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anonymous
writes:I recently found a new fb page for my bf who in fact says he doesnt use fb so wasn't going to add me, ths only way I found it was via my mates bf who told me, anyway this new fb page says hes in a relationship with somebody and its not me :(Ive looked at it a few times before asking him about it his reply was his mate must have made a fb pg ip with his name and somehow the girl knows and accepted it :/ (my bf works away)..... anyway when ive gone bk onto fb and typed in the name its no longer there but on thr girls still says in a relationship but without no name. Ive asked him to be honest and if didnt want to be with me to just tell me and his reply to that was of course I would tell u... What do I do im so confused ????
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reader, oldbag +, writes (19 June 2014):
 I agree with anonymous, message the girl, tell her your his girlfriend and ask how she knows your boyfriend.
I don't think you will get a straight answer from either of them to be honest, maybe it's easier, as you don't trust him now, to walk away
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reader, Malcontent +, writes (19 June 2014):
I have to disagree with some of the responses that have been given. Facebook doesn't cause this trouble, the people themselves do. Why worry about whether or not your profile page displays that you're in a relationship with someone and vice-versa. Simply put: who gives a damn? It's just a ton of brouhaha for nothing.
If you're really upset with it, conjure up the evidence, present it to him, and tell him how you feel. If he's still rejecting it, then you either need to find a way to progress in the relationship with him, or break it off entirely. Clearly some trust issues will envelope as a result. But continuous denial from him will lead to no one's avail.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (18 June 2014):
 Anyone that sees FB as actual means of communication or as some great way of self expression is deluded and needs to be hurt. FB should be shuned by all as a pit of despair and a way for a very few to get very rich....pick up a phone for crying out loud!
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (18 June 2014):
 Facebook causes so much trouble.
The fact that you can now no longer see this "fake" profile, means that he has either got it taken down, or has blocked you from seeing it.
It sounds like he is being a player - a woman in every port, so to speak. Someone who he can see when he is "home" and one for "away".
This other girl might not even know you exist, just like you didn't know about her. He could be stringing you both along. Do you share any mutual friends with this girl?
Personally, I would walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014): Greetings
love is based on trust,so you need to trust your boyfriend.if you still have doubt on him,why dont you ask the fb girl,either directly or indirectly(using her friends)?
All the best,hope he is not cheating on you.
-oggyjack
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014): I'd send a message to the girl and ask her straight out. But, that's just me. She'd have no reason to lie to you.
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