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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

It was nearly 8 years ago. We broke up due to his cheating. So why does he still have a hold over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My ex cheated on repeatedly and when I found out it broke my heart. We were in our late teens and it seemed like I would never get over it, as it does at that age. Time moved on and so did I, and after a year or so I felt ready to start meeting ...

Should I believe him? My heart is saying I'm not ready to give up on us

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My world is in bits. My heart has been ripped out of my chest and my whole body aches. I can't believe I'm here writing this. I found out Thursday my childhood sweetheart (5 years together) and the man I love to pieces has been cheating. He h...

I want to be with him but I'm not sure that I can trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My names Tori and I dated my bf for just over a year. I signed up for a summer volunteering placement that involved me spending the summer travelling and doing work in low income communities. I left on June 1st and returned on Monday. While I was ...

I really love this girl and want to trust her but I'm finding it difficult

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3734 days ago

29 August 2014 (M) - Hello guys and girls.. About a year ago.. I had an issue with my girl friend which I reported here http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-cheated-but-then-chose-me-but-im.html .. the TL;DR version is about how my gf cheated on (because I ...

Should I tell my Mom the things my cousin has shared with me about my father and the affair my father is having?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My cousin [We'll call him R] came with me today with news that really shocked me. He told me my dad has been seeing a woman he graduated with who has a lot of money. The other day, R came to my house (I still live with my parents) and I wasn't the...

Ex was on the verge of cheating and blames me for his indiscretion!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - Hi Aunties and Uncles, I was in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years. I recently broke it off with him because he was texting another women. Nothing horribly inappropriate, but eventually he admitted he was attracted to her and started ...

Is there any way to find out whose baby I am carrying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been trying for a baby its been 3 years now i had an affair with another guy we did not use a condom and 2days apart i slept with my boyfriend and only to find out that i conceived on the day that i slept wit my boyfriend is ...

My boyfriend's friend is trying to get him to cheat. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years, we did have a 11 week separation back last year and got back together in February. This separation was due to a change in circumstances and in this break we both dated other peop...

Does my longtime friend suddenly want an affair with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

24 August 2014 (M) - A former female co worker and I have remained friends after she quit her job. She's married I'm divorced. I have been invited to their house a few times over the years and her husband is a nice guy. When I meet this woman for lunch it's been nothing ...

Does him finding ME attractive mean he doesn't find his wife attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I wanted to know if I have done the right thing or was there a chance that he was sort of serious about that me? There was a mutual crush between us, however we are both committed. His wife works in the same place as he does so do I, however, t...

I don't think he would ever cheat on me but is a cheat always a cheat in your opinion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - Hi guys :) I ve been seeing my bf for 8 months now exclusively but i was kinda seeing him (never sex) when he was with his ex. I know its horrible and I feel so guilty. I met her a few times and she was so mean and horrible to him. He said that the...

I'll never make the mistake again and I need to get past the guilt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and love him to pieces. Last Christmas I went to a works Christmas party got really drunk and kissed two people. Nothing else happened and it only happened because I was really drunk. I was ...

I want my boyfriend to forgive and forget

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - i am dating this Boy for Three years now, a long distance relationship and unfortunately we are going down everyday cos i had an affair with a Boy a year ago and My bf found out and obviously was very sad and disappointed in me. But he forgave me ...

I think my boyfriend might be cheating but I haven't confronted him yet. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been dating this guy for almost 6 years. We live together. He works for a pool company and is forever driving around to sites. I found a pink envelope in our car in March this year and when I confronted him he said it was money ...

I think my mum might be cheating on my dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - Im not gonna lie. I love my mother and shes my everything and we are so close to each other. but something weird is happening. One day she told us that we are going to meet a guy she used to know with his family. He has daughter close to my age and ...

We agreed to be exclusive, she says sex with another woman doesn't count!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - I've been with a woman for about a month, we just recently had the talk and decided to be exclusive but not official. Deciding to take things slow. Last night she decided to attempt to see if she could do anything sexually with another woman. She ...

My ex boyfriend wont pay back money I lent him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I recently asked my ex to payback some money he owes me. It's not much (150 dollars) but still, I think it is only fair he pays me back. I know he is strapped on cash and I am doing much better financially, but I don't understand how someone could ...

