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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Does he love me even though he says he doesn't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Last school year my friend and I began to hook up. After he graduated he left for an internship across the country and left me in our hometown. While he was there he would say I miss you etc... When he came home before going to college we hooked u...

Does a teacher know when a student has a crush on them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know????? No biggie, my friend does...

Why did this girl walk away the minute she moved into the house with her boyfriend and not speak to me for a couple of years and then get back in touch, mess me around and fob me off and then shut me out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi there. Four years ago I had a relationship with a girl who was about to move in with her long term boyfriend. I know it was wrong but I was lonely and inexperienced and she had issues with her bf and had recently lost her father. We met at ...

Me and my best guy friend almost kissed last week!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Me and my guy bestfriend almost kissed last week. I don't know what to do. Im starting to fall for him and idk what to do. He askked me who do i like. I tolod him i like you a little bit nd then i asked him who do u like? and he said no1. Im ...

I love him , he loves her, she doesn't love him . Can he love me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hi All, I love my friend for One year i know him, he's so shy and a very good person he is kind to everyone ,i never met a person like this . So i told him that i love him more than anyone else , he keep silent . After one month i discover...

How can I get this boring clingy guy to leave me alone? I'm not interested in him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I need help. This friend of mine will not leave me alone. I think he's obsessed with me. He asked me out but I turned him down because he is just not my type and to be honest he's boring and clingy. Since then everything I have said that I'm doin...

I'm shy and have a big crush on a guy at the store. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have a big crush on this guy at the store I want to ask him to lunch but I'm so shy I told him he was really funny after never spoke to him again and ever since he stares at me when I walk by I turn so red and he talks t everyone but me I'm lost...

When should I tell my therapist of my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been to my college's counseling services for about 2 and 1/2 years now, and have developed a strong attachment to my therapist. It took a long time for me to trust her, but now I know that she truly cares and won't judge me. Part of the ...

How can I get out of this rut? And How can you like someone when you don't really know him, and when you can't speak to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hiya Im not really sure what answers Im looking for but Ill try and make some sense! Im nearly 21 and Ive never had a boyfriend, kissed a boy etc. I'm also overweight but am in the progress of losing weight :) I feel constantly like I'm...

We've shared kisses on a regular basis. What do the "looks" she gives him, when he flirts with me, mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - It started around 4 months ago. I went to my best friends house for a few drinks as it was Christmas Day and it's tradition, only this year her friend came and we started talking straight away. He is the same age as my best friend (20) two ...

Would it be wrong to date my cousin's ex boyfriend?

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30 March 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to date your cousins ex boyfriend? They have 2 children together. I dont feel like its wrong but i am worried about what my family will think... My cousin's ex is doing really good for himself now has a good job and takes really goo...

I am in love with my good friend and he knows this. But he is not yet available. How can I deal with the despair I feel over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I really need advice I am so in love with my good friend and he knows this Last year he confided he was having issues with his girlfriend of 5 years. He said he was really unhappy we got a bit close and kissed twice I was so happy Then he s...

Says he changed his mind and it's not such a big deal! Can I trust him? Was I wrong to get mad at him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend told me he couldn't come with me to see a friend's band play last night because he has decided not to drink/go out at the moment (he is training for a half marathon), but I have just found out he went out drinking with a friend instead! ...

Could his attitudes potentially drive a wedge between him and me, and affect me because of my own pet loving family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - Hi guys, I am so desperately looking for help So there's this guy I really like. And he expressed he likes me a lot. And everything is leading up to the possibility of us dating, except today he said one thing that makes me worried about ou...

He asked me out. I don't know how to answer him, and what will he expect of me?

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30 March 2013 (F) - I'm 13 years old, and there is a boy in most of my classes who keeps on flirting with me. He asked me out once ages ago, but I said no because I was to shy. He asked me out yesterday, but the teacher called on him before I could awnser, then...

I'm crushing on my older trainer. Could he like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Im realizing that I'm starting to really like older men. I'm 16, however i fall for guys in their 20's-30's.. I'm falling in love with a personal trainer at the gym i go to. I try and go everyday, and when hes not there i become upset. I love seeing ...

My brother's friend has a girlfriend and yet he keeps staring at me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4246 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - One of my older guy friends (whom I like a lot but only as a platonic friend) whom I met through my brother last year literally won't stop staring at me every time we meet, despite the fact I don't see him around too much (I'm at uni though I ...

