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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I was wrong, I cheated and how do I turn things around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - I cheated on my wife with another woman, she's 29, and now the thrill has worn off. She moans about bills and laundry, and once in anger said "Go back to your ex-wife". Well, I'm still legally married to her, but I quit the marriage for this other ...

What do you think of this married man who gets attracted to all beautiful woman he finds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - At my workplace, there is a handsome man but he is married. He is of the cheating type. He is a player. At one moment he would be attracted to a particular woman and then when he sees another more appealing woman, he will be attracted to this woman. ...

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...

Why does he want pictures of me if he isn't going to save them?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

29 June 2014 (?) - My friend and i started out as just co-workers and then started talking more and eventually things led to where we started talking about him taking my virginity and he would ask me for private or "personal" pictures and I was hesitant at first ...

Need opinions on situation with boyfriend and other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Boyfriend (now ex) is mad at me for reading a facebook message a girl sent me outlining her relationship with him. This girl has been stalking me online for over a year. My boyfriend is incredibly funny, family oriented, loves his mom, nice at...

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

Serious relationship for 2 years. Yet he flirts. He says he doesn't want to be mean or hurt their feelings. But what about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend I seem to have a problem with something - the way he acts with other woman. My boyfriend is what most people would call a 'natural flirt' and honestly it bothers me a lot. We live in a small town and he knows a lot ...

My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl and he had the audacity to tell me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl. When I confronted my boyfriend he demanded who had told me. I ever gave him the name. He then told me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over ...

I fell pregnant, he left me and now I'm having to deal with a miscarriage on my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I had been in an unstable relationship with my ex for 2 1/2 years. He cheated and lied to me god knows how many times and for whatever reasons when he promised to be a better man i always took him back. The final straw was when he turned u...

My girlfriend says she wants my last days to be happy but they aren't because of her flirting and sexting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, Uncles, I really need some perspective and help with my relationship. I caught my GF flirting with someone, proposing to meet them through Twitter and even talking about getting together when I die (I have cancer) a few mo...

Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant but says I'm the one he loves

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Hi,I have a boyfriend and we've bn 2gether four yrs nw,our daughter is turning 2 in September,he impregnated another girl and he told me he doesn't luv her he jst wants to be there for the baby,lately he has been communicating with the grl almost ...

My boyfriend won't let me forget my mistakes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up last year as I admit myself that I could be insecure and I was just unhappy with myself and he couldn't take it anymore. Cut a log story short, we continued sleeping with each other with mainly me doing the chasing as I ...

I have become 'the other woman' to my ex and I don't like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm in a situation where I'm the other woman I feel terrible and I never thought I would get into this situation. Basically my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago we have a child together. He came up to see our child and things ended up ha...

Cheated on my LDR -- do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now.We never had sex,and that was one thing we never talked about.At the beginning of this year I had to relocate to another place for study purposes.After a month or so,I met a guy who wanted us to ...

I'm married and in love with a third person!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Hi folks, i'm in trouble. Long story short, i'm married to a man and now i'm in love with another girl. I haven't done anything stupid called cheating yet but i guess you guys might find this mentally cheating. Things just happened that we sometimes ...

My boyfriend has a facebook page that says he's in a relationship with someone that isn't me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - I recently found a new fb page for my bf who in fact says he doesnt use fb so wasn't going to add me, ths only way I found it was via my mates bf who told me, anyway this new fb page says hes in a relationship with somebody and its not me :( Ive lo...

Is my boyfriend bisexual and living a double life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - Hello I'm really confused and I think my boyfriend might be bisexual or gay. My boyfriend has grown up in an abusive and dysfunctional home. He says he has a lot of family problems with his dad but that's as far as it goes. He gets angry when I ...

I have a partner. Should I be feeling this way when I look at another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - I'm 22 years old. I have been in a relationship with my man for five years on and off. We have a very rocky kind of relationship but we also have alot of happy times too. He works all the time, i never see him. We live together and have a four year ...

What is Appropriate/Inappropriate behavior for a relationship??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - I feel very confused about my current situation with my long term boyfriend, and am looking for some outside advice... We have been dating for a long time. Several years ago, I found out that that he was chatting with girls online, having c...

I've developed an attraction for my friend's husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - Hi there, I really hope this doesn't make me sound like a total bitch. I have become really good friends with the husband of one of my oldest friends. We all get along really well together but we are also friends in our own right. We text back and...

I'm in love with my married best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

15 June 2014 (M) - I am in love with a married women who happens to be my best friend. we have had a kiss and have had some touching but then we plan things and then when her and her husband have an argument she tells him. he is too forgiving but last time when we had ...

My gay friend is cheating on his boyfriend. How can I deal with this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

13 June 2014 (F) - Around four years ago me and 3 friends from school created a gmail account dedicated exclusively to school things. Presentations, home works, things like that, we all had the password to that account and whenever we wanted to store important ...

Why am I putting up with bad treatment from my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

13 June 2014 (F) - Hi and thanks, I've known my ex for about 8 yrs. We were on and off about 4 years. I had broken up the first time around because he was cheating with several women and was on a dating site, plus admitted to having feelings for an ex. We managed t...

My boyfriend's dad told him we were sleeping together! We aren't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

13 June 2014 (F) - I met my boyfriend's dad last year. We have been friends and that's the extent of the relationship. Recently his dad said in front of me and him that I have been sleeping with dad. Why would he say this? Now I have major issue with boyfriend. ...

