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30-35,
*oultonbrix
writes:I'm in college now. My friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. I know both of them and get along with them quite well. I really like her but I'm not sure wether or not I'm in the famous "friend zone" or wether she likes me too. We text daily and she hangs out with me all the time; pretty much whenever I ask. However, she is always telling me about these guys that are texting her and I'm not sure if that's to make me feel jealous, I'm not really one for giving advice so I know she's not asking for that. Also, she will always tell me "[shes] going to die alone" I'm not sure if this is to make me say something like "no you're not, you have me" or wether it is because she legitimately feels that way and is looking for sympathy. She is well over her boyfriend, they broke up 2 months ago. We all work together though. Thus, it would be a little awkward for me to ask her out. If she says yes, then it'll be awkward with my friend/the ex. If she says no, then it'll be awkward with both of them. How do I approach this? Do I dive off the cliff, hope for the best and ask her out or do I just leave it?
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (16 April 2014):
 I agree with Honeypie, take the plunge and ask her out. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Worst she says no at least you know where you stand and can then move on. Go for it ask her out.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 April 2014):
 Think of yourself as a turtle. (and) Remember, a turtle can only get ahead when he sticks his neck out.....
Good luck...
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reader, kinjal  +, writes (15 April 2014):
well I would ask u to give sum time observe her look out for signs if u find out she is interested in u ask her out or move on this will atleast help u both to be good friends in future
I would give u some suggestions
1.casually ask her will she like to enter into a relationship or she prefers being a single if she says she is ready to enter in relationship ask her does she like anyone
2.try jealously techniques talk about anyother girl praise other girl if she shows jealously it definitely means she treats u more than a friend
3.ignore techniques ignore and avoid her if she bothers too much and is dying to make u treat her in normal way u get it she likes u.
u must according to me neither approach her now nor move on just try figuring out things
All the best.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 April 2014):
 You could ask her out on a date and if she doesn't jump at the chance you can save it by saying as friends...
The biggest issue is that she used to date a friend, that can be a potential for drama.
Now if she turns you down are you willing to stop trying to push the issue later and find another girl to date?
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