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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is this man capable of being faithful? Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I've been with a lovely man for 2 years who has been wonderful to me, including inviting my criminal son to stay with him when he was released from prison. Even when my son stole from him he didn't reject me ( but did quite rightly kick my son out)...

My friend confided in me that her husband was a cheater and then later that night he was hitting on me. Now I don't want to be around them! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts of DearCupid, Something happened to me a few weeks ago that has both shocked and upset me and I don't quite know how to handle it. I am good friends with a married couple who live in the same apartment block. They like a few...

I think anything I did while we were broken up is none of his business!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I broke up with my BF for 5 months. He's married by the way and we had an affair for 2 1/2 years. We have started talking again and want to pursue a relationship but only if he leaves his wife. I refuse to get back to that stressful, wrong mess. ...

How can I stop these urges to be with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - This is kind of an odd question. My husband I are happily married. We have three preciousness little ones. I am bi sexual, I've known since I was young, my husband knows, but lately I've been having urges to be with a woman. I wouldnt act on it, I ...

We were dating exclusively... then I found out he slept with someone else?????

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

25 February 2015 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a few months now. We said both agreed that we are seeing each other exclusively (as i don't like rushing into relationships but also liked him enough to only be interested in him) But I've just found out he slept with ...

How do I sincerely forgive my husband for cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I want to forgive my husband.i want to believe he is willing to reform as he promised recently. He has apologized and realized he was on a wrong path. He is willing to do everything it takes to fix our marriage.We've been together 17 yrs and have 3 ...

I found lip gloss in his car and I suspect he is cheating. Should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I had a dream where my boyfriend told me "I'll always be your friend" and it was basically a break up. Lately, things have felt different and I do suspect another woman is in the picture. His behavior has changed and I found lipgloss in his car he ...

I am pregnant with married boyfrind's child. He is away and I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - I need help. More than ever. I am here all alone with nobody to talk to. I have been with a married man for 2 years. I love him. I truly love him. I know, I am stupid. I have just found out tonight that I am pregnant with his child. He is out...

My uncertainties are ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year. We usually only see each other at weekends bbecause of work commitments on both parts but sometimes we get chance through the week, though this is not often. The trouble is, I think I'm obsessed...

I've recently discovered inappropriate messages between my boyfriend and other girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend left his snapchat logged in on my ipad and my friend was over using it and thought it was my snapchat and saw some things that were quite questionable. There are many message from him to other girls telling them they look extra hot ...

I need advice about my married lover and his intentions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - hello my name is sweet c and i have a problem that i need help with. ok i met this guy and we hit it off the first night and we ended up sleeping together the first night. but the sex was different because he was having a hard time getting up. so w...

How can I cope with this? Hasn't been a good marriage. Wife is leaving me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3548 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - So after five years of marriage my wife is leaving me. It hasn't been a good marriage, with her spending our money and leaving me to pay off he debts, she has ben humiliating me. She makes herself look good, but she rarely helps around the house et...

33 years of amazing mariage but the spark has gone. How can I deal with my wish to leave my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm thinking of leaving my wife after 33yrs of an amazing marriage. It all began three years ago. I was let down badly by people I trusted (including my wife)I needed to feel valued again. I met someone and we began a relationship. I ...

Unavailable and attached....so why do I attract and seem to be drawn to such men? How can I break this cycle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - I need help trying to explain why I only seem to attract, or focus on unavailable men. I am young, and I am seeing an older man, who is married with children. I was seeing a married man, yes this is unethical, and goes beyond values that I though...

Married with kids. She is seeing other men. I love her dearly...but when is enough enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

19 February 2015 (M) - Married with kids. I love her dearly...but when is enough enough? I would really appreciate insight from the outside looking in. I am going to be 100% truthful here. I have no reason not to…I just really want thoughts and advice based on my s...

Feeling of guilt for no reason!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm in a relationship and have been for a few months, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I could not be happier. About a month ago I was out at a bar with friends and family and this guy I used to hang around with kept try...

