what does this mean and what do I do? Thanks
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (21 April 2014):
Guess what, Prety is Highly over-rated. I mean a pretty girl can be a real dog when it comes to relationships. I can remember way back when that the best dates were ALWAYS with the "B list" girls. The 'a-list" girls knew they were the A list and acted like they didn't need to do anything to make thier date like them. BORING.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2014): Do your friends make you feel worse? Or do you feel worse because you think they're prettier than you? If it's the former, find new friends.
I think you let go if HE has said he likes this other girl, but if he hasn't said it, try to get to know him better. He may just be trying to be nice, so don't invest too much in it yet.
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