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writes:Things my boyfriend, of 4.5 years, does sometimes confuses the hell out of me and makes me paranoid. Example 1: (stupid really but here goes): he posted on my facebook timeline earlier "sexy you are yes". It's so random that it made me think he got me confused with someone else. We hadn't spoken since this morning so there was no reason for it to be posted in such a way as if he's answering a question. I played it off as cool and posted on his timeline that he's sexier but did ask him what it meant and he said he was watching star wars at the time so he posted that on my page.I know this sounds really stupid but things like this happen often that kind of leave me dumbfounded and thinking he's getting me mixed up with another girl. I thought to myself, he had to actually go ON my fb page personally in order to leave the comment so surely he was thinking of me but at the same time things like this happen and I become paranoid. Am I overreacting?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 February 2015):
 I agree - total Yoda.
Though my guess is you either haven't seen StarWars or isn't a fan, so it seems like a bad choice for a quote.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (14 February 2015):
 He was channeling YODA!!! You're being quite paranoid with this one, or shall I say,
"Paranoid you have become. Fear leads to the dark side. Much fear I sense in you."
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reader, Auntie_C +, writes (14 February 2015):
 He was joking with you because on Star Wars yoda talks like that constantly so he was saying you are sexy in the same way yoda talks hun, it's actually kind of cute. Don't over analyze that too much it's really just your head going wild. God bless!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2015): Oh wow, you are very paranoid. Yes, he would've had to search for YOU then go to YOUR profile, and scroll down to the comment box to post that comment. No, it was not random. It was intentional.
Furthermore, because of the nature of cheating, which involves secrecy, if he was cheating, he would be extra aware and extra cautious to avoid making blunders like these.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2015): He was writing in THE YODA impression, NOT as a question... gosh. Anyway, I don't think there is anything to worry about
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