Need help to move past then when I see the OW all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - My husband told me that he had cheated on me I have decided to stay and see if we can make it work. We have been together for 10yrs and have 3 children hence why I am trying to move on. He has done everything I have asked ie deleted her number, ...

I told my married lover I am free to see others and he said he wants a future with me. Is he stringing me along?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for 5 years I have divorced my husband but my lover is still with his family, he said he cannot leave his children until they are older and less dependant on him, he does idolise his kids.I said I was free to see ...

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no ...

What can I do to help him understand he is ruining our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - Im in a relationship with a younger man there is no doubt on my mind we love each other, he goes to work I am home I rarely go out I pretty much stay to myself before the relationship began I was always surrounded by fam and friends they were always ...

He bounced between me and his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - I keep getting sucked back into a "relationship" with a guy who one minute wants to be with me and the next wants to be with his ex wife. (Separated, not divorced.) I try to walk away or stop him getting to me but he just says the right thing and ...

My husband calls me fat and useless, I think he is cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - My husband Is cheating and denies ces So rude towzrds me and everytime He tells me am So,fat,uselesscalls me idiot.he sends secret messages to a particulzr girl,once i asked himhe shouted and got annoyed of me and pretend he didnt know anything....

Does it sound like he's cheating, or at least flirting with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - Things my boyfriend, of 4.5 years, does sometimes confuses the hell out of me and makes me paranoid. Example 1: (stupid really but here goes): he posted on my facebook timeline earlier "sexy you are yes". It's so random that it made me think he got ...

Should I take her back if she wants me to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

13 February 2015 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me because she wanted to do stuff with other people without having to answer to me and that she doesn't want the title of "girlfriend".And we've been dating for 6 months and I saw a message on her facebook to her ...

I'm finding it difficult to continue living in this atmosphere of deception.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - There was a period of five years in my present relationship, of 20 years, where sex stopped. For me, it was part of a larger package of the menopause, our teenage daughter's behaviour and my partner's semi-loss of potency. In October last year I ...

Did the new girl's attention make me realize the relationship that I'm in is bad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

11 February 2015 (M) - Hi, My name's Dirk, I'm going on 24 next week and I'm in a bit of a pickle. A bit of background story: I have a bad relationship with my parents, have had a decent if not awesome relationship with my girlfriend, Sarah for 4 years no...

My boyfriend has to fight the urge to shag every woman he sees!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of over two Years just admitted something to me that shocked me. He said it felt like coming out in a way and he's confused. Sex is important to him. He basically said that he finds nearly every woman he sees sexually attractive. He ...

Dating one girl but I also sexted another girl online at the same time. How can I overcome how much I now hate myself for doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

10 February 2015 (M) - So i had a girlfriend of 7 months but we broke up.. Anyways i came here to say that i admit that i sexted another girl while i was with my girlfriend...I know what i did was wrong and i know i won't ever do it again (lesson learned) but i felt and...

My boyfriend talks about getting married but I have just found out he is cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months ...we have a great relationship and fantastic sex....his job means he has to work away recently I found out that he stayed in a hotel with his accountant I looked on his fone and discovered he hasn't been ...

Shall I contact the girl my BF is messaging to get her side of the story?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - Hi Almost 4 years ago I found out that my boyfriend was sending messages to another girl behind my back. The messages hinted that there was something going on. I have found out more recently that the girl visited his home but at the time he ...

Why is my boyfriend worried I will find another man when he is gone on a trip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is going away for a month with his family next week. It is an annual trip. I went through one of these trips already where he was gone a month last May. He contacted me a lot while he was away and we really missed each other. We were so ...

I was there for him and he still chose another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - Hi, So I've been dating this guy for a couple months. We made the offical date Nov 20 but its more like Dec 18. We had a thing going on between us (just making out and holding hands) but he never formally asked me out and I told him we aren't to...

