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writes:Hi,I have a boyfriend and we've bn 2gether four yrs nw,our daughter is turning 2 in September,he impregnated another girl and he told me he doesn't luv her he jst wants to be there for the baby,lately he has been communicating with the grl almost everyday he call her his angle lovely wife and spending a lot of tyme with her,but he always tells me he luvs me and my daughter,I don't believe him coz a lot has changed since this grl is around,I really luv him and very scared that my daughter will grow without a father as my first born who is now 10yrs did and his dad did the samething m NW scared pls help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2014): "he always tells me he luvs me and my daughter"If he really loved you then he wouldn't have knocked up another woman while cheating on you. He's telling you what you want to hear while he's doing whatever he wants on the assumption that you are dumb and/or desperate enough to believe what you want to believe, and he appears to be right. "I really luv him"How can you possibly love someone who treats you with such contempt? Do you not have one speck of pride, dignity or self-esteem?"very scared that my daughter will grow without a father"Would you rather have her grow up believing that men are expected to disrespect women and women are expected to serve as doormats for liars and cheaters? As things stand, that is the example you're setting for her.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (22 June 2014):
 Your daughter will never be "without a father"..... but she seems to be stuck with a "...dog of a father...."
Sorry to hear that you've had to experience this creep. But that IS "what he is".... and the only "question" that you face is: Do you want to continue on - in life - with him? .... or, do you want to have a decent respectable man for a partner?
Good luck....
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