Why is my married coworker so hot and cold with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - After 8 months, I finally returned to the place I used to work. The last time I was there, I became good friends with a man, let's call him Mike. Mike pretty much taught me everything I knew when I first started the job. He is about 10 years older ...

Advice to give to someone who is being cheated on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3748 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - My friends bf is cheating on her, she knows the name of the girl hes doing it with well my problem is shes got an old phone and a new sim card so a different number and shes going to text him from it telling him not to trust this girl hes cheating ...

Boyfriend going away for 2 weeks with friends. I'm afraid he'll get drunk and cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend since April and been seeing him since January time. In a couple of days he is going on holiday with his mates to malia. I am really afraid he will get drunk and cheat on me. He cheated on his ex on holiday before ...

Boyfriend cheated and got another girl pregnant but I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - my boyfriend made another facebook account hidden from me and the cover photo was a picture with this girl whom i do not know. i accidentally saw their pictures on july 2 2014 and i confronted him but he said that its not what i think thats why i ...

How can I stop hating myself because I forgive her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) - Short and sweet. My best friend of 5 years and girlfriend of a year just up and left me. I found out she messed around with 5 other guys while she was with me. The only way I found out was one of the guys that she was messing with told me cuz he ...

I find attention from other men flattering. Is this bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - I have been with my fiance since we were 13. Although I love him and couldn't imagine my life without him, I must admit I am a terrible flirt when I am out, or in male company. Sometimes I don't even realise I am doing it, for example, the guy who ...

Can all of these negative feelings and anxiety I have be due to the fact he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - Hey everyone so lately I haven't been feeling like myself lately at all!. I can't sleep what's so ever at night. I'm up all hours of the thinking, worried, and stressed out over every little thing! My ex and I broke up in June due to our ...

Can you cheat in an open relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - So I've been in a long term relationship with my partner for the past 9 years. We talk about having children one day and getting married and we already own a home together. We have an extremely happy and healthy relationship and are very open and ...

Sad love story, what should be my happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - I'm a devout Catholic and married in church. I'm here because I feel like my life has had so many twists and turns and I just don't know which way to go anymore. All I want is peace. Happiness and love also, if possible. Should I do the right ...

I know he's cheating on me, why won't he admit it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - I know hes cheating on me ive been told by so many people and his friends its apparently been going on since dec when he moved to b closer to his brothers I've always given him the chance to tell me himself ive dropped hints with suff like if u lik...

He tells me he wants a future with me but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - I'm inlove with a guy who already have a girlfriend and he told me he want to have the future with me a should give him sometime. When I ask him if he still love her his answer is yes.so I don't know what to do becuase I real love him and when the ...

I found out my boyfriend has been using me for money. I don't know whether to hold it together till I find another place or just leave!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - I have discovered my boyfriends profile on a dating website and I am so angry. Have been with my boyfriend for 2 years - we met on the internet and then for 18 months we met up every weekend minimum our relationship got deeper. I have now been ...

Can my child be taken away from me because I had an affair with my uncle by marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - so i will start by saying where i have messed up, i am in a commonlaw relationship with a man that is also the father to my 5 year old, we have been together for 7years and i have never truly been happy with him, i stayed for so long just to make ...

Husband on Zoosk Looking for Men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - I found out last night that my husband is on Zoosk looking for men. This has been going on since at least 7/2012 - but his paid subscription ran out around the end of 1/2014. However he looks at this every 1-4 days. He ha his relationship status ...

As a friend of hers I feel she should know her boyfriend cheated! Do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - So this question is not pertaining to my relationship. My boyfriend is best friends with his cousin jon and since being with my bf for 3 years I'm close with jon as well. Jon can be a little untrustworthy and kind of conniving. Jon has been wit...

I want to stop sexting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

10 August 2014 (M) - Im a 25 year old male and dating a woman we have been dating for almost 5 years and engaged for almost 2 I love her dearly and wouldnt trade her for anything but I have a problem with sexting I get caught doing it then I go good for about six months ...

The man I've talked to online for 4 years finally confessed that he is married/kids. I feel like a home wrecker!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F) - I met a man online in a chat room when I was feeling a bit down and lonely four years ago, we have talked continuously throughout this time. But over the last year, we have grown ever closer and talk every single day. I finally felt ready to meet ...

