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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

She cheated on me with my cousin but now wants me back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - My wife cheated with my cousin she said it was my falt i was in jail at the time she. said she didn't feel loved now I'm out she says she want me back i feel that she was lusting for him but now I'm hurt and don't no if i wanna be with her what ...

Why would she deactivate her profile after mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young. Anyway, things got a little messy. W...

Lying LDR boyfriend is having dreams of me cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I recently found out that my LDR boyfriend have been pretending to be single. The girl he was talking to (I don't know her) messaged me out of the blue and sent me screenshots of texts where my boyfriend is claiming to be single and asking her out. ...

Should I tell him about kissing a guy when I was 22?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I have been married for a little less than a year to a man I love. I could never imagine betraying our marriage ever- I am completely and happily devoted to him. Before we got married, we dated for about 10 years since I was 18- long distance. ...

Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - 6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get ...

Is it silly to date an ex? Has he really grown up and sorted himself out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My ex has changed so much in the past few months, it's like he is a different person. I can't stop thinking about him and now he wants to get back together but I'm still hurting from the way he acted when we were together. So, we were together fo...

Am I wrong to give him a second chance? And I'm wrong for not holding our past over his head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I've been a single mom since my daughter was 8 months old. My ex and I got along and then i found out that he cheated on ( he fooled around with a girl at a party) we decided that we would break up but We have been co parenting my daughter and ...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

My boyfriend thinks I am cheating because I am 'too loose".

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Help, my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and he thinks I'm cheating because I feel "loose", and I feel it to. We used to have sex everyday, but it began to lessen. Now we have sex once every two weeks, and even then I still feel loose, I ...

My husband went out with another girl while we were engaged and now I'm wondering if it happened more than once!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am in despair, and don't know what to make of it. I am married for 2 years, and have a 3 months old child. A week ago i found out from a so called "friend", that during the time when we were still engaged my husband went out with a friend o...

Husband says he can't make love, but I caught him pleasuring himself! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - My husband I have been married for 28 years. Second marriage for us both. He is 71 now and I an 10 years younger. The problem is that I still have a healthy sex drive and since my husband turned 65 he has claimed he doesn't get excited anymore....

I'm pregnant, but who's the daddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - heya, iv just found out im pregant and im not sure who the father is. i found out 4 days ago that i am pregrant and still am not sure if i should keep it or not. there are two possible fathers but there is only 3 days between them, so could n...

It feels like I am no longer good enough for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - Hello Dear cupid ladies and Gentlemen. I'm in a very confusing situation with my boyfriend of a year. For starters our relationship is going straight to the ground. Since January we've been fighting a lot every single day! And he's been acti...

Big Girl with Low Self Esteem. And I just lost my virginity to my married friend. What should I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I’m sort of a big girl who has always had a very low self-esteem because of my size. As a matter of fact, up until a week ago I was still a virgin at 26 thanks to my insecurities. I’ve been best friends with a guy since high school that I’ve alw...

Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...

Dad cheated on mom 4 years ago, still together today, everyone has put the incident behind them but I just can't?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - This is very hard for me to type because I've never spoken about this to anyone. I came here because I feel like I need some advice on this. It's been some time and I still can't move on from this. Sorry for the long post but I could really use some ...

How do I break off this affair with an engaged colleague?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello, 6 months ago I fell deeply for a man who is 16 years older than me who works in the same building and department as me. He began speaking to me online while I was on holiday from work and we got close chatting and joking and staying up a...

I found out my boyfriend has profiles on swingers' sites!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has a profile (or three!) up on swingers sex sites "looking for fun" and stating that he's single. Now he swears they are from years ago when he was single and in fairness to him, it was 2009 when the accounts were created. ...

Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...

I have an uneasy feeling about my husband's use of Cialis and his locked cell phone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - My husband has been secretly taking cialis for some time now. At first my brother in law would give them to him, but as of July last year he has a prescription. Problem is, he uses them even when we are not having sex. I found one in his pocket, he ...

I cheated - is there any way to fix this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - So I've been dating my boyfriend that's about 8 years older than me for over two years now. For the last six months or so, I feel like our relationship has been quite stale and stagnate. I have learned to accept this because he is in his 30s and I'm ...

I got involved with a male colleague who's not single. Now he's cut me out of his life. How do I move on and forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Hi all I'm not asking for niceness but I feel extremely low. I stupidly fell for a guy that was attached, we were good friends and he helped me through a lot of personal stuff, he was with a girl he bought a house with. He told everyone at work...

My boyfriend is acting sneaky with his laptop and phone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of 5 years and have always trusted him but have been noticing recently that he acts sneaky with his phone and laptop. If I come into the room he will swipe everything off his page so that I can't see he also always makes ...