What can I do? He wants to still see me, but he doesn’t want to tell

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I were together for a year we were wonderful together... But things started getting crazy. We broke up three months ago but still we were living together. He started talking to this girl and ended things completely with m...

Has anyone else suffered with trust issues that they just can't overcome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - Has anyone else suffered with trust issues that they just can't overcome? I'm 34 and had 3 long term boyfriends, the first of which cheated on me twice with the same girl. The second cheated on me numerous times throughout the relationship and the ...

In love with two men for 25 years...Help, what would you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - Just wanted to know if anyone else has been in love with two people for over 25 years and they both love you back? I am married to same man for over 20 years and love him greatly...dated in high school, got married, had family. However, during this ...

Had a fling with a guy from work who's separated from his wife. We broke up. How do I now keep my distance from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

6 February 2015 (F) - I recently had a fling with a guy that I work with. I knew it was just about sex, and it didn't bother me at first. He had just split up from his wife of four years and I hadn't been with anyone for over a year, and one drunken night, we slept to...

In the past he cheated. Does it ever get easier? Whilst it has improved slightly I still feel so stressed and insecure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3567 days ago

6 February 2015 (F) - Hi all! I posted a question around 6 months ago after I found my boyfriend had been cheating with a women double his age. We had been together for 5 years prior to the year of hell. We started arguing all the time and I ended the relationship- ...

Boyfriiend of 6.5 years cheated. should I forgive him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 6.5 yrs told me today that he slept with a German waitress while working on a ship where he spent around 6 months.I am so numb.Not sure what to say to him. We met 6.5 yrs ago and got attracted to each other though he is 9 yrs olde...

What to do when there are mutual feelings of trust and attraction......but he's married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I can not believe, me of all people, would have this sort of dilemma, but here goes... I work with this guy, and he's like the male version of me. I could sit here and talk him up, but I'll spare my readers. I like him wayyy more than I should, ...

Is he flirting with his ex? I do really love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is three years older than me, I'm 18. He has two kids aged 3 and 4, both from different mothers. We have been together for over six months and I have been introduced to the children. I have bonded a lot more with the fo...

I love him and I'm helping him with health issues, but is there someone else? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3567 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I have been staying with my boyfriend for 5weeks since he was diagnosed of high sugar level, just cos I thought he need me to choose the right foods and psychologically. So far, the improvement has been so wonderful. I started noticing some sha...

How can we minimise the drama caused by us getting together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

3 February 2015 (F) - oh god, please help me. I have been in a relationship for 6 months, and things came to a fairly natural end, however, towards the end of the relationship, i developed feelings for a very recently close friend. We get on amazingly well, talking fo...

Is this guy serious about his girlfriend or is he just a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3569 days ago

3 February 2015 (F) - Hi Agony people! There is this guy that I've just met. On the first day he was nice, chatty, real friendly fella with a good sense of humour but he never metioned that he had a girlfriend. A few days later I found out that he has a girlfrie...

Affair, sex, drugs, lies ... I've got the lot!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 894 days ago

2 February 2015 (M) - So I have been having an affair for the past 8 months ( yes I know I'm the biggest idiot / careless / reckless / selfish person Ass hole in the world) and yes I am asking for help from people who will judge me and make comment Althoe the ...

He charmed his way in and then dropped me like a hot potato!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

2 February 2015 (F) - I have recently started carrying for a guy alot. He has become very special to me. We only have gone out 4 times. Had sex 2 times out of those 4. The last time we had sex is the time he forced his way into my place. By telling me that If i would ...

How do we go about getting back together after he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

1 February 2015 (F) - I've decided that I want to try and make my relationship work with my ex boyfriend after he admitted he slept with another girl. I've had a few months to think about it and I do want to get back with him. He is all I can think about and even w...

My boyfriend says I make him feel gay??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

1 February 2015 (F) - Hi everyone im very new to this but umm ive been with my childs father for almost 4 years now n we hv had many down falls n our relationship from cheating to lying even another child that he brought into this world with someone else we hv moved past ...