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writes:I have been single for the past two years as I got used and decided to wait for a decent guy instead of the next one that paid me a bit of attention.Now someone has caught me eye I have no clue what to do and generally feel like a schoolgirl again!A guy works at the gym I attend, I swim daily and we have the whole lingering eyes, smiling action going on. He says Hi whenever i'm walking past etc but has never approached me to ask for my number or anything. I don't want to think to much into the matter as it might be nothing but if I don't get the courage to go talk to him I might have let a great opportunity pass by. I still can't believe I'm asking such a question but what do I do next?! Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (24 March 2013):
 Props are great conversation starters. I use a hat when I go out. A necklace in a pool is nice. Intimate. Ask him to remove it using a casual voice. Then go from there. Talk to him about his fitness routine to start things off. Its his job to carry n dominate convo. If hes shy be warned usually means lack of confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for your advice! I think next time I see him I will just bite the bullet and make conversation. One of my friends suggested a prop-method e.g. wearing a necklace or something to the pool that I would need help taking off, so I could ask him... Thoughts on that idea?
Thank you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2013): He may be shy...have you guys talked at all?If not, you could just say something like, Hey, my name's ____, I just wanted to introduce myself since I see you here all the time!Then try to figure out if he has a girlfriend...don't ask him directly, just try to figure it out if you can haha. Assuming he doesn't, I'd give him a little time to ask for your number, etc...but if, after a couple weeks go by, this is still going on, don't be afraid to say, "What are you doing Friday night?" Invite him out to a party with you and your friends, or something like that :)
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