I'm experiencing weird feelings towards a male married coworker! What does this mean and what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - This is going to sound bad probably but I need advice or someone's thoughts. I am married, I've been with my husband for a few years. We have had ups and downs like all marriages, though sometimes I wonder if we are suited to be together forever, we ...

How do I ask my coworker out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4246 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hi guys. I'm really struggling to figure out this guy at the moment. I like him, he's attractive, intelligent, funny and enthusiastic- the ideal package really. He's a about 10 years older but I don't see that as a problem because I've always fanc...

He hasn't tried to hold my hand nor kiss me or anything. Should I believe him when he says he wants to be more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - A few weeks ago I met a guy and we have been hanging out 2-3 times a week since then. I'm very confused by him though. In the few short weeks we've known each other, I've met his family, we made plans months in advance, we are doing couple things b...

Help! My Boyfriend keeps on hanging out with this other girl. Pays no attention to me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I have a problem as my boyfriend is always hanging out with some other girl. By the way we are all in the same class. I always tell him to hang out with me but he never does. That's why I have kind of moved on from him I don't hang out with...

Her crush claimed, to me, that he does not like her. Should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I wanted to know how to tell my friend her crush doesn't like her. My friend and I are very close and we trust each other. Her crush rides my bus so she is always wanting me to ask him questions so I do. Once I asked him if he likes her and...

Flirts. Likes me maybe? What signs confirm if a girl likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I have a friend at uni who flirts with me a lot, but does it in a jokey way. I always flirt back a little, but want to find out if she actually likes me. What's a good way to find out? Whenever I flirt back I just feel I'm continuing the banter ...

I still think he is oh so attractive! Do I say anything to him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I recently found an old classmate on Facebook. I sent him a friend request which he accepted! Here's the thing...I had a huge crush on him in high school, however we didn't share the same friends and never hung out. I still think he is oh so attr...

I'm not sure whether to just hang out with him and see how it goes or just straight up tell him how I'm feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4247 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do. Last summer i ended up hooking up with my best guy friend, we both weren't really sure what we were doing so we ended up sleeping with other people. Then when we realised we were wanting to be serious i told him about ...

Could It Be Possible That He Liked Me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Hi, so it might be a bit late to ask this but I only suspected it now. About 2 or 3 years ago. There's this guy lets call him James. He always said hey(my name)! In a voice like he was happy to see me all the time. I loved the way he said my name. ...

I love my friend but he's very flirty and it depresses me. Should I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4248 days ago

27 March 2013 (?) - Hey guys so I'm just confused here about a situation I'm in. I really like this guy and he says he likes me too, but we aren't together. There's a couple of problems I've been having and I am not sure if it's just me or if it's something normal to ...

Why do girls say this and then they end up liking me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - I'm an 18 year old guy, senior in high school. I don't think I'm a bad looking dude, but def not a pretty boy. When girls see me at first, there are some girls that think I'm cute, some girls that think I'm ok, and some girls that think I'm ugly ...

Is masculine energy in a woman attractive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

26 March 2013 (?) - I’ve become intrigued by this term masculine energy, the more I read about it the more I feel it describes me to a T. I am having trouble attracting a partner and beginning to think that this could be why. At the same time I need my masculine energy ...

Does she truly love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - I'm victor, 22yrs old and i have a gal friend 20. I love dis gal so very much and i guess she loves me too. but ma problem is dat she does'nt come close to me...since i knew her i have never hugged her or kissed her, we don't even hold hands and she ...

Why does he behave this way? I really like him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Why does he behave this way? I really like him:(? There's this guy that I really like. He's constantly staring at me when I'm not looking and looks away and runs off as soon as I catch him looking. Sometimes he's the sweetest thing ever an...

Had a steamy text conversation with my ex-boyfriend's brother. Should I let my guilt win? Or could I take this further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I've recently had very steamy text phone calls with my ex boyfriend's brother. We have liked each other forever. I want to act on it. But guilt makes us stop. I truly believe he could be everything I've been looking for. Should I move on? Stop dre...

Should I ask her again, go for it and make a move, or just give up on her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - Not really looking for an answer, mainly here to vent, but any input would be nice. So I’m 21 and I met this girl, she’s 23 if that matters, from a mutual friend a few months back. I won’t lie, the moment I laid eyes on her, I was attracted to her...

