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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i want to know if this man has a thing for me or i am deluding myself?I know a man professionally and don't see him often but when i do he is always looking at my chest, flirting with and more importantly always going above and beyond when i ask for help. I saw him on the street today as i had my daughter with me he didn't approach me but stood staring at me and i am not going to lie I enjoyed it. I am in my 20s and only ever been with my daughter's father, who i got with at school but we split up a few months ago so am single now, but this man is in his 40s with kids but his Facebook says divorced.How do i tell him i want him to make a move or? Or am i reading too much into it and he's just being a typical man, how many other girls does he flirt with day to day. So don't want to make a fool if myself but cant stop thinking about him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 April 2014):
 I would say go for it if you are interested in getting an itch scratched. do not allow him to meet your child, do not consider that this would be anything more than a fling.
the age gap is large and the places you two are in life may be insurmountable for anything more than fun and games.
but as a fling when your not busy with work or parenting, then I see nothing wrong with it.
a man looking at you or even flirting with you however, does not mean all that much... men look and flirt without wanting anything more than that. (so do women)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (25 April 2014):
 We don't know whether he is interested or not. Maybe he likes you, and likes your physical features, as men will like women. But he hasn't gone beyond the flirting.
On another note, maybe you'd be better off with someone of more similar age.
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