What should I do about my boyfriend talking with shady girls

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has a history of cheating, not on me but on his one ex. Shortly after he moved schools (we dated for a year back in 9th grade but broke up when he moved) he started dating this girl and they had a very unhealthy relationship. They ended ...

Should the other woman tell the wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - In a nutshell, should the other woman tell the wife? It's after breaking up with the married man (5 month affair), she does care for him very deeply. He has said his wife has seen several text messages and suspects an affair, and that there have ...

I love her, but she cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

6 August 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and had a casual romantic relationship for several months before that. All in all we have been involved for about a year. Before we became officially a couple, there was a guy that constantly flirted ...

I'm worrying about my bf's possible behavior while on his vacation with single friends. Justified thoughts or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - Hello dear Uncles and Aunts, Thanks in advance for reading my story. I'm a little bit (perhaps a lot) insecure about the most stupid things ever and it's driving me crazy. is the next thing I'm going to tell you, justified on my part or....

Phone calls at 4am and her phone never leaves her side. Is she cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

6 August 2014 (M) - I just wanna get some opinions on if others think my girl could be cheating. We've been together about a year but before me she'd had a string of short term relationships. Things have been good but the last couple of months it's been up and down. A ...

I love her but having a normal relationship with her is impossible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - Can I ask for people's opinions? My relationship of two years ended yesterday and I want to honestly know if I am the reason. We met two years ago online, I don't trust people easily because I know what liars some people are. Right off the ba...

My girlfriend doesn't want me to masturbate. How do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - I am in my early twenties and I am a girl seeing another girl about my age. I do not personally think masturbation is wrong but my girlfriend insists that she does not like the idea of me masturbating although I only do it when we cannot be intimate ...

I don't want to confront my boyfriend about losing interest but I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for around 1 year and 4 months, our relationship was great to begin with, I actually felt so happy to find such a nice man. But since the beginning of the year our sex life vanished, he claims he's lost interest ...

We are both married but the emotional affair is such a turn on! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3706 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I met this guy , married with two kids but he is just wow. We have been chatting though for about 3rys. I am now falling in love with this guy , I am married as well. The whole situation is such a turn on idont know what to do. Everytime am with ...

Are these signs my girlfriend is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I really need outside insight on my relationship. All advice is appreciated. I'm a lesbian in a relationship with another woman. We just rekindled in June after not being together for a year. We had dated 3 years before I left in 2013. Anyways my ...

Should I leave him for good for lying and verbally abusing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, but from the second time I met him he talked about a 'friend' constantly. Every time I'd see him she'd be brought into the conversation somewhere. Then after a few weeks he said it was his ex ...

What are ways my fiancé can prove to me he wont cheat again and to regain my trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - So in may this yr. I have to go to jail for some owed back child support. While im gone for 25 days my fiancé takes it upon himself to "not put his life on hold" and decided to cheat. He said he blacked out from within an hr before up to in the ...

Why do I feel guilty even though I didn't cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I am married to a lovely man who I love dearly. I would never intentionally hurt him. Anyway, last week I was at a party at my friends house. No one knew each other, and there was a bit of an awkward silence. I noticed the guy sitting next to ...

I am married but I feel abused badly by another woman I like

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

4 August 2014 (M) - I'm married and I was having problems with my wife and currently we live in different cities but somehow we have stable life and I visit her 2-3 times per month. I knew an ex-coworker since 2008 and in the same city I work (I work now in a differe...

I cheated on my fiance with my ex but only told him we kissed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

4 August 2014 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for over 5 years and we are set to be married in a month and a half. I ended up sleeping with my ex and told my fiancé that we kissed. I was going to tell him the whole truth but he went ballistic anyway. He was ...

My ex lover, who's a married man, won't leave his wife and children for me. But he keep buying me things even though I said I only want to be friends. Do you think he is too emotionally involved to lose contact with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

3 August 2014 (F) - I had an affair with a married man but ended it because it wasn't going anywhere, I ended my marriage and now I'm seperated.Anyway my ex lover started contacting me and I told him that I ended my marriage and moving on with my life,I told him I ...