Crush on a Friend. What Do I Do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4249 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - Recently I've randomly developed a crush on my good friend. Now I want to see if she likes me too, but I don't know how to tell her I like her that way without making a fool of myself and ending our friendship altogether. What do I do?...

How do I to stop feeling humiliated after being rejected by a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - A year ago I had a thing for a friend. Everybody in our big circle of friends knew. People kept pushing us towards each other and a few people thought we were actually dating because we spent a lot of time together. For the longest time I thought he ...

He's really hot and cold with everything. Where do I stand with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I met this really nice guy last summer at work who I developed a crush on. I got up the nerve to ask him out and he said yes. The first time we hung out, we went to an outdoor festival thing, and I wasn't even sure if he it was a date or if we were ...

I love a girl who never shows any interest in me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - I love a gril and she never response to me . She only talks to me but also refuses me many time at the be gining she talk to me very much but after i started showing intrest in her she started avoiding me she is very beautiful but i am quite ...

When should I email him and does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - Hey- really brief just want your views. I'm 22 indian- he's 23 muslim- both born bred uk. We work in the same organisation and have monthly meetings together. He is always looking at his phone so i thought has a gf. He is the quiet shy guy , ...

Crush problems, I want to tell him it's just as much my fault as his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - anyway there is this boy ive had a crush on for 3 years. i texted him that he was hot and sexy. he wants me to do sexual things with him. then i made this mistake of telling him i was on my period (im 13 hes 14) then he texted me back saying "what ...

We will be living together (with other friends) from next year, so should we take the risk and get together now, or play it safe?

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25 March 2013 (M) - Hey, So, I've (18 yr old guy) come out of a 3-and-a-half year relationship at the end of January, and I've recently started having feelings for another girl, with whom I have been very close friends with for several months. Everyone, even m...

Why does he joke about me being with other fellas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have a male friend who i have been getting close to the last couple of months. We talk almost every day texting and have kissed a few times. Kind of like a slow burner which is ok. However something that is bothering me is that he keeps joking ...

I fell in love with a boy who lives faraway but only communicates on facebook.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - SO .. I'm in love with a guy .. he's not from my school and he lives near my city ..i see him about 4-5 years and now i started to have feelings for him.. those feelings are very strong it's the first time that im in love like this ..i added him on ...

Married man was flirting with me but now he tries to ignore me. Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1363 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Please don't judge because of what I am going to tell you. I have been flirting with an older married man and he has been flirting back. Long eye contact, a lot of smiling back and forth and all kinds of other things. He is alw...

What's the difference between your "one true love" and your "first love"? Does everyone have a "one true love"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Everyone talks about their one true love and things like that, so is it common that most people? Will most people have a true love and a first love? What's the difference? Is it like (not the best simile I know) your first car say? You reme...

He never told me had a Gf, but I found out. Then he claimed he broke up with her. Based on his actions has he returned to his Gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I’m a varsity student and sometime last year I met this guy who is about four years older than me. I found him very nice and funny. We went out on a few dates and he came to visit me a lot. When we went back to school he told me that he had a gi...

My step sister is falling for me. How can I tell her I only like her as a step sister? I have a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - My parents at separated and my mom has a bf with a daughter. That daughter (my step sister) doesn't live with us,she lives with her Mom who is a lesbian. Her Mom lives with a Gf. My step sister is a month older than me . She has had becom a bise...

I want a healthy relationship, so why am I attracted to unattainable or unavailable older or married men? How can I stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have a major problem and I have no idea how to fix this. I am only attracted to older men I can't have. For example, people in authority or married men. I don't express this to them and I end up beating myself up about it. I haven't been in a re...

Does my crush really like me, or not? I haven't told him how much I really like him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hey so as I have asked before I wanted to see if my old crush likes me. I have been told that he does because he is jealous and stuff. So I ask my friends to see if he likes me and he always says no. They ask stuff like “do u like A" and "...

Truly I actually like him a lot. But I blew him off. How can I make amends now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4251 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - Two years ago, i was in a serious relationship. At that point, a friend of mine had just gone through a break up and he was quite heart broken. He'd call me up and i guess i was there for him, so he started trying to get a bit close......

We have the whole 'lingering eye", smiling action going on -- what do I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - I have been single for the past two years as I got used and decided to wait for a decent guy instead of the next one that paid me a bit of attention. Now someone has caught me eye I have no clue what to do and generally feel like a schoolgi...