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reader, llifton  +, writes (14 June 2014):
 He may be experiencing the onset of dementia, as was previously mentioned. It makes people say and do things they normally wouldn't ever say or do.
Your boyfriend should know better than this. Although I have to admit - it would be quite shocking to hear! But there should be other signs other things are going on. I don't know what else you can do to prove this. Like I said, your boyfriend should know that's absurd. But hopefully he will see it for himself soon enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2014): How old is dad? Dementia or Alzheimer's might be a legitimate concern. Or he could just be an a**. As for Boyfriend try talking to him agains. I can understand believing a parent but try explaining your word is stronger than dads for 2 reasons 1. You are telling the truth and 2. He shouldn't believe dad when dad has proved he's a bad parent (sleeping with him sons girlfriend) dad should have lost sons trust with the idea he slept with you. given that son should trust you more. Although I can understand him being creeped out if his dad says this. Seriously though this old man might be suffering from a mental illness.
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (13 June 2014):
 This to me is CREEPY… and your boyfriend actually believes his Dad and thinks he can’t trust you!?
What’s there to straighten out? Both of them are INSANE!
WaLoS – CAA
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (13 June 2014):
 "Is there anything else I can do to straighten this mess out?"
A humiliating kick in the crotch comes to mind. Get them together and read them the riot act, tell them you won't take this kind of treatment. Then give them a weekend and a six pack to work it out.
FA
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (13 June 2014):
Let's put it this way...Let's say both of you ended up getting married someday...He would now be your father-in-law. How would you feel to have your fathe- in-law trying to sleep with you??
So question is...Is this boyfriend really worth it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 June 2014):
 Is the boyfriend's dad suffering dementia or other age related illness?
why in the world would your boyfriend even believe his dad and not you?
are you leaving information out?
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