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writes:So yeah our story is a bit complicated. Sad is it not? It started me really not liking him and I mean REALLY not liking him because he was so annoying, rude, haughty and just blech. Always sticking his hand in my face, poking my sides, blowing in my ear just stupid stuff, bit compliment me sometimes. Then about a year after that I started getting used to him in class. Emailed or texted random things nothing meaningful. We kinda got along, talking a lot more. Few months later he went on vacation, gone for a year. We didn't talk at all. Then he came back he changed COMPLETELY. I was like WOW. Actually made me like him a bit. He texted me later and asked "do you have a crush on me?" I said no, he said he was like "FRIENDS! :D I'm actually relieved you don't have a crush on me". He also said he had a flirtatious personality and he was trying to work on it. However there was more poking, blowing in the ear and standing really close to me a.k.a what you might say is flirting. I didn't start having a crush on him until June.Then I opened this Ask.fm thing and it was all anonymous... HOWEVER I KNOW that when "people" meaning him...he was asking if I liked anyone, I said "I'm not telling". He said "that means yes" and stuff like "I miss you boo!!" and “Would you go up to a guy and talk to him or wait for him to talk to you” Weird questions like that.After this just I want to say strange behavior three months later I admitted I liked him through text. He got a lot closer, sitting next to me, drinking from my cup, standing really close to me blah bla etc. I though he might have a thing or a crush on me, so later I texted him I MIGHT have a crush on him. Cause sometimes the girl needs to say it first. He didn't text anything back just ALOT more staring. Nothing changed other than that. Three months later I asked if he had a crush on me he said "Sorry I don't. I like someone else. "Oh ok :)" "She's great." Later he asked me on ask.fm talking about the guy I like (which is him, and it's HIM asking questions ABOUT the guy I like...and he KNOWS it's him...but doesn't know I KNOW it's him asking the questions..."On a scale of 1-10 how bad do you want a hug from 10 being you want to hug him and never let go and 1 being you want to just give him a highfive" I said "8.5" Then he asked "Would you currently like to give this guy a kiss?" I said "that's deeper. We're just friends" Why would he ask if he said he likes someone else??? I'm not getting him. Please help!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 April 2014):
 I agree with Ciar, apparently he has changed but not that much, he still gets a kick out of teasing you and needling you, just he now does it in a subtler way rather than by poking and sticking his hands in your face.
He knows you have a crush on him, and he's having the time of his life playing on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2014): He's messing with you. Keep him at arms length and move on unless you're okay with getting hurt.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (11 April 2014):
 I think what you're getting here is a bit of pay back for all those times he annoyed you and you couldn't stand him.
He may have changed some, OP, but apparently not for the better. He's toying with you, not because he hates you or anything but to punish you and give himself the upper hand he never had before.
Treat him as an acquaintance and nothing more.
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