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writes: Hey guys so I'm just confused here about a situation I'm in. I really like this guy and he says he likes me too, but we aren't together. There's a couple of problems I've been having and I am not sure if it's just me or if it's something normal to be upset about. This guy I like is a huge flirt. He has a ton of female friends and hangs out with them a lot. He will even text me about what they're doing and stuff, and it can really make me sad sometimes and I'm not sure why. I honestly just get majorly depressed when I know he's hanging out with other girls. I know hes very very close and has even had crushes in the past with a lot of these girls. Plus he's a very flirty person so it worries me. I fell in love with this guy within a very short time of meeting him. Which was about 7 months ago. We went through a period of time where we didn't speak for a while and later I found out it was because he was still in love with one of his very good friends and I know he still has feelings for her now. But recently we have started talking again and I'm just confused about this guy. I feel like all of these other girls and crushes and his flirty personality has just made it to the point to where I don't think I would ever trust him in a relationship...but I really do still love him.I hate it that I feel this way, because I feel like all of his close female friends are so much prettier and better than me and I know he has such a better and closer relationship with them than me and I feel like I just can't compare with them.Is it time to just let him go? Do you think it would be a good idea to continue being just friends with him? Is it normal to be feeling this way? I just don't know what to do anymore, he really is a nice guy.
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reader, R1  +, writes (28 March 2013):
 At the moment this just seems to be a crush on your part. You've not mentioned anything about him liking you back of you two dating. Maybe you need some closure on this. If you think there is a chance he might go out with you ask him out! If he says no you can move on. If you don't think he's interested then leave him to his other women. If his actions hurt your feelings it's just not worth it.
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