Is history repeating itself? I took my ex back but we have problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - So cut a story short, I met a guy when I was 17, went through some really bad stuff, lying and cheating. Settled down at 19 and had my son, but then he kept staying out all night getting drunk. So I moved back to my mams in may 2012, after find...

No communication from my BF for 9 days. He's ignoring my texts. What is going on and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - Ive not spoken to my bf since 8th Feb, he works away. I held down and tried not to txt or ring but I asked him to ring Friday and never did. I texted on Sat, nothing, and rang yesterday and still nothing. I'm not sure what to do, I cant stop thin...

Does my husband's odd behaviour mean he's cheating or am I being paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

16 February 2014 (?) - Is my husband cheating? I woke up this morning to him throwing on clothes in a hurry. I asked him what he was doing. He at first didn't reply and then said he was going to the grocery store and would be back in an hour. Before I could even get out ...

Should I have talked to my Ex Husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

16 February 2014 (?) - My ex husband and I have been separated for 3 and half years, due to his constant online cheating. After the split, things got ugly and he turned into a very ugly person, calling me names and threats, our kids dont talk to him. I saw him this wee...

I just cant forget and get the trust back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I took my boyfriend back after he cheated on me. the thing is I truely love him and cant let him go. He broke myy heart and i still feel numb. I know it's over between him and the girl, he endedit (she told me- after he ended it as she was angry ...

Am I being paranoid or could he be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and have lived together for 8 months. Recently, I've started to feel a bit paranoid that he might be cheating. I noticed he was getting emails from a swingers website about parties and ...

My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him. I never cheated on him. When we broke up, I dated a couple people but we were broken up for about 4 months. It is so devastating because my ex best friend hangs with him and his friends and they ...

We are talking about patching things up, but I have concerns about her lying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3928 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - I was in a relationship with another woman for about one year. we just recently broke up but are talking about patching things up. We dated casually for a few months, then decided to make it official. During the dating, we never talked about bei...

Cheating and lying partners...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

9 February 2014 (M) - Ive had a girlfriend for 4 and a half years. I met her on an online chatroom , which i was initially dubious about. We started dating and i feel deeply in love with her. After around 3 months i started to have a gut feeling that she was not being ...

Awkward ending to a night out with the guy I used to date. Should I contact him or did I blow it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

8 February 2014 (F) - Have I blown it with this man, and should I contact him or wait and see if I bump into him? I briefly went out with this man last year. I wouldn't exactly call him an ex, we didn't date for long, and we didn't have sex.He still contacts me from...

What do we have together? Is it possible that finally our disparity of feelings has reduced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

7 February 2014 (F) - I've "been with" this guy for over a year now. I put that in quotes because even though we are pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend, there is no title. It's been a long, tumultuous year, filled with a lot of uncertainty and infidelity on his part...

How am I supposed to trust her again? Do I confront her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

7 February 2014 (F) - Me (20, female) and my girlfriend (21) broke up a while ago. Until last month, we got back together. I've discovered a lot about her during the time we were apart. She slept with a workmate, I found out she was on a datingsite, there's a whole li...

For nine years I believed my lover was married but I've recently learned he isn't

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

6 February 2014 (F) - I began this relationship with my lover over 9 years ago and up until a 2 weeks ago believed that he was married because he told me so. He revealed in an online conversation that he was never legally married to the woman he claimed as his wife. N...

I caught him twice being naughty on the internet, talking to girls about their bodies. He promised to stop the first time but did it again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

5 February 2014 (F) - I found my boyfriend was talking to girls on the internet. Telling them they were sexy and complimenting them about their body's, I think he was trying to meet one of them. But he said he never would have. I found out the first time and told him to ...

Getting over cheating - should I have believed him? How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

5 February 2014 (F) - Im married but almost a year into the marriage i found some naked photos on my husband's email. he had sent the photos to his email from his phone. They were of an ex girlfriend of his who he had only been on 3 dates with. When i found them i asked ...

He cheated with a girl who is still his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

5 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and recently he confessed to having a one night stand with a friend after we'd been together about a month. I feel terrible and betrayed and I don't know whether I can forgive him. I know he really ...

Cheating- is it always wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - Is it ever acceptable to cheat? I'm in a marriage and very happy aside from the fact my hb and my sex drives are in completely the opposite directions mines very high and his due to medication is virtually nil, I've lived with this for ov...

I'm having an affair and now I feel messed up, numb and lost. Plus worried about my Bf's reaction. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3935 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - I dont even know where to start. I met me boyfriend travelling.... he came back to my home country but recently we moved back to aus together to start a new life here. What i didnt tell him though was that i know a guy who also lives here. We lost ...

Crushing on a coworker but afraid to lose my boyfriend of three years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) - Hi, Since starting work 5 months ago I have developed a crush on this guy. He likes me too apparently but it'S only ever been implied or said to other people. He's really nice and sweet and when something happens, he's the first person I want to...