He told me he likes my cousin! How do I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

12 June 2014 (?) - I worked with this guy and we talked quite a bit, we became friends and then things started going quicker. He had/still has a girlfriend and two kids and one on the way. But He would ask me to send him pictures(nude ones) and I did because well i ...

My boyfriend and flirting on FB, where did I go wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

11 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years we have gotten in a very big fight. He is out of town for work for three months. My boyfriend calls me once a day and thinks it is enough to sustain a relationship. He doesn't acknowledge me on ...

I was in denial when I got married but now I'm in love with a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

11 June 2014 (F) - Hey so I'll try and keep this short. Basically when I was a teenager I always liked girls but I didn't want to be gay I guess so I kept myself to myself messed about with girls but nothing serious. And then I meet a guy one i finally thought I could ...

We've been together for four years but he's still active on the dating site he joined behind my back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our early fifties and been together for almost four years. Our relationship is mostly see each other on weekends.We had an erratic relationship most of the first three years, and had broken up last year on new year's eve ...

My wife is leaving me for another man! How best to be a good father to my son during the impending divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

10 June 2014 (M) - I am 32, and my wife's 29, and have a 5-year-old son. Last night she admitted to me she's leaving me for her co-worker, he's 42, and has three children, aged 12, 14 and 16, he's married but left his wife for her. I feel crushed, heartbroken, my ...

I cheated, feel guilty, feel remorse and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

9 June 2014 (F) - I've been married for 5+yrs to Mr.Right.For some reasons though we were very compatible in every way, we were not happy in sex.3 years passed with busy life,sex was not very important between us.Later for no reason i started getting attracted to a ...

I found out my boyfriend of 7 years cheated on me and I don't know what to do

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

8 June 2014 (F) - Earlier this week I found out my boyfriend of 7 years cheated on me. We were hanging out at the park and he was showing me a text message from a friend that was funny. So i was read it and then decided to randomly look at his other texts for fun. ...

Boyfriend moved on so quickly after break up and I feel upset

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

8 June 2014 (F) - 3 weeks ago, I broke things off with my now ex boyfriend. He was my best friend, someone I've known since high school and we stayed together during our last two years of college. He is the first guy I honestly have said "I love you" to, and he said ...

He wants proof I am telling the truth or he'll take the kids from me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

8 June 2014 (F) - OK so I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years and we have 2 kids. I went through a massive depression stage and I completely lost myself. I was drinking heavily. Well I was staying at his family's home in a different city while he stayed at his ...

My cheater ex-boyfriend will do anything to have me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

6 June 2014 (F) - I have a dilemma! My cheater ex boyfriend wants me back! Here's some background information on my sad little life... He was my first EVERYTHING. We we're together for 3 years and we we're mainly happy. There were times when I doubted his love for...

My past relationships have made me extremely insecure and I keep thinking that my B/f is going to cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) - I have a lovely boyfriend who i have been with for about 16 months. Hes a good man, he treats me well and does do his best. I couldnt not ask for anyone better. I do feel lucky. From past boyfriends i feel i have been extremely traumatised and i am ...

I need help to process this. My husband had oral sex with the daughter of his ex:

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) - I have been married for 3 years and have been having this issue his his ex girlfriend and her daughter. When we got together he was living with her and her daughter and they have been together for 16 years. They had an open relationship to a cert...

I'm too scared to move on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I've recently come out of a four year relationship. I had been planning the break up for some time as he was abusive (mentally and emotionally). He would use emotional blackmail to get me to do things for him and if we argu...

How do I Make him stop flirting and cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

4 June 2014 (F) - We have been married for 16yrs, with two children, our youngest is 16. From 2005 my husband has been cheating on me. In 2010 we almost got divorced but he apologised and vowed to stop and seek counselling but that didn't happen. We have been to ...

Friend with benefits has an ex visiting from overseas and told me not to contact him or visit him while she's here! What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

4 June 2014 (F) - I have been seeing and sleeping with a man for just over 9 months now. Just out of the blue, he told me his ex from the USA is coming over to stay with him for a month. First he said it was without warning, and then his story changed, saying it was ...

Boyfriend wants sex every day and it just isn't fun for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

3 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 2years wants sex almost every day. We have four kids and I work during the week. He works as well but he is his own boss. With 2 babies in the house he does help me during the nights but I feel tired all the time. When he wants to ...

Past relationships have ruined me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

3 June 2014 (F) - I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 21 as well we have been together a year and 3 months. And we have lived together for a year. We both have had a horrible past in relationships. My past relationships has ruined me completely. I was with a guy when I was 15 ...

Just found out that I'm 5 weeks pregnant. That father is a man who lies and cheats. Can you help me with options advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

2 June 2014 (F) - I have just found out that i am 5 weeks pregnant. It came as a bit of a shock as i had broken up with my ex due to the fact that he had turned up at my house with a love bite on his neck! He told me that he was play fighting with his friend a...

Should I keep him as a friend? Why did he tell me he had sex with her? Should I have a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

2 June 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have feelings for this guy. We've been friends for years and his gf and him are on a break because she had to go to uni for 9 mnths now. We have been spending time together as friends. I have visited his apartment. We kissed and...

A cheater who wants out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

1 June 2014 (F) - i've been trying to leave nothing works what should i do.i have been in a relationship for ten years been married for five.after 2 years in my relationship i told my husband that i would like to leave because i'm not happy;he is a scorpio by the ...